Equal response to every effect
We may feel tired after a busy pace. If we're doing what we love, it's usually physical fatigue. With a little rest, we can recharge our energy.
Those who spend years in unwanted jobs, including myself, may regret not trying to get what we want one day. Actually, I cannot say that I like talking about myself, but it seems more correct to explain some things by giving examples from myself. Because nobody can experience something that they haven't experienced. Our knowledge of a subject we do not live in is very superficial. Even if we experience similar emotions, we don't have the full emotional intensity of an event we haven't experienced.
Just as life and real life experiences in books are different from each other; Our impressions of other people's experiences are equally different. Every experience is different. It includes the duration of the experience, the intensity of the experience and the age factor.
So nobody understands enough about someone else's life. Sadness, sadness; fear, dread; to love, to love, to love happiness, joy; patience, tolerance; serenity; There are different levels of emotion, such as confusion. Likewise, a sharp stone that hits and cuts our feet causes different levels of pain.
Happiness and joy are part of our lives, so sadness and tears are part of our lives. Hiding or ignoring our sadness does not bring a solution; on the contrary, we continue to experience its effects by pushing it into the subconscious even if we are not aware of it.
Of course, it is very important to think positively and put positive emotions at our center, but we should not reject our other emotions. For example, someone said something to you and you were very angry with him. But when we put our anger into it, it builds up over time, causing us to explode and become nervous. Reactions that cannot be given in time grow like an avalanche, waiting for the last drop of glass to break.
As someone who has had emotions for years, I know very well the situations where repressed emotions originate from my own experiences. One day, as a result of all my troubles, troubles, worries, anger and sorrow for years, everything started to be taken away with the slightest fall. It was as if there was a volcano inside me and hot flames were burning inside me. I don't know what to do in this situation. I was giving hurtful reactions to my loved ones at the slightest thing. The worst thing is that I start to react with interest that I haven't been able to give for years. Then I regretted hurting my loved ones.
As time passed, I started to gain a new understanding. Now I was reacting again, but not as aggressive as before. Now I was starting to understand ... Even if it was a joke, it was natural to react when necessary. This is what it should have been. But it took me years to understand this.
`Newton's third law is: For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction. The statement means that in every interaction, there is a pair of forces acting on the two interacting objects.`
A law of physics that reacts equally to every action. In other words, throwing it in is not natural and this causes us to react more intense in proportion to the pressure inside us over time.
Life flows like water. If there is an obstacle in its way, it finds a way or opens a new road and continues to flow. Our lives are enriched by experiences. Wisdom is gained from experience, not books. A person who did not go to school but learned life to the fullest and by living; He may be wiser than a professor with 4 universities, many masters and doctorate degrees but could not go beyond the books.
The difficulties we face in life are an experience. Years of suffering and suffering will one day provide us with experiences that enable us to access more valuable information than gold and diamonds.
Experiences give us the ability to see the world, the universe from different points of view. The wider our perspective, the more our knowledge of the universe will be. Even the content of this article is an expression of my experience. I can tell the same truth in different ways, in different sentences. Because I have my own experience in this matter.
Never underestimate yourself. Your experiences will make you stronger, more knowledgeable. Perhaps someday you will have experiences that will inspire others. We came to this world to learn by experience. Your experiences are perhaps more important than you think.
Thank you for reading.
Is it possible to escape negative energy?
Whatever is in our life, what occupies our minds, what feelings and emotions we feel more intensely, what behavior we express ourselves with, determines our frequency.
When I started to recognize energies, I believed positive energy was great, negative energy was bad. And of course, aura cleansing, etheric cleansing, purification from negative energies began to come into my interest. I was beginning to get away from people I thought to be negative and put myself in a bowl full of positive energy. (By negative, I mean things that prevent me from thinking and feeling positively.) No matter how much I ran away, negative thoughts and feelings followed me. Ok of course it was useful, maybe that period was necessary. So why was I running from the negative? Because I'm scared ... Is fear positive? No. It was clear that there was a contradiction. Running away from the negative, under the influence of a negative emotion, prevented me from releasing it.
This also led to another contradiction. The reason I was afraid was because I unconsciously believed that the negative was stronger than the positive. Why was I running from negative energy if positive energy was really strong? If I am filled with enough positive energy that can transform negative energy. I think it wasn't about the outside world. This was a manifestation of something I lived inside of me. Since I could not produce enough positive energy inside, my energy was going down wherever I encountered something I thought was negative. If everything was happening inside of me then I should have generated positive energy. However, I should have done this without fear of negative energy.
I have lived with conscious or unconscious energies all my life. So why was I afraid now? Energy systems, starting to learn about the divine system made me believe that I was stronger, more conscious and wise than before. Yes, I really learned a lot on an intellectual level. However, internally, I had not developed enough yet. Still, I thought I had improved a lot. Actually, the truth is that of course I had made quite a bit of progress. However, this was not a development that would see myself more advanced than others. Getting Reiki Master, Shamballa Master certificates did not make me a master. Nobody does it either. To be a master is to be the master of your own life. I had to heal myself first.
Teaching others with intellectual, memorized knowledge will remain superficial unless we have access to knowledge internally. Unless we internalize what we know in our lives, the information in our memory is no different from the books in the library. The reader who wants to read. Moments that want to understand.
So I should be able to increase my energy and be a light with the positive energy that overflows me. The best teacher is the best learner. Each person has their own life, lessons and path. Whether we like it or not, we interact with people, creatures and energies that we cross paths with. They are affected by them, and we influence them.
Now I can clearly say that I don't mind being a Master. It is not for me to teach anyone anything. I am not superior or inferior to anyone. The only thing I can do is be myself. I have nothing to do but raise my consciousness and transform myself into the being that I am, my self-being.
But I know internally that when someone truly transforms, they radiate love, affection, peace, joy, and radiance. And these can change the world.
I am writing as it is from my heart. What I write is entirely my own personal thoughts. As with any thought, it may be wrong or it may expire tomorrow.
How do your animals communicate with us?
**1. Communication**
I would like to share with you an interesting incident that happened to me at my previous workplace. Frankly, this was an event that both made me think and happy.
At that time I was working as a private security guard. It was the evening of my shift. We were chatting with my friends because there was no workload. At that moment a cat caught my eye. He was walking around the automatic door. The winter season was quite cold. I thought he might have been cold. I opened the door for him to come in. This time he started going back and forth in front of the search booth. My other friends were in the middle of a deep conversation. And the Cat was trying to communicate with me. I started talking to him. I asked questions like "What do you want to say?" In fact, I always talk to animals as if they were humans. I pay attention to their actions and reactions. Somehow I believe you understand me and I try to understand them. I tried to communicate with that cat like that. What did he want to tell me?
Then he started walking left and right in front of the blood search booth. "What is here? What do you want!" I was asking questions. Then I realized the reason. I saw a large cat food in the cabin. I was so surprised that I can't tell. Our smart cat knew it was cat food and asked me to give her food.
I'm not very good at cats that I want to tell you about. Moreover, I am a little allergic to cats ☺️ I feel like a cold in a house where the cat is fed. But of course that doesn't mean I don't like cats. Actually, we've gotten much better lately.
2. Spiritual support
Another thing I experience with cats is when I quit my job. The recent events in my job impressed me so much that I realized that I didn't want to be there anymore. However, it was very difficult for me to resign due to my loan debt. And I couldn't find another job on the tape. I analyzed both situations that made me choose between staying there or leaving. It felt light and beautiful, even though it was hard to get going. On the other hand, staying was heavy.
Then I suddenly quit and left everything behind to find a job that suits my life purpose. Still, it was sad. It was much more sad to leave my dear friends and upset them. Before my eyes, my favorite friend was crying "Don't go".
That day my last shift was over and I took the shuttle bus to return home. We left the shuttle bus with two friends. We were talking about the situation. Although I looked sad from the outside, I was. While I was talking to my friends, a cat came and started rubbing on my legs. There was a feeling that he was trying to support me. I have come to believe that animals support people in their difficult times.
3. Kavun (Melon in Turkish)
I had a hard time financially this year. For the last two years, I have been working on my financial bottlenecks, at the same time trying to do the things I need to do for this without rest. I am working on this subject in the triangle of wish, intention and action. Although I am not getting the results I want, it is hopeful to see the small results and reap the fruits of my efforts. Anyway, let's go back to our topic.
I went to the sea several times in the summer. I traveled as much as possible. This summer has been better for me than the previous summer. One night towards the end of the summer, the sound of a kitten was heard. He was constantly crashing. I thought it was because he was looking for his mother. Although the weather started to cool a little, it was not cold. I thought it couldn't be cold inside. Although I went out and looked, I could not see where he was.
How many more nights continued like this. Then one day my great niece heard a cat noise throughout the day and found it. She gave him milk. The cat, whose tail was trembling in milk, recovered a little and started following my niece. He would come when his stomach was hungry, then he would go. My nephew bought cat food for him and now he started feeding the cat with food. When he was full and used to us, he became inseparable. One day two children were trying to get the cat that got used to us, but the cat was running. One of the boys said the cat was ours. If it were, the cat wouldn't run away from them. I said they were not. Hu times started singing a friend of mine. Because my dad doesn't like cats very much, "Buy it if you can." I said. Of course the cat did not want to go to them.
Anyway, as we fed, our cat started growing and growing. My nephews also named it. My nephews called it "Kavun" because it was yellow. Now we started calling it "Kavun". Both Kavun and us Kavun are very used to each other. Before I could even open my eyes in the morning, he was trying to bite me by getting around my feet. It inevitably made me laugh and brought joy to the house. Cuddling my front paws and trying to bite my leg really made me laugh.
Later, my nephews wanted to take Melon to their home. We bought it with my uncle. It has grown considerably now. They bought him a collar with a bell at the end.
As I understand it, animals are smarter and smarter than we think. They communicate with us somehow. If we pay attention and want to understand, we can somehow understand them. I'm not very good at this yet, but it is possible that we can mentally understand what they want to tell us. Sometimes it's an emotion, sometimes it's a thought, sometimes we understand its behavior. But they are in contact with us.
Trees can feel us.
I read a lot about reiki when I took the Kundalini Reiki Initiation. One of them was about being able to give reiki to trees and plants. A tree with dry branches caught my attention where I worked.
