Illogical Parents

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3 years ago

A very peculiar title, I decided to write about it because of situations that I have seen, that I have been able to observe, but I have to write about this sad thing that happens in many homes, in many families, definitely, in this world, there are many Illogical Parents and you will know what I mean by this.

For me being a parent is one of the strongest responsibilities in the world, because you have to deal with another life, that being, that little one depends on you, not only to survive, to feed or grow strong, but to become good people, productive beings for society, adults who contribute to their environment and know how to face life.

However many people do not see this level of commitment that you have to have when bringing children into the world, if you are not prepared to have children, please do not do it, this is not a video game, in your hands is the future of a country, and it depends on you that the child grows up in the best way, with values, education, commitment, maturity, being you an example to follow.

But many times there are parents who do not know how to deal with the responsibility of being parents, they believe that being parents is to bring a market home, pay for a school or buy toys for their child, then because of life, they decide to have two children, and this is where the problems begin, because you as a father or mother, you can not have a favorite child, you can not have preferences with one and ignore the other, that is very ugly, very sad and heartless.

And when this happens, the future is very sarcastic, because it turns out that that favorite son or daughter, the one that is pampered, that is taken care of, that is given more love and attention, is the one that many times is going astray, giving problems, being real chaos, however, the one that is left aside, the one that is ignored and only taken care of, that is ignored and is only taken into account when it is needed for something special, is the one who gets ahead, the one who studies, the one with a good heart, the one with good feelings, but parents are blinded in such an absurd way, that they ignore these, and follow like a stuck puppy of that child that only causes headaches.

The worst part of this is that this ignored individual, left aside, who is only used, tries to move forward on his own, knowing that he has parents, but that they love his brother or sister more, tell me if this is not something cruel, Tell me if this illogical way of acting of some parents is not wrong, I really can't conceive that, it seems to be a real madness, either you want both, or you don't want either, because both share your DNA, both share some physical trait of yours, ¿Then why do you prefer one and not the other? .

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"Having children doesn't make one a parent, just as having a piano doesn't make one a pianist." - Michael Levine

Some parents have a child who unfortunately is doing bad, illegal, sad things, that dishonor those inculcated values, but even so, they turn a blind eye and support him totally, they are followers, but the other child who works hard, who makes an effort, who tries to get ahead, is ignored, criticized, compared with that brother who came out "smart" and who has "progressed" a lot. That is why I think that not everyone should have the opportunity to be parents because the name is too big for them, they are a real pity, and I hope that all those people who may be that ignored son, can go far, can achieve everything they dream of and are raised, you are much more than you imagine, greetings my beautiful people.


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Indeed, madaming magulang may favoritism sa anak nila. Minsan nga di nila alam may nasasaktan na pala sila na isa sa anak nila

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3 years ago

What a pity that my dear friend, there should be no such thing, because if you have two children, you should love them equally, whatever the situation, but not everyone thinks so

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3 years ago

Some parents aren't fit to be in that category. Something is very common which is "Preferential treatment". They prefer one child to the other because one is acting smart and intelligent. Aren't they children?

When as a parent, you are fond of one child than the other, you are creating enmity among them which isn't right.

A good parent is the one who sees all children as being equal and strive hard to bring the best in them. Treating them equally is the best.

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3 years ago

Exactly my beautiful friend, they are creating enmity, hatred and above all frustration in that ignored son, obviated, discarded, and it is there where unfortunate stories arise, possible criminals, assassins, psychopaths, who feel that rejection and consider the world, than people, that life has failed them, this has many consequences and some parents ignore this

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3 years ago

I agree with this one. I mean, some not all would say, we need to focus on this certain child because he/she lacks about this and that, and left behind the other one as for them he/she already know all. I mean, why is that? If you are a true parent you should know the real responsibility. Both are your children, so that means they need the same attention from you. You are correct that being a parent is the biggest responsibility, that if you are not ready, just do not enter.

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3 years ago

I very much agree with you friend, Right, as parents, both children must be watched over, value them, take care of them, listen to them and give them love in the same way, not just one, because they will simply be creating barriers, problems, and a frustrated future boy or girl, loveless, without love, disoriented and pitifully with much hatred in his heart, for that rejection he received from his parents. Right, not everyone should be a parent

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3 years ago

Yeees! So true with this my friend. Fairness should really be in the family to avoid conflict.

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