Finally, he is going home! Its been 7 months since Anthony, my husband has been separated with us. His usual contract last every 6 and a half month. Originally he should be home on the 3rd week of January, but last October for some reasons which I already shared in my articles before his contract ended early. He was supposed to be home by that time, but their company changed their decision on the last minute and give most of the crew a new ship assignment. He was transferred to a ship where his brother was on board too. His new contract should be ended by May but on the last week of January, he requested for an early sign off and it was granted. You may wonder why he refuse to extend his contract, there's so many reasons about it. Number one, working overseas most specially in their line of work causes a lot of stress and pressures. He is working in a cruise ship by the way, where you really have to take a lot of effort to please your guests. Who says you can't please everyone? In that kind of work you have to exert all your effort to be at your best. After every cruise your guests will give you a ratings and if it is not good, your salary will be affected as well as your evaluation at the end of every contract. On the other hand, if your guests like your service for the rest of their stay, they will definitely give you a high rating and a big amount of tip. Unfortunately not all guests are kind. There were so many times that my husband received complaints from guests but at the end of day no matter how right you think you are doing, customers can never be wrong and they will be always right. The second reason why he wants to go home is that he wants to be with me I guess. Kidding aside, of course homesickness is the second reason. Even though he is working overseas for more than 13 years he missed us every now and then. I know a lot of OFW can attest to this. The only reason they stay longer because they want to earn more so that when they goes home they'll have enough money to spend. So does my husband had enough money to spend that's why he is eager to go home? Of course not, I think the money he earns for the last month would just be enough for his stay until he comes back. One more reason he wants to be back home is our upcoming celebrations. This month our eldest is going 12 and yes my valentine's day isn't cold. It's gonna be hotter when we are together. Espegee! Okay moving on, next month is our 10th year anniversary too, so it's cool to celebrate it together. We rarely celebrate it because of his complicated schedule at work, so most of the time the celebration would just a video call with different timezone. It was actually my wish before that hopefully we can be together on our 10th year and it will be granted. Hurray! Last but not the least, Anthony is looking forward to celebrate his Christmas this year with us. Usually they will be given a two to three months vacation, assuming that he will be back at work by April or May this year, then his contract may ends before Christmas celebration. Hopefully covid virus should stop mutating because our plans might not prosper. According to his flight details he'll arrive on Thursday at 6:10 am and all of us are super excited for pasalubong I mean my husband presence of course. We'll fetch him on the airport, hopefully this time we won't be at the wrong terminal. π Thank you guys for dropping by and spending your precious time to read my article for today. God bless us all. Lead image source. https://unsplash.com/photos/_g1WdcKcV3w?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=creditShareLink
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Yan problema sis nuh kasi yung mga guest lagi rights. Ang hirap naman nun sis pag Ang feedback hindi maganda maaapektuhan yung salary which is para sakin hindi tama. Super happy for you sis. Pati ako naeexcite. Yung mga kids niyo super excited na makita yung dada nila.
Oo sis kaya super stressful ang trabaho nila kaya cguro mabilis lang ang contract, kasi pag tumagal masisiraan ka ng bait. Kaya yung anxiety talaga sis pati ang kalaban mo dun. Oo nga ilang araw na langπ
Oo sis yung anxiety talaga. Buti mabilis lang ang contract sis. Happy for you sis. God bless always. ππ
Oo sis di talaga kaya kakayanin pag matagal, madami nababaliw dun, dapat mentally at physically stable ka din kasi mabigat yung gawain. Akala ko nga kakayanin ko din magbarko pero base sa kwento ni hubby mukhang bibigay agad ako.
Yung girlfriend ng friend ko sis ganyan din trabaho niya. Mahirap din pala sis nuh.
Oo sis, tsaka madaming imoral dun sis,π madaming nasisirang relasyon kaya dapat laging bantay sarado si mister mahirap na.
Ah ganun ba sis. Kahit saang lugar ba sila pumupunta sis?
Yun ang maganda sis nakakapamasyal sila sa ibang bansa, ako din feeling ko napuntahan ko na sila via online nga lang hahaha!
Oo sis nuh. Ang ganda nun kasi iba ibang lugar ka na makakapupunta. Soon sis balang araw makapunta ka din.
Awee I'm happy with you sisβ₯ There's no such as a happiest life than having our family complete. After all those months of sacrificing there will always a right time to taste all the sacrifice. Sana all hottier hottiest valentines. Hahhaa God bless sa family nyo sisβ₯β₯
Salamat sis, naku most probably eh simpleng date lang gagawin namin just like the usual couples do, un lang may kasama kaming not so little kidsπ
this is a longing to always be with family. Working outside does have to require a strong commitment because you have to leave your family. especially far away from the cruise ship. maybe it's time for your husband to find a job in your location.