In the middle of the night, I started giving kundalini reiki energy to that tree. As the Kundalini reiki started flowing into that tree, I felt a surge of energy surrounding me. As I understood it, the tree was responding to Reiki energy. Either he was taking me to his aura or he was hugging me. This is how I felt. I have never felt such a strong energy in my life. And this was far beyond verbal communication. The dull and unaware trees we saw could feel us. Understanding this is something that really changes my perspective.
Why shouldn't those majestic creatures that can feel the energies feel our touches? Of course, the flowers that we carefully water every day feel our love.
I now believe that inanimate objects, even stones, are alive. The universe is a bigger creature than we can imagine. This suggests that there are different dimensions of intelligence that are perhaps impossible for us to understand analytically.
If I get the chance, I want to share an event with the cats tomorrow. I cannot be very active due to my illness. Thank you very much for reading.
Is aggression really a show of strength?
Throughout history, aggression has been seen as a way of demonstrating strength. It appeared in the form of violence, persecution, oppression, and invasion. Our human history is full of wars, struggles for the throne, overthrown governments, rebellions ...
Humanity has also made progress in industry, technology and science, perhaps up to a point. We also made great progress in the fields of art, medicine and aesthetics.
Is war really necessary?
Is it a development to sacrifice our lives and possessions to own more land, to ignore the lives of others and to confiscate their property, to fight for the spoils?
Wars, all kinds of violence, aggression… These are the opposite of development. These are actually weakness, illness, and regression. Development means growing, integrating. It's like the unification and integration of different people living together over time.
In fact, we have lost in every war throughout our human history. War means losing for both sides. Humanity is humanity that loses while fighting itself. Every blood that flows is the blood of humanity. Even if a person is injured by another, it affects all of humanity.
We would develop as humanity if we spent the time, labor and money we spent on weapons for wars in the fields of science, art, aesthetics, medicine and social development. And so wars may remain one of the past mistakes in human development.
When a virus infects the body, the whole body becomes ill. When we have the flu, we are not saying that we have the flu in our nose or throat. We say we have the flu. During the pandemic process, we understood better that the corona did not affect a certain group, but the whole world and humanity. We are fighting Corona all over the world.
In fact, humanity reacts to this situation we live in like a single living thing. Although we cannot see the whole from our current perspective, it shows that everything is one and that everything that exists is a part of the whole. Our cells make up our tissues, our tissues, our organs and all of our whole bodies.
With the same logic, every body, every person, every living thing, every being forms a whole. Our cells are alive and are part of a larger creature, that is, us. We are also part of a larger creature.
If your nails break, it affects our whole body. Therefore, if the human being is a bigger living thing; If a person gets sick, all mankind gets sick and humanity suffers.
Aggression is a disease that affects all humanity. The times of the First World War and the Second World War are times when humanity was suffering, damaged, weakened and impoverished.
If there is an attack, the defense will also improve. However, a strong body can fight illness easily and quickly. It may not even feel its effect.
Aggression, war, anger, revenge are not strong. Rather, they are all treatable diseases.
If aggression is disease, what is the real power?
Acting for the good of the whole, showing the goodness of the whole in everything such as love, solidarity and support reinforces a positive attitude, activity and emotion. Being destructive is weakness and makes it even weaker. Being constructive is a sign of being strong.
I write articles with an intense thought filter. However, somehow there may be erroneous statements, typos or misunderstandings.
Thank you very much for reading.
The process of starting a new relationship after a relationship that ends.
We build relationships with others throughout our lives. Our relationships are at different levels and distances. When we feel safe, we shorten the distance. The shorter the distance between us, the easier it will be for the person we relate to affect us, our lives.
Sometimes in these close relationships we experience negative situations, we get hurt. In fact, even if we believe that what we are doing will hurt us, we enter a close relationship with that person from a distance where we could be hurt. Even if we know deeply that it will hurt us, we'd love to try it.
Sometimes we talk to him about our sensitive aspects and expect him to be careful and sensitive. But somehow our sensitive points are touched and we suffer.
Sometimes we are not aware of our sensitive points. We become aware of these points when establishing relationships. As we become aware, our attention will be on these points and the dynamics of the relationship will take the form of "Approach - Move away". We move forward with every contact we make with our sensitive points and eventually end our relationship.
When we leave a new relationship, the pain of our injured areas continues for a while, and when the pain passes or eases a little, we think we are ready for a new relationship. Even worse is starting a new relationship while our pain is fresh. We think or hope that the new person entering our lives will heal our wounds. Yet the wound is still there, and our new relationship continues to hurt similarly.
In such cases, the new actor entering our lives is different, but the role is the same. Similar relationships, similar events, similar pains are experienced over and over again. This vicious circle continues as long as we do not experience awareness, transformation, purification and healing within us.
The first thing we need to know here is what these sensitive points are. As an example, I want to mention the issue of deception:
Our topic is a final relationship to which we are attached. We can ask a question: Why was I deceived?
It doesn't matter how we are deceived. But the real answer to why we were cheated can help us analyze the situation. Let's write our answers:
* I'm not remarkable enough because I don't take care of myself much,
* Because I'm not the most handsome man / most beautiful woman in the world,
Cause I'm not good enough and there's better than me
* Because the person I'm in is better than me (attractive, smart, intelligent, superior),
* Because I'm not perfect
Let's dig deeper than we found these or similar answers. Now let's put the word "Why" at the beginning of all answers.
* Why am I not remarkable enough?
* Why am I not the most handsome man / most beautiful woman in the world?
* Why is the person I am relating to is better than me (attractive, smart, intelligent, superior)?
* Why am I not perfect?
Let's write our answers:
* Because I don't feel extraordinary.
* Because I don't see myself handsome / beautiful.
* Because I feel inferior.
* I don't have what it takes to be perfect.
Let's ask why again and write the answers:
* I do not feel perfect, VALUABLE or extraordinary.
In fact, the answer almost always reveals belief in INVALIDITY and INSTABILITY. It is our feelings of VALUABILITY and INABILITY that we need to resolve and improve.
Our relationships are painful because they create these feelings. When we feel truly valued and sufficient, that pain will go away and we will begin to build healthy relationships.
Obviously, if we are aware of our own values, these behaviors will change our preferences and lives. If we know our own worth, people who care about us will enter our lives and we will easily remove those who do not know our worth.
Thank you for reading.
Definition of success from a different perspective.
Definition of success from a different perspective.
Success has always been taught to us as reaching a goal. The perception was created that the first to reach the goal succeeded and the others failed. So when someone arrives at their destination, others usually say "I'm lost". At this point, he often gives up.
Sometimes the first person to reach the hypothetical finish line believes they won. It stops progress. Others continue to progress, albeit more slowly. The person who thinks he won by racing and gives up is actually a failure.
In any case, we can either support ourselves or weaken it. The process is actually a neutral situation. Even success or failure mostly depends on how we define it. Success is personal. Since everyone's process is different and we are the only one we can compete with, this means: "The further we go, the more successful we are." The only loser is the one who gives up. But every step is a success when we decide to move forward.
When we think in 3D, we can see someone else's process and our own process as the same line. It might look like this from this point of view. But if we think in 4 dimensions, these are different lines, different paths that seem parallel to each other. Being the first to reach the default finish line doesn't necessarily mean success. Sometimes trying to reach someone else's finish line can delay our success process. Or it can distract us from our own path of success.
Success is often associated with achieving a specific goal. However, every point we progress on our path of success is success. Every obstacle we overcome is a success. Every step we take is success.
In my opinion, success is not something that happens when we reach a certain goal, but the process itself. We can think of this situation as a journey that we enjoy at every step. Each time a step is taken, a line is formed, and it doesn't matter if it's straight or curved. We are always ahead of this line and there is a long line that we leave behind. As long as we move forward, success will continue. This is not a race. Everyone has their own line of success and lifestyle. In this case, we come across two options:
1. We will embark on an unsatisfied journey full of competition, stress and ambition until we reach the finish line.
2. Or we will realize that every step we take is a real success and make a pleasant journey.
I will now have a coffee and enjoy it after this article. If you like, you can accompany me with a cup of coffee. Thank you for reading.
Honesty and Healing?
Why honesty?
I have been working on harmony with the universe and divine system for a long time. Doing good activities, helping others, working for the good of the whole, purifying myself internally, etc. However, no matter what I did, I couldn't find a way to overcome the bottlenecks in some issues.
During this process, I observed that the old system did not work much. For example, I have tried many studies to increase abundance. Energy studies, Grigori Grabovoi number sequences, Esma-ul Husna Studies in the form of mentioning the Names of Allah mentioned in the Quran ... In short, I tried to do everything I could on this subject. While all these studies and systems were useful to a point, for some reason I could not cure the source of the problem. Of course, it was sad to see that the problem continued, although I saw little benefit.
Then I wanted to pour out my heart into the universe, the divine system, God, the angels as it went through me. This is an inner conversation of course .. And while doing this, expressing myself honestly was the most important point. The more honest I was, the more accurately I could express myself. At certain times in my life, this kind of inner conversation was the work that relieved me the most. This time I wanted to do this work again.
In fact, helping charities with large sums, reaching out to hungry children in Africa, working in charities for free, etc. Although the activities are beautiful and virtuous, the reason we do them is of great importance. So being honest is again the most important issue.
For example, let's say you are a healer doing healing sessions. The more you believe in healing yourself, the easier it is for your client to heal. So when we say what we believe, when we do it, when we practice it, we behave honestly. If we do not believe that the system will work, it is not honest to apply it as if it will work for someone else. Therefore, I believe that it is more appropriate to believe ourselves first, to work with ourselves until we believe it works.
I wanted to tell you this honesty rule that I realized. Whatever we do, doing it honestly is more important than perhaps doing huge, important social projects without belief.
I was aware of the importance of honesty even when I wasn't dealing with issues such as energy systems and personal development. But it took time to realize that the working system of the universe is based on trust, belief, and honesty. The first condition of being a reliable person is to be honest. Honesty gives confidence, both to ourselves and to others. Trust is a condition of believing. If we fully believe that the universe will somehow heal, we can easily be healed without the need for any system. When our belief in healing is full, we honestly help other people to heal.
I believe healing can take any form. Sometimes a single word, a smile, or an awareness ... Even if we do not know how the healing will take place, our belief in it can be complete and undoubtedly unlimited, perhaps immediately, perhaps completely at the appropriate time.
The healing source of the universe is unlimited. Healing has no shape, no limit. It is our belief and our trust. I cannot say that I am an expert healer in energy systems. However, I know that sometimes even a single word can comfort a person. Even while chatting with someone, healing can occur. Or, healing can be achieved with a sincere greeting or a sincere smile to a person passing by.
