Hey guys! It's your girl again. Today seems to be a little dull and the rain has been very disturbing since in the early morning.
It hindered and stopped so many people and their activities for the day but all the same, everything will go well I believe
By the way, I trust you guys are doing great so far.
I happen to have a few discussions with my sister and in the cause of the discussion, she mentioned something about online dating.
I know a lot of us were opportune to meet the people we know today online, while for some the case is different.
We have also heard stories of people who met online or on any social site and today they are together, some becoming good business associates, some great life partners/companions, friends, and acquaintances, etc.
But the big question is, how do you view online dating or relationships?.
Like in a case that two people grow fond of each other and they become emotionally attached such that they agree to go into a relationship but both staying far away from each other. It can happen between two different countries, two different states, and even cities and towns.
It isn't always planned and when it happens no one can help of course because no one tells the heart what to do and what not to do
Online Vs Offline Relationships
Some prefer offline dating to online dating while some see nothing wrong with being in an intimate relationship with someone online.
But whatever the case may be, I think the majority will choose offline dating over online because of so many factors and implications.
The issues associated with online dating seems to be higher than that of offline relationships, but notwithstanding both has their advantage and disadvantages.
Certain things favor online relationships while some are in favor of offline relationships.
My emphasis lies on the Online Dating or Relationships.
In such relationships, trust, and loyalty is a major factor and determiner for a lasting relationship.
Where the two are lacking then such a relationship will either be shaky or will likely crash depending on the things that will later arise.
And if I am to make my choice, I prefer offline relationships for many reasons. They say distance makes the heart grow fonder, well in my case I don't believe it and even if it were to be, it's to a certain percent.
One is likely to forget or move on with his or her life especially if they are miles apart.
Two lovers staying apart or far away from each other isn't the ideal thing for me. I don't welcome it except for special occasions or for specific assignments that both are to be apart from each other for a while.
So guys what's your take on online vs offline dating or relationships?
Which do you rather prefer and what's are your reasons for your choices.
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4 August 2021
I have had bad experiences with online friendships/relationships. I know most people hide their real identity and by the time you know them better, the damage is already done.