I'm not extremely introvert are you?
introverts are shy and reclusive. We enjoy being by ourselves and thinking more than doing. We avoid risks, like speaking in public and dislike loud noises. We have a need for alone time and don't always have lots of social interactions with people physically, but when you get to know us, you can see that there's a big side to us!
Being an introvert, at some point you might have felt extremely introvert, like you are a person who does not socialize a lot, do not like taking part in group events and do not enjoy large gatherings, that's not last side of you. Me and myself, I'm comfortable in a quiet setting but also like being around people that make me happy and who share a common interest with me.
Being alone doesn't implies that I have a boring life but to some extent, I deserve to stay in peace and happy with myself.
Being alone is not bad; it's a part of life. Sometimes if you are with some people, you wouldn't mind being alone, because they are just with you and being with them will be more boring, makes you more vulnerable to things that you consider unnecessary, therefore it will be more preferable staying alone on your own. If you are always busy or doing something that's related to a specific thing that needs to done then most chances are it makes you feel happy and satisfied.
As an introvert person, whenever, i'm with close person to me, I still get the chance to do many things which I like to in the real world. Like speaking out loud instead of whispering, dancing in front of others and getting noisy when people are around, Furthermore, I am not the real me outside world in virtual world. I can do much things than real me outside world, speak the way I like and enjoy the company of virtual friends. and this is why I'm trapped in this world, I discovered alot of things on my own and I must confess, I can do alot of things with help of digital word.
Never thought that I can give writing blog a chance, Although, back in those days I love to write but then the passion to write was quite minimal and procrastinating a write-up was my top-notch habit. Now, the story is different and what could hinder me from writing is time and busy schedule.
Do you think I'm going out of the context right? The answer is still a big no because, being alone and idle is very bad but if you have something doing that soothes your ego, desire and as well makes you happy you wouldn't mind doing it again and again. The joy part of it is when you are doing it with people that has the same interest with you, the zeal will be doubled, this is where I'm driving at, being alone and discovering what brings joy while you are alone and not tired of doing it.
You may think you're just a boring, aloof loner, but have you realized that you have passion for people that make peace with you and also makes you happy. Initially, I thought I was an exceptionally introverted person until I realized that I'm actually an extrovert whenever I'm with the people who make me feel at home and also make me happy.
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I have a bit of both. I love my me time and I'm rather introverted in a big group of people, but totally opposite around people I know and feel comfortable with :)