Sometimes we read a book and we start healing in the lines of that book. An article we read may help us to heal by solving a blockage in us.
One day someone comes along and a single sentence becomes a turning point in our lives. Words, words, letters, pictures, symbols can be healing.
Sometimes something or person enters our lives and becomes the last piece of the puzzle and the puzzle is complete. Honest is a very important part of my puzzle. I have no idea how much of the big picture I can smell. I also do not know when the healing will occur. I just believe it's important to be honest in everything I do so that I can see more of the bigger picture. I know that when I am happy I give happiness, when I am at peace I give peace to those next to me.
Although I do not know how much I can heal others, I know that healing also starts with myself first. It is not possible for us to give something that is not ourselves, nor is it possible for us to see something that is not ourselves. Love, hate, happiness, joy, healing are within ourselves. The love we feel when we love someone is within ourselves .. And so is anger ...
Wishes Happiness, Hope, Peace, Joy and Healing ...
Joy of life
With the same kind of movies, similar events, and some health issues, I felt my life had become monotonous and something had to change. In fact, although I dared to change my whole life with one decision, I realized that I had not done so for a long time. Frankly, the change is a bit scary, and while I have a very logical reason not to change it, it's a contradiction that it doesn't make much sense to continue in the same way.
Whatever the case may be, it is clear that something must change, but this time I decided it would be more appropriate to have internal and external changes triggered by it rather than fundamental changes.
First of all, as I know that my health problem negatively affects both my work and my private life, I think that the first change should be surgery, if necessary, despite all my fear.
In this process, I wanted to find entertaining movies, series and efforts that would keep my inner motivation high. Although I normally prefer science fiction and mystery movies, I now believe it is best to get psychologically into the comedy genre better. Although I am a very negative person, seeing that I cannot think positively as easily as before, both encourages and awakens me.
So when I first mentioned local comedy movies and comedy shows, I started watching Friends series. It is a very entertaining series that is very enjoyable to watch. Since I've never watched it before, I watched it until the 10th episode of the 9th season. I had a lot of fun and I think I will watch it every season.
I don't want to think too much about serious issues these days. Life somehow puts before us what we need to live. The issues we already live in are "What am I going through?" Instead of thinking and questioning, it makes more sense to let it flow and experience what is needed when necessary.
Also, I cannot write constantly. I can only respond to your comments when possible. If there are movies like "Friends" that you know are fun, I am open to your suggestions.
The importance of our health
Hello friends,
I have been struggling with the disease for 4-5 days. Thank God it's not a contagious disease. However, due to the pain I have suffered in the last 4-5 days, I am experiencing a very troubled period. Since yesterday, I have been able to recover a little thanks to pain relief needles.
Yes, suffering is really hard. Moreover, it increases the suffering more when it is constantly. I will go to check on Monday. Whether surgery is necessary or not, I think it will be clear on Monday. I think it has become more difficult to be treated in hospitals due to the pandemic. In these days when the whole world is struggling with Corona, we all understand how precious health is.
If even the troubles and pains suffered during a normal illness can affect us so much, God help our patients struggling with the corona. God bless our doctors and healthcare staff.
I would like to continue writing here whenever possible, but forgive me if I cannot respond to your comments. Thank you very much for all your comments and financial and moral support.
I had to go through this to appreciate my health. If only we could understand how important blessings even simple things we do in daily life are without suffering pain, suffering or illness. But whatever happens to us, of course, there is a reason. This message can sometimes be an opportunity that empowers us, gives us wisdom, and we can experience life in a more equipped and powerful way.
Everything that happens to us teaches us something. I hope it will lead me to share with you the knowledge and experiences I have gained at the end of this process. The first thing I have learned right now is that my family, who is always with me, and our neighbors who do not spare their support, are wonderful people. Second, I realized how valuable even the things we see simply are.
Love and greetings to you all.
I am sick and will not write for a while for this reason. I hope you'll get better soon and get back to you with new articles. Forgive if I do not respond to your comments. With love ...
Listening to the Voice Within Us .. (Higher Consciousness and Ego)
There have been times when we all talk to ourselves from time to time. Since this situation is perceived wrong by our society, we actually take care to do it secretly from others. ☺️ We believe so much that self-talk is insane that we turn our ears off to our inner voice. However, listening to your inner voice and asking ourselves questions is our natural state, contrary to popular belief. However, we should pay attention to the difference between our inner voice and the voice of our ego.
In fact, what you do is simply this: We ask the question we are curious about and we listen. I did not mean whining, cursing, or saying, in ourselves constantly. In this case, it is usually our ego that speaks. Our ego constantly speaks, speaks, complains, complains ... There is a huge difference between the voice of our ego and our inner voice.
To understand which is our inner voice and which is the voice of our ego, pay attention to your feelings.
What are the differences between the inner voice and the voice of the Ego?
**Ego's voice:**
1. They are uttered, complained, complained, dissatisfied.
2. When the ego speaks, negative feelings such as anxiety, fear and anger awaken within us.
3. The language of the ego is coarse.
4. It is critical, condescending, insulting.
5. Compare. It is the ego that tells you that you are inferior to others and that you are superior to others.
5. As the ego speaks, disturbing emotions rise in us.
6. Speaks loudly mostly.
7. Thinks for himself.
The voice of our higher consciousness:
1. Our inner voice is comforting. Our inner voice makes you feel positive emotions.
2. Speaks with love, points to love.
3. Supporting, encouraging, empowering.
4. Speaks mostly in a low voice.
5. Our inner voice is the voice of our higher consciousness. As we listen to it, we feel better, more peaceful and safe.
6. Empower and motivate.
7. Speaks for the good of the whole.
As we listen to our inner voice, we learn to activate it when talking to others. When we act or speak for the benefit of others, we align with our higher consciousness and allow our inner voice to speak. In fact, our inner voice is the voice of our higher consciousness.
The feelings of love and unity raise our consciousness to the consciousness of love and unity. When we feel ourselves belonging to the whole, when we observe the good of the whole, act with love and speak with love, our consciousness aligns with it. The higher the love within us, the higher our consciousness becomes. Our mind calms down. Our inner peace rises.
Thank you for reading. 🙏
It doesn't matter if it's physical or emotional. Violence is not acceptable.
We have been exposed to emotional violence throughout our lives. Insulting, humiliating, insulting, mocking, humiliating are some of the known examples of emotional violence .. Discrimination, sexism, racism and so on. Unfortunately, there are examples of emotional violence.
Although everyone says that it is against violence, emotional violence is often done without even realizing it. Although physical violence is clearly denied, it can be ignored that emotional violence does at least as much harm as, and sometimes even more, than physical violence. However, while physical violence harms the body, emotional violence can open deep wounds in the soul.
Even if physical wounds heal, it may not be that easy for wounds opened in our soul to heal. Those who have experienced trauma in their life know this best.
Even though traumas have been experienced in childhood, they are Spiritual wounds whose effects continue strongly for many years.
The wounds on the soul are as important as the ones on the body. Physical barriers may not be an obstacle if there is no spiritual trauma at its source. However, although there is no physical problem, if there is a mental problem, pain, wound, trauma, this really prevents our life.
For this reason, a person who cannot be successful in his life, although he has no physical defects or problems, may have deep wounds.
For this reason, we must be aware and not open deep wounds to anyone's soul. This affects everyone, even if there is a person suffering on earth. We are all part of the whole. We inflict on ourselves every harm we do to another person. Even if it takes time to see the effects of this, one day we will surely see it. This is where we condemn someone is an invitation to live what we condemn. One day you return to what we condemn without even realizing it.
The only thing we have to fight in this world is evil. Every war against man is to lose. All humanity experiences its consequences.
When thoughts change, feelings change too. When our feelings change, our lives change too.
The greatest good that can be done to the world, to ourselves and to humanity is to love and to spread love.
Rules and Justice
There have been rules in our lives for a very long time. Even if the rules change from country to country, from city to city, between cultures, there are always rules.
I had to obey many rules during my school years due to age. For example, we were not allowed to grow hair in high school. Anything that was not under his direction, such as necklaces, bracelets, and earrings, was strictly prohibited. A few times I was not taken to school because my hair exceeded the thickness of the fingers. I was asked to have my hair shaved and come. Of course, I missed the first lesson, sometimes the second lesson during this time ...
Should there be rules? Why must there be rules? What is taken into consideration when determining the rules? Do all the rules really exist to make us better, beautiful, happy and safe?
Frankly, I have never liked the unnecessary rules. So what is the difference between necessary rules and unnecessary rules?
The rules must be for all of us to lead a safe and peaceful life on equal terms. For example, there must be traffic rules. It is also one of the very important and necessary rules that the carrying of weapons is subject to license, except for law enforcement officers, security guards and military members.
Rules aren't arbitrary, something someone puts on their head, and they shouldn't be. Of course, there are also rules determined by society apart from the rules laid down by law. For example, smacking your mouth while eating is one of the rules he sees as impudent. In some societies, it is also seen as bad for women to wear short skirts or dresses.
A murderer who raped and killed a woman for wearing a miniskirt said, "He turned me on." If he defends himself, this shows that the society is mad and the rules are not for people to live in peace, happiness and freedom.
In ancient times there were rules that dictated women to sit at home, cook, raise their children, and serve their husbands. It's still a rule accepted in some regions.
Let me tell you clearly: I am not a woman. But I must say that a society that accepts such an absurd rule is at the height of ignorance.
Rules should be for human beings and fair. For example, it is forbidden to smoke in the recreation room in the area where the personnel work. However, if bosses, directors and chefs enjoy smoking their cigarettes in their rooms and if their staff can be punished for smoking while working, it shows that these rules are not fair.
Let's say you have tea, cigarettes, etc. at the security guard's point. drinking; eating something; reading newspapers, magazines and books is prohibited. If the security chief can walk around with his tea, coffee and cigarette in his hand, and his directors can write a penalty to the security guard for watching them on the computer screen with his coffee and drinking tea at the spot. This is not fair.
It is unfair for the managers to go to their homes with the special vehicles allocated to them in a workplace where the personnel go to work with the personnel service.
While even security guards pass body searches in some areas, it is unfair for any manager, chief or official to be exempt from body searches.
If the rules are for everyone, they must apply to everyone. If it is not so necessary, it should not be applied to anyone.
In fact, there is such an absurd, unnecessary rule applied according to the person and position that it does not end with counting.
