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4 months ago

It would be best if we could avoid people who are considered difficult. Unfortunately, in most situations this is impossible. We are forced to communicate or cooperate with them, at school, at college, at work, at home, in the neighborhood.
Difficult people have communication styles that are aimed at manipulating and creating the experience of inequality in a relationship. If we met their expectations, we would "get caught" and play a communication game that they dictate and that they practiced well. The consequence will be that we will feel humiliated, frustrated ... which is their goal and form of domination. It is enough to find yourself in a traffic jam or in a queue at the post office and bank during the day to realize that there are arrogant, rude and rude people all around us… The problem is when we realize that we are surrounded by the same people and say at work, where we should spend at least eight hours every day. We cannot change other people's behavior, but we can change our approach to such people. When someone annoys you, the first instinct is to respond with the same measure. But remember, you always have control over yourself! Choose not to enter the drama. No matter how the other person acts, you control your behavior, just as she controls her own. Stay cool, take a deep breath and give yourself room to calm down. Remember, you don't have to go down to their level, it will probably only make things worse.


People sometimes behave rudely and rudely in order to show dominance and power or to provoke some reaction from you. Don’t give them that pleasure to see you get angry. Because you are a good role model and treat everyone honestly, kindly and compassionately, you show the kind of behavior you expect from those around you.

When all else fails, keep in mind that sometimes it’s best to just walk away… If you’ve done everything possible to make a person aware of their actions and have tried to show kindness and empathy, that person may be incapable of treating you kindly.
You have freedom of choice at all times ... You have the right to say NO at all times ... You have choice at all times. Then why do you agree to compromises? When you allow others to belittle you, disrespect you, lie, manipulate you, do not blame other people ..... In fact, you allowed them to do so. If you believe that you don't deserve better and that you have no choice, you will never get better ... Out of fear you will allow your boss to harass you, you will allow business partners to manipulate you, you will allow your spouse to lie to you ... People treat you as you allow them to.

Never allow anyone to treat you with disrespect.





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Respect yourself so that others will respect you

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4 months ago

if we respect others they will respect us too, if we do not respect ourselves neither will others respect us.

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4 months ago

it is extremely difficult to get along with such people, I avoid them as much as I can

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4 months ago

And you should avoid them. No one should fill you with negative energy.

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4 months ago

e if I could stay cold when someone provokes me it would be great, but I can't, e I would most like to be able to change myself so that I don't get annoyed by someone's word or procedure and to know how to count to 10, somewhere to 2 I can to count after that burst

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4 months ago

There are various exercises. First of all, you should not be touched by the words of unfriendly people ... secondly, it is better to leave than to listen to other people's abuse.

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4 months ago

Self-confidence… is based on honesty, respect, fulfillment of obligations, faithful protection and selfless work. He cannot live without them.

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4 months ago

You have to work on it.

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4 months ago

if we respect others they will respect us too, if we do not respect ourselves neither will others respect us.

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4 months ago

One should have respect for oneself. The Lord did not say in vain: Love God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your being. And your neighbor as yourself.

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4 months ago

Respect is most important in human relationships, so I say respect others to be respected

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4 months ago

If we want to be successful and respect the reverse attention in our time. How do we implement it? Who do we give it to? What do we spend it on?

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4 months ago

Love your own, respect others ... Love and respect yourself the most, then others will respect you too Great article

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4 months ago

Just give yourself occasional recognition for what you have accomplished in your life and be aware of your values. Just respect yourself for what you are.

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4 months ago

respect is something you need to EARN vs me

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4 months ago

I surround myself with the company of those I truly respect!

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4 months ago

That is why I say who respects me, I will respect him. No one is above me except God.

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4 months ago

Learn to respect yourself so that you will not give excuses to those who have a bad day and therefore have to destroy it for you.

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4 months ago

if we do not respect ourselves, others will not respect us either. Great article

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4 months ago

You indulge yourself and your desires and don’t think it’s wrong, not even for condemnation. He who is not good to himself is not good to others - you often tell people.

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4 months ago

That's right, you wrote beautifully.

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