"Guess and tell me if the bird in my hand is dead or alive," his teacher asked to test him..
The wise little boy think for a moment.
"If I tell you it was dead, you would let the bird fly. But if I tell you it's alive then you might squeezed it to death.Thus,the bird's fate is in your hands, " the wise little boy answered with confidence.
There is no such thing as destined. Our fate; what we have become, whom we are now is the fruit/consequences of our actions. But if you say otherwise, then I won't argue..
@z_graeden again saying I'm open for corrections, criticism and others.Just drop 'em on comment section
For me, what we are is right, or what happens to us is because we allow it, we have created it ourselves. there is the present moment when we make the decision