A female friend of mine proved wrong in court for beating a man who was talking to her. Speaking and insulting is as much a crime as slapping.
Everyone is a human, regardless of their position, position, position, gender, language, religion and color. Justice is not something that is applied to the person. Crime is a crime for everyone. The rules apply to everyone and should be for all of us to live in peace, security and equality.
Rules should be for us to live safely, equally, in peace and happiness, and justly. If there is no justice, there is no equality, there can be no talk of peace, happiness and a safe society. And when making the rules, be logical, remember that everyone is human.
The peace, freedom, security, equality and justice of the society should be the main rule.
In a place where there is no justice, there is no peace, freedom, security, happiness and equality.
Every pain heals ...
**Life is unbearable sometimes,**
Day after day, pain, fears, worries will be unbearable. We think it will not pass, we say the pains will not end. We cannot look tomorrow at those moments because we see tomorrow is dark, terrifying and ominous. Despair has surrounded us all around. On the one hand, stomach problems and digestive problems have also emerged from constant stress. We pray to get rid of this situation, but we think there is no answer to our prayers. Because our ears are blocked and a curtain has fallen to our eyes. One of those days, our brain, tired of thinking, has stopped thinking.
**At that moment the transformation begins,**
Then for a moment a sparkle appears in our mind, a spark. What if all the hopes are really over… What if all the ways out are not closed… At the end, hope starts to sprout again. A sparkle begins to spread within us. The more we hold on to hope, the more it shines and spreads to all of us. It shines so brightly that now it begins to surround us and even overflow from us and illuminate our surroundings. Every particle that remains in the dark begins to illuminate. The sun has risen in us now. We are beginning to shine like the sun. The place of fear, worry, love; happiness replaces sadness, joy, joy; hopelessness has been replaced by hope and trust.
**Let there be light in our lives,**
Peace, happiness, joy, joy, trust, hope and Love have dominated our lives now. Everything is illuminated with light and embraced with love. Our prayers were accepted and our voices were heard. We are not alone, and we now realize that we are never alone. It is as if divine aids, supports, miracles and blessings have filled our lives. We know that now one thing was needed, to believe that every problem has a solution and to hold on to that belief with hope.
Leaving the past behind frees us.
Does leaving the past free? But how? How can we leave the past behind? Is it really possible to leave the past behind? These have been questions I have been looking for answers to for a long time.
Recently, I realized that someone who came out of my past life and bothered me is trying to get back into my life. However, as a result of my intention to heal my past life and create a future as I wanted, I could not understand why such a thing happened. I realized that I did not want these pieces from my past life to enter my life. If so, what should I do? That was the question I asked myself.
Sacrifice
There have been times in the past when I wanted the happiness of others more than myself. I used to think that if I made others happy, I would be happy myself. Giving and sacrifice were great virtues for me. That was the case for me, until I gave it away from myself and reached the point where I was exhausted.
There was something I should know about this, but it took me time to learn.
Accepting - Giving Balance
What can you give to a person who doesn't know how to take? If a person doesn't know how to buy, how can he attract money, abundance and love into his life? When someone tells you that they love you, can you really feel that you deserve to be loved, that you are loved? If you do not believe in people who say they love you and approach you with love; Can you tell yourself that you really deserve to be loved?
Or when someone gives you a small gift, treat or money, "No, thank you." are you saying
Don't you wish to have the money and take the 25 kuruş that comes before you on the road?
Do you really know the importance of buying? Frankly, I'm just learning this. I now believe that everything, even small, has value that the universe somehow gave me. "What's this got to do with leaving the past?" I can hear you say 🙂 I'll tie them all up nicely.
Taking makes us happy, giving makes the person we give happy. When we establish the balance of receiving-giving, we are simply exchanging happiness. We take happiness and give happiness. However, when we make sacrifices, that is, when we always give, we give from ourselves. In other words, we gift our happiness to the other person to be happy. When we are unhappy, we start to give unhappiness, anger, reproach, and restlessness. Often, our exchange with the other person continues, if the other person wants to be happy and cannot find him with us anymore, he leaves us and goes to another place where he will find happiness. And we say, "I haven't done anything wrong." we say. "Is this the reward for so much sacrifice?" we rebel.
So where did we go wrong? What was the truth?
Giving can be as happy as receiving. If you are happy, your happiness reflects on the other people and makes them happy too.
How can we be happy?
There is no rule for happiness for everyone. At least I don't know. However, you can still know what makes you happy. Everyone else can only know your reactions. For example, if you are laughing, they may think you are happy. But only you can know if you're really happy or not. When you realize what makes you happy, you have found your compass.
If what we are planning to do (making dessert for our spouse, buying a birthday present for our friend, going on a family holiday, etc.) makes us happy, this is not a sacrifice and it will probably be very enjoyable.
For example, because our spouse likes sweets, we make sweets for him even though we do not want it; that is, we expect our spouse to be happy; however, because we are not happy ourselves in this case, we sacrifice for a possible possibility of happiness. On top of that, when our husband did not enjoy his favorite dessert because of a problem he had at work, he said, “I have made such an effort for you. I spent half of my day on this dessert. However, you did not even say thank you. " We can bring it from our lover's nose. However, if we had made dessert with love, willingness and happiness, we would have enjoyed at least half of our day. Moreover, if we offered the dessert to our spouse with our eyes shining with happiness, the happiness reflected from us will be transferred to our spouse. In this way, our spouse will enjoy your dessert after a bad day, with the happiness reflected in your eyes.
In short, if you don't believe that you will be happy doing what you planned, you probably won't be happy when you do it.
How do I know if something will turn out well without doing it?
If it gives us joy, happiness and joy when we dream of something; When we actually do it, we have similar feelings.
For example, let's assume that we are faced with a business opportunity: If we think about this job, we have pleasant feelings and feelings; What we will feel when we have this job will give similar feelings to these feelings. Likewise, when we think about that job, if we feel uneasy, if we feel tightness in our stomach and stomach, we will have similar feelings when you have that job.
In fact, we receive intuitive information in a variety of ways, be it internal, bodily, or visions, about how something might end up without it. Somehow we know, but we have trouble when you listen to our logic instead of our intuition.
If we have positive emotions and feelings before we do something, when we think about it, it means that we will be happy while doing it. If it feels positive before and when we do something, we can know that we will feel positive at the end.
In the light of all this, should we include a person who comes out of our past lives and tries to enter our lives again? I remember very well that I gave to that person without expecting a response in the past, that he was happy and I was unhappy while giving. My intention was only to help someone who needed help. However, I felt obliged to help him because I didn't want it, but because I did not see it as ethical to leave someone who needed help alone. I was giving him my energy, precious time, and happiness. This had strengthened him up to a point. However, the opposite had also weakened me. Of course, there was a logical reason in his own way that he wanted to be in my life again at the end of the past 10 years. But…
The main question is: Do I want it in my life? Even his request to enter my life is enough to cause trouble in me, but what happens when he comes into my life will be trouble in the same way.
So what kind of life do I want?
My past experiences have been experienced, for good or bad. My experiences have been lessons I took. If there is anything from the past that can make me happy, of course it can be in my life today. But sacrifices are now a thing of the past. If the lessons you take do not change you or make you a stronger person, you will repeat the same lessons.
You are not just your past. Constantly contemplating the past, sticking to the past, causes similar things in our past that you were not satisfied with in the future. What you do today determines your future.
You are not just your choices. You are the conscious being of these choices. You can make different choices and walk different paths.
When you make a choice different from the choices you have made in the past, you change your future. When you are aware of your choices, you are also aware that you are creating your future.
When you leave the past behind, when you are aware of the present, when the effects of your past disappear in your choices, you freely make choices and become free.
If you stop making sacrifices, in the balance of giving and receiving, you are happy every time you give, you also know to take and enjoy it happily you will receive happiness and be happy.
I posted this article in a different language long ago on my blog. I hope you enjoy it.
3 Great Movies showing the Power of Love
Today I wanted to share 3 inspiring Indian movies with you. I love Indian movies when it comes to emotional and inspiring movies. If you love movies full of love and haven't watched the movies I mentioned yet, I definitely recommend it. Also, if there are similar movies that you can recommend, I would be very happy if you comment.
1. Bajrangi Bhaijaan
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=4nwAra0mz_Q
**Production - Year:** India - 2015
**IMDB score:** 8.0
**Genre:** Action, Comedy, Drama
**Director:** Kabir Khan
**Casts:** Salman Khan, Harshaali Malhotra, Nawazuddin Siddiqui, Kareena Kapoor Khan https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Salman_Khan
**The Subject of the Film:** This is the best movie I have seen in my life. This movie will make you feel to your heart that love is a sublime feeling that covers the whole world without discriminating religion, language or country.
Shaida is a 5 year old girl. His family regrets this situation of Shaida, who cannot speak from birth. Her mother decides to take her from Pakistan to India so that her daughter can speak. While the train is waiting at the stop, little Shahida gets off the train to go to the lambs she sees through the window. Unable to notice when the train set off, Shahida was left alone in unknown lands.
While wandering the streets alone, he encounters a man named Bajrangi Bhaijaan. Bajrangi, who wants to help the little girl, cannot learn anything about her because she cannot speak. Luckily, Bajrangi learns that the girl is from Pakistan and decides to take her to her family. In the end, the two set out together on this challenging and adventurous road. Whatever happens to the man, he is determined to find the girl's family. If I had made a ranking from best to best among the inspiring movies, the first place would definitely be the movie "The Power of Love". If you have not seen this movie, where you will find a unique example of Unconditional Love, I strongly recommend you to watch it.
2. Taare Zameen Par (Like Stars on Earth)
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=F-PAI2HnQUo
**Production:** 2007 - India
**IMDB score**: 8.4
**Directors:** Aamir Khan, Amole Gupte
**Casts:** Darsheel Safary, Aamir Khan, Tisca Chopra, Vipin Sharma, Sachet Engineer, Tanay Chheda
**Genres:** Drama, Family
Ishaan Awasthi, who has dyslexia and has difficulty understanding letters and numbers, is a child who constantly gets unsuccessful grades from her classes at school. Thinking that his father failed Ishaan because he didn't work, he sends him to boarding school. Although his mother struggles not to send her son to boarding school, she cannot protect herself from her father's anger and prevent her from being sent to boarding school.
