Why Negative Thinking Is Positive

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1 year ago

Negative thinking, or “pessimism” as it’s often called, is a pretty loaded term.

When we think of pessimists, we tend to picture people who are depressed and hopeless about their future. But what if I told you that negative thinking is actually beneficial to your mental health? That while it might not be fun to be around someone who sees the world through such a dark lens all the time, they have the ability to help us see things in ways that can make us more resilient, better decision-makers, and just generally happier with life.

How Negative Thinking Makes You More Resilient

  • You can be more resilient. Resilience is the ability to bounce back from adverse events and experience negative thoughts without becoming overwhelmed by them. This can be especially helpful when you're going through stressful situations in which you might expect to feel down, like losing your job or getting divorced.

  • You can become more optimistic about the future. Optimism is linked with higher levels of happiness and well-being because it helps people see good things in their future rather than focusing on negative outcomes that have already occurred (or may never happen).

  • You may even become more creative! Studies have shown that creative thinking improves when we're feeling sad—meaning that some negative thoughts don't just lead us to worry about things, but also make us more likely to create something new and innovative as a result!

Negativity Can Improve Your Decision-Making Skills

The fact that you can make better decisions when you're feeling down is a plus, but it's not the only benefit to being negative. Negative thinking can also help you avoid getting caught up in the hype around new products or services and make sure your decisions are based on facts rather than hyperbole. It helps you avoid making mistakes and rash decisions, too! Alam ko na ang mga ganyang paandar di na eepekto yan.

Negative thinking can even help improve your self-confidence! Think about it: If something doesn't work out well for a friend or coworker who does something similar to what you do, it might make sense to ask yourself "What did I do differently?" before assuming she's somehow smarter than you or has more natural ability.

Negative People Have More Empathy

You might think that negative people are the least empathetic people on the planet. After all, they're always complaining about how things could be better and nothing ever works out for them. But there's a reason why negative people have a greater capacity for empathy than their positive peers: They know what it's like to be in pain and can therefore connect with others who have been in similar situations.

When you've experienced a lot of failure or disappointment, you come to understand what other people are feeling when they're going through their own struggles—and this allows you to sympathize with others more easily than someone who has had everything go right for them (or at least feels like it).

Negativity Helps You Make The Right Choices About Your Social Life

A negative person is someone who sees the world as it is, without embellishment. They don't spend time idealizing their lives, but instead they're more likely to focus on the things that are wrong with them. This can be a good thing when it comes to your social life:

Negative people are more realistic about the kind of people around them and the choices they make. They're less likely to fall for romantic gestures from someone who doesn't mean it, or get involved with someone who isn't good for them.

They Don’t Expect Too Much From Others

Your expectations are only your problem if they’re unrealistic. If you’re expecting too much from others, then yes, that can cause problems in your relationships and/or social life. But if you have realistic expectations, then no matter what happens at work or in your personal life—and this is really important—you won’t be disappointed.

People who are negative aren't delusional; they don't expect too much from others or themselves or the world or life itself. They know better than to set their hopes high too soon because they understand that nothing lasts forever, especially not good things (which means bad things will eventually happen as well)

So, negative thinking isn’t all bad. In fact, it can be incredibly useful! When we look at the evidence of how negative people approach their lives, we see that they tend to be more resilient in the face of hardship, better at making decisions and forecasting future events. These skills are undoubtedly valuable for anyone looking to live a happy life.

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Yung manhid ka na na kahit ano pa ibato sayo, sanay ka na haha! But sometimes, some people romanticize being resilient which is not totally fine for me.

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1 year ago

The fact that you can make better decisions when you're feeling down is a plus

I don't know if this is working to me hahahaha I think I can't decide when I'm down😂

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1 year ago

Indeed. Negative people can see the reality of life more and experience how harsh the world is, that's why they can think ahead of the worse and prepare for it. Also, it's easier to empathize with people who experienced the same things as you. Been there before, I don't know what kind of words will comfort my friend when they needed some advice because I don't know what does it feels like. Shatap na lang, ganern, kesa mamali ng sabi. 😄

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1 year ago

Pano kapag po nasobrahan na ng pagiging negative hehe. Sana all nagagawang positive Yun negative no.

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1 year ago

Kailangan daw i multiply ang negative sa negative para daw maging positive hahaha.

I think, most of the pessimist ( including me ) has a mindset na kailangan ready tayo when worst comes to worst para at least di tayo umiyak. Minsan kasi being too positive creates an illusion na everything is okay and the world is like rainbows and butterflies lang pero di naman talaga.

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1 year ago

Medyo nagets ko sya dito sa comments mo. It's like you are more on reality Ganon.

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1 year ago