Remember eight years, three months and 14 days ago how you messed up?

You used the wrong verb tense when speaking to your boss? 

Ouch, it was so embarrassing; you still get shivers from the very thought… Sounds ridiculous, doesn’t it? Sadly, it’s the reality for some people (such as non-native speakers). Yes, it’s simple to say — it doesn’t matter; it happened so long ago, no big deal. The aforementioned boss almost certainly has forgotten the situation. Yet, these consolation words, even when coming from the mouth of a loved one, do not remove the unrest and shame. Saying that others are going through much worse situations, so a little slip of the tongue cannot possibly be a problem is a denial of another person’s feelings. It’s a form of belittling, even if not intentional.

Events in the past that brought about strong feelings matter — even years later.(Photo: Pixabay)

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