Ishaan, who continues to fail in his lessons at the boarding school, cannot get along with his friends and is constantly fighting. This situation continues until he meets the art teacher Ram Shankar. Realizing that Ram Ishaan is a lonely and unhappy boy, he wants to help him. Realizing that Ishaan is a special boy in a short time, Ram helps him to realize and develop his own abilities. You should definitely watch this movie, which is among the inspiring movies.
3. Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=eBi8syxPd14
**Production:** 2008 - India
**IMDB score**: 7.2
**Director:** Aditya Chopra
**Casts:** Shah Rukh Khan, Anushka Sharma
**Genre:** Comedy, Drama, Music
**The Subject of the Film:** When Surinder (Shahrukh Khan) sees his old teacher's daughter, he gets so caught up in him. The girl Taani (Anuska Sharma) she falls in love with is younger, lively and also engaged. On his deathbed, Taani's Father asks Surinder to take his daughter Taani under his guardianship and marry because Taani's fiancée and his entourage accidentally die on the road. Surinder, who is very shy and single at the same time, marries Taani, but Taani loses her former happiness and belief in everything due to the death of her father and fiancée. Surinder is by no means able to restore Taani's former happiness. They are not like a husband and wife, but like two strangers. But Surinder, her husband, loves her like crazy. Surinder decides to give Taani a new image and identity when she enrolls in the newly opened dance class. Suddenly it begins to transform into "Raj". With the help of his friend Bobby (Vinay Pathak), he transforms from a simple and shy character to a hilariously lovable and just as smiley. They become dance partners with Taani. "Raj" makes himself love and laugh in a very short time to Taani. Taani does not understand that Raj is actually her Husband Surinder and falls in love with her. In the end, only one question remains: Who does Taani actually love? Is it Raj who is sincere, funny and sincere, or her husband Surinder, who is simple and monotonous?
Thank for reading 🙏
Sources:
https://m.imdb.com/title/tt3863552/ https://m.imdb.com/title/tt3863552/?ref_=nv_sr_srsg_0
https://m.imdb.com/title/tt0986264/
https://m.imdb.com/title/tt1182937/
The Importance of Conscious Curiosity
Perhaps the best feature that distinguishes human beings from other living things is the feeling of curiosity. Because curiosity allows us to open ourselves to new information and improve ourselves.
However, it is of great importance which subjects we wonder. The quality of our curiosity determines our level of consciousness. Because whatever we pay the most attention to, that level of consciousness is limited. However, we are beings with infinite consciousness potential.
The biggest difference between the person who is curious about his neighbor's new car and the person who is curious about the reason for existence is the difference in consciousness. Both will receive new information. However, it is mostly the quality of acquired knowledge that determines the quality of consciousness. The quality of the information acquired is directly proportional to the level of development.
In any case, the knowledge acquired affects the development of human beings. Knowledge helps raise consciousness. However, the source of information is consciousness.
As human beings developed, they realized the importance of information. As technology and the internet developed, the importance of information was understood. If you know enough about something, you can define it, shape it or change it.
The information collected about us in the advertising industry is based on displaying personal advertisements for our interests, likes and needs. Maybe there is more.
I do not want to go too far into this aspect of the work. Atomic energy provider can be used in chemotherapy or bomb making. Although the atom is part of nature, using it for good or evil is a choice. And every choice has consequences.
As I said at the beginning, the source of information is consciousness. The height of consciousness positively affects the quality of the acquired knowledge and how it will be used. Love is the only way to reach higher consciousness. This is a choice, and every choice has consequences.
The Light at The End of The Dark
We were stuck between work and home for a while. Anxiety and stress about the corona now and then our health and the economic crisis ...
Spiritual masters who have experienced enlightenment have one thing in common, which is very interesting and indeed promising. Almost every awakening or enlightenment experienced a great difficulty, depression or illness before.
"The darkest moment of the night is before dawn." Maybe you know your word. This is actually a normal cycle of life. In fact, it is the good news that the sun will rise after what we see as the darkest.
No matter how dark it is, the sun will rise again and everything will be lit.
Of course, it is certain that the difficulties we faced during this period were the problems we struggled with. We should know that there are no unsolved problems, no unanswered questions.
Undoubtedly, everything that happens in our lives has a reason. Maybe it is very difficult, but it is the difficulties that make people stronger.
Hazrat Mevlana said, "One candle does not lose anything from its light by igniting the other." "It is not easy to be a candle. To shine a light, you must first burn." says.
Darkness is just an absence of light. Scientists inventors and artists make their discoveries, inventions and works in the most calm, peaceful and inspiring moments, not when they work hard.
To reach the answers, one needs to listen, not to think constantly. When we learn to listen, it is surprising to realize that what we are mostly looking for is as close as the tip of our nose.
Inner peace is the state we are when our mind is silent. Inspiration comes in those states of peace. Inner peace is the raising of our consciousness. We are spiritual beings that can move into different levels of consciousness. Yes, we have a flesh and bone body, but we are more than that. We naturally have the ability to rise to higher levels of consciousness. The height of consciousness has nothing to do with intellectual knowledge. When we reconnect with our spiritual self, we can connect with the channel of wisdom.
Love is a very high level of consciousness. The higher levels of love are feeling love and compassion for all that is.
There is divine love in Sufism. This is love of Allah. This is to love the creature because of its Creator. This is to burn with divine love. It is to disappear. The person who reaches the highest level of this is called Kamil Human. Kamil human definition and Adam Kadmon are very similar to each other.
I learned these from the articles I read in books. So these are intellectual knowledge for me. But I have often noticed that the answers are in me.
You, too, increase your intellectual knowledge by reading this article. But intellectual knowledge can only help us reach the truth. Unless consciousness is raised, one cannot perceive higher information, i and this information does not mean anything.
Even if we read libraries of books and remember all religions and scriptures, we can only access a tiny fraction of wisdom. Knowing spiritual teachings, energy systems, having master certificates, getting intellectual knowledge from our master can only help raise our consciousness.
Even at a high level of consciousness, we encounter such information that our brain cannot interpret it, we want to teach it to others, but we cannot. Because this is not a knowledge that can be taught.
A conscious person does not consider himself superior to anyone. If he does, this is actually evidence of his consciousness raising. Love, affection, self-love can only raise consciousness. God is divine pure love. One who has no love in his heart cannot have anything to do with God. The source of wisdom is God. Where there is no love, there is no wisdom. God is pure light.
Where there is light, darkness cannot rule. The darkness can only be explained by the way that God's light is not there. However, it is impossible to be a place where God does not exist. God is everywhere. So there is divine God, love and light everywhere. Seeing the light shows that we cannot perceive it. If our consciousness is not yet high enough to perceive light, we will see darkness. Darkness doesn't really exist. The only thing that exists is God, Love and Light.
This article is not an excerpt, but a product of inner inspiration. If you ask where I know, I can answer your questions.
With Love ...
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The 7 Spiritual Laws of Success
The 7 Spiritual Laws of Success
1. The law of inner power
The source of all existence is pure consciousness. Inner strength seeks to bring into the world the unlimited power that awaits to be born. When we realize that our true self is a pure creative force, we are united with the force that manifests everything in the universe. ”
Deepak Chopra
2. Law of Import and Export
If you want to create abundance in your life and fulfill your desires, you must both receive and give, because every relationship is a relationship of receiving and giving.
3. Cause and Effect (Karma) Law
Deepak Chopra summarizes the law of karma in the book as a method of making conscious choices and witnessing. We make a choice every moment, right?
The places we go, the words we say, what we eat, what we drink, to get angry or to smile, to continue or to end. Here is the question that we should ask ourselves in these elections, sir: Will my current choice make me and those around me happy? What could be the consequences of this election?
"The right action is the action that happens at the right moment," says Chopra ... And this requires one's awareness. For this, he suggests that we listen to our body. If we keep silent while making a decision and observe how our body reacts to that option, it would be easy for us to distinguish between right and wrong.
In the right actions, the body experiences a sense of comfort, and in wrong actions, unrest, fear and anxiety.
4. Least Effort Law
Nature's perfect intelligence is based on the fact that it works smoothly, effortlessly and easily. This is achieved with the principle of least effort and non-resistance. Let's say the grass is tearing itself to grow? Or fish for swimming? To bloom? Because this is their true nature and the way they are. Just like babies' happiness for no reason. Says Deepak Chopra; It is human nature to manifest dreams easily and effortlessly. Here's the thing: little effort, more work.
5. The Law of Intent and Desire
At the mechanical quantum level there are no exact, clear corners and boundaries. Your nervous system becomes aware of the energy and information content in your quantum field, and you can change this content that makes itself felt in your body with consciousness and awareness'. With a simpler expression; With your intentions and desires, you can consciously change the energy, content of your environment and your world.
This allows you to meet your wishes.
The primary movement here is 'attention'. Mindfulness gives energy, intention transforms. That is, whatever you direct your attention to in your life develops, grows, and you experience it.
The things that you take away from attention will fade, disappear, disappear.
6. The Law of Mental Independence
"Cars, houses, planes, clothes ... These are temporary symbols. Chasing after symbols is like looking at a map instead of living in a country's territory," says Dr. Deepak Chopra.
Dependence on the result (that house, that car, more power, beating someone, clothes, etc) comes from a poverty consciousness and is always directed towards symbols.
Only when we can keep ourselves out of events, memorization, and symbols, we reach the level of mental independence. That's when we draw joy, laughter and creativity into our lives. Thus, our enthusiastic actions bring us success, and then the symbols we want.
So we must first believe in the wisdom of the unknown. In other words, we must silence our minds that are resisting, holding on, constantly looking for assurance and of course not finding it.
7.The Purpose of Life (Dharma) Law
We've been in a tremendous effort since our childhood, right? The effort to get good grades, the effort of our family to love us, the effort to enter the best school ... Then give your hand the effort to find a job, the effort to find a partner, the effort to make a living ... Effort and effort! Our whole life is passing by with effort.
However, Deepak Chopra says; "Everyone's life has a purpose. A unique gift, talent to share with others ... When this unique talent is blended with service to others, we experience the enthusiasm of our own. That is success, wealth."
You know, "Well, I'm going to work, working, getting tired; why is that?' We ask ourselves the question. There is always a lack, dissatisfaction and sadness inside us ... The reason for this is that we cannot find our life purpose, our Darma.
We think we are running late, we are on the wrong track, we are getting old, conditions are driving us. Yet it is not so. Today, even now, we can find our life purpose.