Hello my friend, he actually has plan on settling in our location once we are done with some of our obligations. And well if we have enough savings and put up a little business which can give us income for our daily needs.
It's great your husband is coming home finally. I'm sure you and the kids are so excited especially you - the night will be hotter. Espegee! Hahaha. Ehem, 1bar of chocolate lang po.
Hahaha! Ano ba address mo at mapalalamove ko π
Timing talaga ang pag uwi ng hubby mo sis dami palang ganap at happy for you at last this year magkasama kayung mag anniversary.
Oo sis, nasaktuhan nga eh. Para hindi sayang ang uwi nya:)
ayeeh that's great news sis.. of course number one reason is that na homesick na yan.. miss ka na..hehe
Hahaha! Di ko rin sure sis, pag andito naman gusto na umalis lalo kapag wala ng budgetπ
Im excited for you sis. I know how you miss him and being with him will give you such happiness. I hope you able to see him very soon and I will pray for a safe travel.
Salamat sis. Mabuti nga ngayon sobrang maganda yung connection namin dahil may free net sila pero the past years may bayad at super expensive kaya bihira kami magkausap.
This is wonderful, you will get to see your husband after been aways for some months, I hope he has a safe and wonderful trip back home
Thank you my friend. I really wish he'll be home safe:)
Hahahhaa sana all sissy may pang warm up na this coming valentaymsss hahaha. Natawa tuloy ako. Ang kulit. Makikikain is me sissy sa birthday βΊοΈπ
Hahaha! At least mainit ang valentines ko sisπ last Christmas super cold. Hahaha! Sa 3rd week pa bday ni bebe ko sis, yaan mo invited kayo. Virtual nga langπ
Hahahaha ayan, di ka na malalamigan nyan sissy hahaha. Sokolet na akin hahaha
Hahaha! Cge sis, willing naman ako magshare, ang lalayo nyo lang ehπ
Hahahaha sayang talaga. Pero I wish you to enjoy the day sis with your hubby. Excited na talaga yan eh. :)
Hahaha my gosh, gano kaya ka hot yon hotter na iyan ππ€£π€£. Loving loving na ini eheeee. Sulitin ang time together pag nakauwi na at magdagdag na ulot ng baby π₯³π₯³π₯³
πππ Di na keri ang isa pang baby mare at pagoda na akong mag alaga, si hubby na lang alagaan ko. wushu! ππ By the way it's gonna be hottest kabaliktaran nung malamig kong paskoππ π
Hahahaha, abay baka gusto pa ng kapatid nong anakis mo mare hahaha. Ay sya eenjoy at sulitin nyo ang malalamig na gabi ha. Kuuu mahaba habang loving loving areh π₯³π€£
Ayan na ate pinaka hinihintay mong pagbalik get ready to rumble na sis sakto mag valentine na hahaha ihanda na ang lingerie ππ
Hahaha! Alam na this, kapag di ako active ditoππ
Hahahaha okay lang yan ate itaas mo ang bandera natin balitaan mo kami ππ
Hindi ka cold this Valentines sis, lol. I hope he will arrive safely and that you will all enjoy your upcoming celebrations. Family is life :)
Oo nga sis eh, tomorrow na ang lipad nya, mejo matagal kasi ang byahe galing syang US. Salamat:)
I am gals he's finally coming home to be with his family. Homesickness happens to us all. Aside that the stress might have been too much for him. Love and greetings.
Thank you dear :) I am gonna update you soon once he comes home.
Yey, happy for both of you guys. Hindi na cold ang valentines day haha. Ako kailan kaya hindi na cold vday ko? haha! Anyways, stay safe guys!
Salamat sis:)
Finally! Makakacelebrate talaga kayo ng Valentines maam yhanne. <3 Plus, magiging kumpleto na din kayo magpamilya. Happy for you maam Yhanne!
Thank you friend:)
Ayyeeeiii SanaOL ππ kami two years ng magkasama pero wlang valentine's valentine's, πππ anyway sis I'm glad that your husband will be home soon, kung pwede naman na dito nalng Siya sa pinas mag work why not? Mahirap kc talaga maging ofw sis.
Oo sis, ramdam ko yan kahit di pa naman ako nakapagtrabaho sa ibang bansa. Pero base sa kwento nung mga kakilala ko mahirap lalo na kung bago ka pa lang dahil wala kang kakilala.