**Sources:**
Deepak Chopra "The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success"
Ayşe Özyılmazel https://www.sabah.com.tr/yazarlar/gunaydin/ozyilmazel/2016/05/26/basarinin-7-spirituel-yasasi-no-7
Ways to Get Rid of Negative Thoughts
We've all noticed that there are negative thoughts in our minds that keep repeating from time to time. Considering these, we have witnessed that our levels of anxiety, anxiety and stress increase. As the intensity and duration of negative thoughts increase, anxiety, anxiety, stress and anxiety that gradually increase in us may become chronic over time and cause serious disorders such as depression and panic attacks. For this reason, it is important to know positive thinking habits and to get rid of negative thoughts.
Below I have shared methods to help us get rid of negative thoughts.
Ways to Get Rid of Negative Thoughts
Being aware of the negative thoughts in your head is the first step towards getting rid of them.
The most obvious feature of negative thoughts is that it lowers your energy level. This will increase your boredom and upset your mood. You can do activities that keep your energy at high levels.
Replacing your eating habits with energy-boosting foods may also be a different practice for you.
It is impossible to prevent thinking. For this reason, you can separate negative thoughts by labeling them. For example, you can create a label in your mind like "my opinion is negative right now". This way, you will prevent thoughts from taking control of you.
Imagining negative thoughts drifting away from your mind is another effective method. Or you can try the "turn off" option by specifying an "x" mark in your mind. You will notice its benefit immediately.
After you "turn off" negative thinking, try to think of things you like. Think about the things or people you wrote down on a piece of paper for 5 minutes with 5 things you liked or the names of 5 people who made you happy. When you fall back into negative thinking, you will notice that it becomes less severe.
Hobbies are an effective method in negative thoughts as well as in many negative situations. Negative thoughts can lead to addiction in your mind. In other words, it causes you to waste your time by constantly keeping you busy. To prevent this, you can try to have a hobby that you enjoy doing that will free you from negative thoughts. Thus, negative thoughts will not be able to take control of your life.
Try to be positive. Look at life from its positive side. In other words, try to see the full side of the glass. Let yourself admit that life is not all about bad things. See the positive things in your life and try to think about them.
There are always positive things in your family, work and school life; try to deal with them. Make positive thinking friends or try to meet people who will make you think positively. You will see that positive people increase your energy.
Concentrate on your hands, create positive visuals in your eyes and mind to stimulate positive thoughts.
Create a scrapbook to keep alive the positive thoughts, events, experiences and situations in your life and record them routinely. Check out this notebook as you dive into negative thoughts.
Create pages full of photos or images that depict things you want to embody in life. Prepare several sheets for a week. Review the book you create on a daily, weekly or monthly basis, depending on your personal goals. Imagine that you created this book that will probably be very special, interesting and surprising so that positive events will enter your life, and if you don't want to, don't share it with anyone!
Be gentle, compassionate, and compassionate to yourself. Don't blame yourself!
Finally, an interesting suggestion; Write down your negative thoughts on a piece of paper and throw them away!
Thank you for reading.
Trust yourself! (Osho)
A newlywed man was returning home with his wife. They were crossing a river with their boats; but suddenly a great storm broke out. The man was a warrior; but despite this his wife was very scared. Because it seemed impossible for them to escape from the storm. Their boots were very small and the storm was so enormous that they could sink at any time.
But despite all this the man was sitting quietly and calmly as if nothing was happening.
As the woman trembled with fear, she said to the man: ‘Aren't you afraid?
This may be the last moment of our lives! It looks like we cannot reach the other side of the river. Only a miracle can save us, otherwise we will die. Are you not afraid? Did you go out of your mind?
The man laughed and brought his sword quickly to her neck as he unsheathed it. The sword was so close to her neck that it almost touched her neck.
The man asked the woman: "Are you afraid?"
Then the woman started to laugh and said:: If the sword is in your hand, why should I be afraid? I know you love me.'
The man sheathed his sword and said: This is my answer to you. I know God loves me; the sword in his hand, the storm in his hand… whatever will be good. If we can survive the storm, it's good, if we can't, it's fine too… Because everything is in his hands and he will never do anything wrong.
This is the confidence that a person should absorb. Such trust can change your whole life. If you trust the universe, you will soon calm down and be quiet; you will be happy and joyful and feast; because the universe feasts. The universe is not sad; it is a song, a beautiful song and dance goes on. Be a part of this dance and trust in nature; this is the only way. By trusting yourself, you will trust the God who created you. If you don't trust yourself, you don't have confidence in the God who made you.
Source: e-motivasyon https://www.e-motivasyon.net/kendine-guven.html
Photos: Pexels https://www.pexels.com/
20 Fabulous Quotes from Eckhart Tolle, Author of 'The Power of Now'
Who is Eckhart Tolle?
**Eckhart Tolle** was born on February 16, 1948 in Germany. He is one of the spiritual teachers and writers of our time.
Eckhart Tolle completed his university education at the University of London and the University of Cambridge. He lived with his father in Spain until he went to college. He experienced a great spiritual enlightenment while on the verge of a great depression.
This change continued with this experience. Over time, he devoted himself to education and writing in this field.
1. "The past does not have the slightest power over the present."
2. "The primary cause of unhappiness is not the current situation, but your thoughts about it."
3. "Stop trying to define yourself and don't care about what others think of you. Because when they define you, they only limit themselves. That's their problem."
4. "To love is to notice yourself in someone else."
5. "Realize that the present is all you have. Make the present the focus of your life."
6. "Life is not as serious as our minds think."
7. "Take this moment as if everything it contains is your choice."
8. "Everything you see and oppose in someone else is also in you."
9. "Time is not valuable because it is an illusion. The more you focus on time, the past and the future, the more you miss the present moment. So the more valuable thing is."
10. "You cannot find peace by constantly trying to improve your life conditions. You can only find it by realizing who you really are."
11."True love is not selective. Just as sunlight is not selective. The sun does not pick a single person and illuminate more."
12. "If you fight something, you will always make it stronger."
13. "The secret of life is to die before you die. And so realize that there is no such thing as death."
14. "Anxiety and sadness seem necessary to us, but they have never been seen to bring any benefit."
15. "Enlightenment has nothing to do with what you believe. It is just a structure of consciousness."
16. "There is a difference between happiness and inner peace. Happiness depends on the realization of situations that we describe as positive. Inner peace is not."
17. "Pleasure is always obtained from outside things. Joy rises from within."
18. "All true artists, whether they know this or not, create their products through a process in which there is no thought."
19. "You cannot be good by trying to be a good person. You can achieve this by letting the good that you already have come true."
20. "A person who spends his life waiting for the moment he starts living is not a rare thing at all."
Eckhart Tolle Book List:
A New Earth
Awakening to your Life’s purpose
The Power of Now
A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment
Guardians of Being
Milton’s Secret
Oneness With All Life
Practicing the Power of Now
Stillness Speaks
A book designed for meditative reading
**Sources:** onedio, eckharttolle.com, wikipedia https://onedio.com/haber/-simdinin-gucu-kitabinin-yazari-eckhart-tolle-den-muhtesem-alintilar-566767 https://eckharttolle.com/books/ https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eckhart_Tolle
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Is that Crazy gone? - The Story of Nasreddin Hodja from Osho
Nasreddin Hodja has aged and started to have insomnia. He tried everything (hot bath, medicine, sedative, syrup) but none of them helped. Nothing worked. And their children were disturbed, because when Hodja couldn't sleep, he wouldn't let anyone in the house sleep either. The night was a nightmare for the whole family.
Desperately, they searched every method, every medicine that would make Hodja sleep because the whole family was going crazy. They finally found a hypnotist. The children came in happiness and said to Hodja: "You don't have to worry anymore, dad. This is a man who works miracles. It brings sleep in minutes. He knows the magic of the business, so don't worry. No more fear, you will sleep. "
The hypnotist showed Nasreddin a watch with chains and said: “A little faith creates miracles. You have to trust me a little. Trust me, then you will fall asleep like a baby. Look at this clock. "
The man started shaking the clock left and right. “Left-right, left-right. Your eyes are getting tired, tired, tired. You sleep, you sleep, you sleep. "
Everyone was enthusiastic. He was happy. Hodja's eyes are closed, his head is bowed, and he falls into a deep sleep like a baby. He started to breathe regularly. The hypnotist got his pay and put his finger to his lips to tell his kids that they shouldn't bother him anymore. Then he came out quietly. As soon as he left, Hodja opened one of his eyes and said: "Is he gone crazy?"
He was making an effort to relax and therefore relaxed 'like a baby'. He started to breathe regularly, closed his eyes, but it all happened with effort. He was helping the hypnotist. He thought he was helping the hypnotist. But it required effort for him, so nothing happened. Nothing could happen. He was awake. If he were content with being passive, if he could hear what was said, if he looked at what was shown, sleep would come. He didn't have to make an effort; only passive acceptance was required. But even for you to bring your mind to passive acceptance, an initial effort is required.
So do not be afraid of the effort. Start with effort and remember that effort must be left behind, that you have to go beyond effort. But when you go beyond, you become passive, and this passive awareness works miraculously.
With passive awareness, the mind is no longer there. For the first time, the inner center of his ego appears, and for a reason. It takes effort to get anything done in the world. If you want to do anything, anything in the world, effort is required. But if you want to do something internal, effort is not required. You just need to relax. Just as doing in the external world is art, so is art there not.
Osho - "Book of Secrets 2
**Source**: e-motivasyon.net https://www.e-motivasyon.net/gitti-mi-deli-oshodan-nasreddin-hoca-oykusu.html
**Photos**: Pixabay https://pixabay.com/
The contribution of giving importance to your talents and developing them
Years ago, in my high school years, I went to a friend's house with my family. Those years were extraordinarily active for me. Karate, People who are everywhere as they always have been sincere. Almost everyone is not afraid to be friends with them.
They are creative. They only share what is in their hearts.
Let me tell you a secret: We are all those sincere creators. We just sometimes forget our true selves, who we are. We do not share what is going through our hearts and worries about not being accepted.
It doesn't matter how much time has passed or our age. We are still essentially the same children and the same young people. We just need to remember to express ourselves sincerely. Creative ideas and thoughts then begin to emerge.
A person with creative ideas and thoughts in childhood and adolescence is always like that.
We can still write poems, scripts, novels, essays. The ideas that come to our mind can benefit us, make us happy, and bring benefit and happiness to others., running and playing basketball were my main hobbies. So I had to be busy with things to spend time in a house.
At my friend's house, I thought I could eliminate this occupation by writing a theater text (script) that came to my mind all of a sudden. Comedy was a must. I wanted it to be a funny game.
I created a character for each of us in my mind. Then I made lines suitable for that character. Honestly, I couldn't help laughing even while writing. ☺️ I finally finished my 1-page theater play in a short time.
In those years, there were tapes that we listened to music. We could also buy blank tapes and record them. We all took on our roles. And we recorded your play on tape by vocalizing it.
We enjoyed it so much that I can't tell ...
At that time I was not aware that this was a talent. Because for me it was so easy and enjoyable that I thought anyone could do it. (Which I still think so, anyone can do it if they want.)
Writing a comedy theater script on a daily friend visit was actually not that simple. It was easy but not simple.
Again, I wrote poems from time to time for a long time. Once I wanted to write a novel. I wrote a few pages and gave up.
Even though I wasn't someone who likes to talk, writing somehow felt good. There were times when I also kept diaries.
Now I think I like speaking more than writing. ☺️ But I actually like to talk and write. But on one condition, about what I want and love ...
It's not really about writing or speaking. The point is to express our thoughts, feelings, feelings, dreams by speaking, writing or otherwise.
For example, talking or writing about beautiful things makes us feel good. The opposite is the same. Our favorite friends are those who accept and love us as we are. Because we can speak comfortably and as we want with them.
Being accepted by acting as you actually are doesn't just apply to friends we love. Yes, sometimes we can get criticism. But as we feel it, when we express ourselves, we are both more comfortable and generally accepted by others.
This does not mean to do or say everything that crosses our minds. It should not be forgotten that others are human like us. We need to know whether the voice we are listening to is the sound of our heart or our ego.
Because it is our hearts that inspire us to think creatively. The ego is mostly destructive.
In other words, sharing creative, sincere feelings and thoughts benefits both us and others.
People who are everywhere as they always have been sincere. Almost everyone is not afraid to be friends with them.
They are creative. They only share what is in their hearts.
Let me tell you a secret: We are all those sincere creators. We just sometimes forget our true selves, who we are. We do not share what is going through our hearts and worries about not being accepted.
It doesn't matter how much time has passed or our age. We are still essentially the same children and the same young people. We just need to remember to express ourselves sincerely. Creative ideas and thoughts then begin to emerge.
A person with creative ideas and thoughts in childhood and adolescence is always like that.
We can still write poems, scripts, novels, essays. The ideas that come to our mind can benefit us, make us happy, and bring benefit and happiness to others.
People who are everywhere as they always have been sincere. Almost everyone is not afraid to be friends with them.
They are creative. They only share what is in their hearts.
Let me tell you a secret: We are all those sincere creators. We just sometimes forget our true selves, who we are. We do not share what is going through our hearts and worries about not being accepted.
It doesn't matter how much time has passed or our age. We are still essentially the same children and the same young people. We just need to remember to express ourselves sincerely. Creative ideas and thoughts then begin to emerge.
A person with creative ideas and thoughts in childhood and adolescence is always like that.
We can still write poems, scripts, novels, essays. The ideas that come to our mind can benefit us, make us happy, and bring benefit and happiness to others.
20 suggestions that increase motivation.
I have written some motivational suggestions below to help you live a successful and happy life. Motivation is essential for success. For this reason, 20 suggestions that increase this motivation can help you have a more successful, happy and enjoyable life. The methods that increase motivation are:
**Think and feel positively.**
The basis of motivation is to think positively. The higher the level of personal motivation that drives us to achieve a particular goal or goal, the happier we will move towards our personal goals. Providing and strengthening our personal motivation energizes us to move forward more easily. In this way, we can proceed decisively towards our goal.
**Dream about what you will have when you reach your goal.**
The basis of motivation is to think positively. The higher the level of personal motivation that drives us to achieve a particular goal or goal, the happier we will move towards our personal goals. Providing and strengthening our personal motivation energizes us to move forward more easily. In this way, we can proceed decisively towards our goal.
**Focus on your goal, not the obstacles.**
Perhaps most of us have been instilled that we haven't been dreaming since childhood, but seeing the truth. It may be suggested that we stop living in the world of dreams constantly. But when we stop dreaming, it's hard to find the strength we need to move forward. Dreams are the fruits of our heart and soul, and thoughts are the fruits of our mind. We can use both together.
**Maintain a positive attitude towards criticism.**
One thing that will increase motivation is how well we focus on our goal. There is no problem seeing the barriers. However, learning to divert our attention away from obstacles and direct our goal to stay motivated will make it easier for us to be motivated.
**Keep your inner motivation high with words that will increase your motivation.**
You can motivate yourself with some words. Certain words are powerful enough to create positive feelings within us. You can determine these words that motivate yourself. It can be certain phrases, phrases, words or mantras that allow you to come out easily throughout your life.
**Overcome the problems that prevent you as much as you can.**
There may be things that we believe are blocking us as we move forward. We can find ways to get these. As long as we can define it and find solutions on how to overcome it.
**Be constructive, not destructive.**
Find solutions, not problems. Produce action, not excuses. The problem is the problem as long as we see it as the problem. It will continue to be a problem unless we fix it. If there is a problem, there is a solution. If we can see the problem, we can see the solution.
**Turn your fears and worries into solutions.**
Sometimes we can feel worries, fears that can disrupt our motivation. Most of the things we worry about are small things. When we see what it is, it often disappears immediately. Sometimes we need to figure out the source of our anxiety. We are afraid of things we do not know. If we can define it, we can also produce solutions.
**Take continuous steps towards your goal, even if small.**
Since motivation is the force that drives us, taking action will also increase motivation. This is like pressing the starter to start the engine. When we give it the first move, the rest will come naturally.
**Do not focus your attention on distractions.**
Be aware of the things that might turn you back from your goal or divert you from your path, but don't pay too much attention to them. Things that can distract us can distract and delay us. In such cases, we must focus on our goal again.
**When you are tired, rest, but don't give up.**
Just as we need a night's sleep, we need rest. Rest is a natural need. However, we should not compromise and give up on our goal.
**Have small goals in line with your main goal.**
Achieving a big goal can take time. The road we have to go through in this process may be complete in your eyes. However, setting small goals in the same direction will provide us with extra motivation. When you reach your small goals, we can see how close we are to your main goal. We can enjoy the happiness of reaching the goal and continue on our way with more joy.
**May your goal be your source of happiness and energy.**
If we see our goal only as a very important and serious job to be done, it will not give us pleasure. A healthy motivation cannot be provided in a subject that is not enjoyable. Our goal should be a source of happiness and pleasure for us. Thus, the process is enjoyable like playing a game.
**Be who you will be when you reach your goal, now.**
Actually, we are that person. How would we be when we reached our goal? Would we be happy, peaceful, joyful, strong, confident, helpful? So let's be like that now. Thus, we will be as if our goal has already been reached. Our target won't seem that far away anymore.
**Remember that every success counts, even small.**
Our small achievements may be small, but they are not insignificant. Enjoy your achievements. Every success triggers another success, and every happiness triggers another happiness.
**Do not neglect to enjoy yourself while you are on your way.**
The process of success is also a journey of happiness. Being happy while on your way is as important as the happiness you reach when you reach your goal. Because if you are not happy on your way, you will not care about the happiness you will reach in the end. If you are happy and move forward with pleasure, you will move forward motivated.
**Do not compare your personal goal with the goals of others.**
What determines its importance is the value you give to it. Others' goals are also valuable to them. It doesn't matter if we consider it too valuable or worthless. What matters is how much we value our own goal. Only our own goal concerns us.
**Do not compare yourself to other people.**
Remember, there is no other person like you in the world. You are unique in this universe.
**Be aware of your good sides, special talents and skills.**
None of us are perfect. However, each of us has our own unique characteristics and great talents. If we are aware of these, we increase our motivation.
**Don't be afraid to fail.**
Every failure is a great guide to finding your way to the next success. Failure gives us the opportunity not to make the same mistakes again. In this way, it helps us advance without repeating the same mistakes in our next attempt.
**Source:** kozmodans.com https://www.kozmodans.com/motivasyon-arttiran-20-oneri/
**Photos:** Pixabay https://pixabay.com/
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What is the Purpose of Life? What can be done to find the purpose of life?
Throughout our lives, we work for numerous purposes. We strive to achieve many of our goals, big or small, similar or different. Some of them happen immediately, while some of them may take some time. Of course, although each of them is very important to us in some way, the most important for us is our life purpose.
"What is the Purpose of Life?" As the name suggests, we can briefly answer the question as our purpose to come to the world.
What is the Purpose of Life?
Life purpose is our own personal purpose each of us has. Be sure, we all have a purpose in life. Our life purpose is also something that makes us happy, that we enjoy doing, and that we feel good about. When we live in accordance with our life purpose, life will give us happiness, joy, peace and the feeling that we are doing things right.
While our life purpose may be directed to a specific profession such as singing, dancing, teaching, it can sometimes be more general, such as making the people we encounter smile. Of course, it is possible to become a famous comedian while making people smile. Life purpose may not be fixed. There is no rule that it will necessarily be a specific profession. While we are moving on a route that is suitable for our life purpose in the flow of life, we can move to a different business area and find ourselves doing something different from what we do.
For example, a healer who heals people who come across with Reiki or a similar healing art, like being a healing teacher afterwards. Or a writer who writes his own novel by transferring his novel to cinema screens and becoming a scriptwriter and director.
In other words, the purpose of life should not be understood only as a profession. When we lead a life that is suitable for our purpose of life, we can realize our life purpose by doing some professions by opening opportunities in some business areas. The job we do may change, we can continue our way with different professions, but we do a job that helps us achieve our life purpose. In any case, the work we do will give us satisfaction and happiness. Because we live according to the reason we came to Earth. A painter who spent his life making paintings, a musician who composed hundreds of compositions throughout his life, an inventor who made inventions used for generations after his life, or a scientist who found the vaccine for a disease are people who achieve the purpose of life.
How can we find our Life Purpose?
To find our life purpose, we can first ask ourselves:
What is my life purpose?
How can I be happy and help others, and help them be happy too?
What do I feel most happy about doing in life?
What subject or subjects am I most talented at? What is the best thing I do in the world?
You can ask yourself these and similar questions and write down your answers. The important point here is this: Although your life purpose is your personal purpose, it is your spiritual purpose that helps other people in some way. A selfish purpose that only makes yourself happy but can harm others cannot be a life purpose. Because while you realize your life purpose, you will benefit other people, living things and the world.
It is also worth mentioning:
It helps itself that helps the whole. Someone who can give happiness to someone else will also have happiness in his own life.
Because according to the way the Universe works, everything is an energy. This energy is not fixed and is constantly in circulation. Any energy we send to the universe will come back to us. Energy can change shape, but its quality does not change whether it is positive or negative. Whatever we give to the universe; In other words, if its quality is positive in terms of energy, it will turn to us positively, and if it is negative, it will appear in our lives negatively.
To find your life purpose, you can pay attention to the following to determine your life purpose:
Life purpose is what makes you happy.
It is compatible with your abilities. It is usually what you do best. You do not have too much difficulty in achieving your life purpose, because some of your abilities are too developed to achieve your life purpose. Your life purpose is something you can do right now. You don't have to train for years or improve yourself to do it. However, while fulfilling your life purpose, you learn new things, gain new experiences, and develop further. You are the only obstacle to being able to do it even if you have difficulties because you sometimes believe it is difficult and you cannot do it.
If you live according to your purpose in life, you will be beneficial to both yourself and others. So you will benefit the whole.
Something harmful in any way, an action cannot be part of your life purpose.
When you start a life that suits your life purpose, you may encounter divine directions that motivate and ignite you. You may see signs that you are on the right track. Because you are in harmony with your divine side, your soul, and the whole universe. You may be surprised to see that the stones settle one by one as you move along your path, and that everything moves in harmony.
You can witness miracles happen. What you see as impossible can easily happen as you move forward.
What is his life purpose? What can be done to find the purpose of life? In this article, I tried to answer the questions as much as I could and explain what I know for your benefit with the qualities of the purpose of life. It is important for me that you also benefit from this information, which I believe to be true. If you have any questions, feel free to ask.
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With love
How can we understand that we are loved?
I wanted this post to be a little different. Usually I ask myself, I answer myself again. However, this time I want to learn your answers. My question is:
**How do you know if a person loves you?**
I just want to give 3 of my own answers.
1) I feel his love when he looks at me.
2) He is polite and courteous when talking to me.
3) He calls or texts me when I'm not with him.
I didn't think too much about this topic. Obviously I want to know what your opinions are on this subject. "Reason is superior to reason." they say. I got great comments in my other posts that I had never thought of. This showed me how valuable your great thoughts and ideas are on these issues, instead of finding every result, solution, and idea myself.
***I would be glad if you express your valuable thoughts in the comments.***
What are the tricks of happiness in our life?
How can we be happier?
How can I be happier? What should I do to live my life happier? If you ask questions such as how can I attract more happiness into my life and want to be happy, in this article I tried to mention the key points of happiness by listing how we can be happier. I have never done any scientific work on this subject. However, this article emerged as a result of combining what I learned from dozens of personal development books that I have read in order to be happier throughout my life and by incorporating Bioenergy and Spiritual Healing Systems such as Reiki and Shamballa into my life, and blending all these with the experiences I have acquired throughout my life. I would like to express with Love and Gratitude the Divine Guidance and Inspirations I have received throughout my life, which are obvious in this article and in all other articles. I am starting to write with the intention of bringing light to your life.
Reduce your expectations
Of course, it is very important that our expectations are low, among the tips of happiness. We all want the best and most beautiful things in our lives. We have numerous dreams, desires and desires, whether we have a great job, a perfect spouse, a lot of money, a summer house in Çeşme, Bodrum, our latest model car. However, if we do not put a limit on these, I can say that I learned by living that it prevents us from being happy rather than making us happy. In addition, our expectations from other people are enough to prevent us from being happy alone. Remember; Just like you, others have a life and dreams of their own. It would be selfish to expect them to be at the center of their lives and to meet our wishes, desires and expectations. For this reason, if we do not expect anyone to make sacrifices for us, our level of happiness will be greatly increased as we naturally accept everyone as they are.
Don't live for other people
Until an era, I was always the giver throughout my life. I was always the one who sacrificed in my relationships. However, as a result of all these sacrifices, one day I felt like I was exhausted. Why was it always me? If you give it all the time without logical return, it is inevitable that you will be exhausted. As in all areas of life, we have to establish a balance between giving and taking in our relationships. This is not selfish, believe me, at first I thought that. Because I believed that if I were a self-sacrificing person, I would definitely get paid. But the people in front of me did not perceive it that way. For them, I was a self-sacrificing person who always tried to cover up the shortcomings and flaws in himself, who did not value himself. Because I had created the image that they were valuable, even more valuable than me, and that I was very worthless. They were not considered unfair either. It is a good virtue to do something for others in our life, to be aware of their worth, but being aware of our own worth… We do not have to be unhappy ourselves to make others happy. Those who accept us as we are are those who deserve to be with us.
Keep the balance between giving and accepting
Matter is made up of atoms, and atoms are basically energy. We give money in exchange for something material. We earn money by spending your time and energy. We waste energy when we take an action, sometimes even thinking about something. For this reason, our most valuable thing is our energy. Often we need time to increase our energy. Time is our second most valuable thing. If we are wasting your time on someone, they must spend their time and energy on us, so that the balance is struck. It would not be right to spend a long time for someone who does not share their time and energy with us. In short, we must learn to be in balance in all matters, material or spiritual, emotional or mental.
Be open to change
Life is different even if we perceive it as the same. Everything is constantly changing. Like the captain managing a sailing ship in a rough sea, we must be able to turn the waves of our lives into a driving force for us to move forward. Because this is a gift that comes from our existence. The easiest and most effective method is to be aware of, accept and not resist change.
Open your heart to love
Love is more than just a feeling. It's both a personal feeling; both a unifying and very powerful positive energy; as well as a divine healing necessary for our spiritual health and integrity. Love is vital to a strong and lasting happiness. Otherwise, nobody would find fault in making someone else unhappy for their own happiness. And this selfish effort to be happy would be the compass of a world suffering from misery. That is why love is most necessary for all of us. If we want to leave a beautiful world to our children, we must first of all teach them to love.
Think positive
While most of us think of Polyanna when we say positive thinking, it would be to simplify it. Positive thinking is the ability to see the positive side of a situation we label as negative. If it only stays in the dimension of thought, we can come to a conclusion that it doesn't work. Thinking positively is to turn our perception into a positive, strengthen it, increase it, and feel the positive emotions that feed and strengthen us. A believer and a devout person is inclined to think positively. Because he has made gratitude, surrender, and not being too attached to worldly needs a part of his life. They have reached a more peaceful and happy life by internalizing positive thinking.
Have faith
Faith is necessary to be happy. I don't just mean religious belief. Believe and try to feel as if your dreams have come true over and over again and wholeheartedly. Visualize in your mind what you think will happen when your wish comes true. How would you be? Is he happier, stronger, kinder and benevolent? How did you start your day? What would your relationships be like? These are not necessities, of course, but they can help you become more convinced that you can achieve, be as you imagined. Thinking positively and believing in the previous article are two concepts that strengthen each other. However, if you include other items, you can develop a much stronger positive belief.
Find your life purpose
A life without purpose can be a life lived in vain. We all came for a purpose while each of us was born without exception. For this reason, we realize that we are really happy when we find our life purpose and live accordingly. Every person's life purpose is unique. Well, if you say how can I find my life purpose, realize what makes you happy the most. You feel happy, peaceful and whole while doing what you do the most. You will have found your formula for happiness in your unfolding of your life purpose. And when you live happily, you will begin to move forward with confidence and enthusiasm towards your life purpose.
Be aware of your own worth
In my opinion, the most important point of happiness is to know its own worth. It is very difficult for a person who considers himself worthless to be happy. Although he sometimes feels happy, this state is temporary. Either he felt valued even for a short time, or someone made him feel valued. We must never forget that each of us is one and unique in the universe. I may not do something that you can do very well as you do. But there is one thing that I do better than anyone else. Happiness does not mean being the best in everything. Even if we are good at everything, a single subject that we are not good at can make us unhappy throughout our lives. But if we all know that we are the best at something, we can reach happiness more easily. It would be wiser and more logical to be happy with something we are good at than being unhappy about something we are not. You are very important, valuable and special to this world.
Learn to see the good in others
This is one of the most important tricks of happiness. While we all have great, excellent and unique features, of course we have a feature that is not good. Likewise, everyone other than you has features that are both good and beautiful, and not beautiful, just like you. If we can focus on positive qualities instead of our negative aspects in ourselves and others, we will have more harmonious, more tolerant happy relationships and life.
Be honest
Being honest is one of the most important tricks of happiness. Lying or not telling lies is a choice for whatever reason. Being honest is not telling whatever comes to our mind. We call it a babble. Being honest is not necessarily to answer every question. Sometimes we tell the truth in silence, sometimes we lie even when we keep silent. When we make not lying a way of life, we can be seen as a lie detector for a while. But "I don't want to answer this question." you might say. If it's a topic not related to you, “Keep me off topic.” possible to say. At first, we may find that you sometimes become so habitual that you can lie automatically. Frankly, almost every time, the reason we lie is because of fear. It takes courage to be honest. When it comes to happiness, we believe that we are strong when we are honest. We respect ourselves more for doing the right thing. We are also happier because we are in harmony with ourselves and our essence.
Simplify your life
One of the key points of happiness in our lives is simplicity. The simpler our life is, the more peaceful and happy we will be. The more we have in our life, the greater our burden. As we get rid of these burdens, we feel lighter, more spacious and therefore more peaceful and happy.
Don't judge anyone
Another of the tricks of happiness is empathy. Without empathy, there is no tolerance. Without tolerance, there is no happiness. "How can I be happier?" If we are looking for an answer to the question, we have to learn to be tolerant. The way to do this is through empathy. Empathy doesn't mean approving someone. Empathy and sympathy are different things. Empathy doesn't mean confirming someone's wrongdoing. Realizing that everyone can make mistakes and accepting others as they are. The error is peculiar to human beings. There are always mistakes that I, you and everyone else on earth, we all make. None of us are faultless. It is good not to repeat mistakes, of course, but this is everyone's own initiative and choice. Never talk big about it, but whoever was in his place, in his situation, under the same conditions and with the same consciousness would make the same mistake. Even you… Therefore, do not judge anyone for his current consciousness, for his mistake. You don't have to acknowledge or love her mistake, but if you can accept her for what she is, you may feel lighter, happier, and more peaceful than taking responsibility for her.
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