Arrogance is a bad trait

Having self-confidence is great, but until it turns into conceit, that is. nafuranost, exaltation of oneself, underestimation of others and that is no longer a beautiful trait. True self-confidence is what you have independent of other people's opinions and confirmation and applause from others. Now, the question is how many people really firmly believe in themselves and their qualities, and that it is not just the result of the lull they received from their parents, for example. and habits of always being the center of attention. I think that self-confidence is built through life experience and success that someone achieves through hard work. Everything else is someone's ordinary conceit and conviction that he is a very important factor, and based on nothing. One should not confuse self-confidence with arrogance, arrogance, conceit ... Moreover, I have a theory that conceited people do not actually have self-confidence, but a complex of higher values, and that is not the same thing. Self-confidence for me means being aware of your (real) qualities and (real) possibilities, loving yourself and respecting others, having a realistic picture of yourself and accepting the fact that no one is perfect, that everyone has flaws and working to "fix" those flaws . Behaving like God and exalting oneself above others, not descending to the ground and having an attitude like "no one is like me" has nothing to do with self-confidence.

It is logical that man must first love himself and fight for himself, for his existence, and there is nothing controversial about that. I agree that everyone should be in the first place, but let's say I'm the first, I don't think I've ever been more valuable. Why? Well, because each individual is for himself and there is no comparison. What I am talking about is not conceit, but a completely normal attitude towards oneself - putting one's needs and one's happiness first is not conceit. Personally, I think that conceit is an insufficiently defined state of someone's pattern of behavior, which is characterized as negative. Conceited people are usually claimed to be selfish, narcissistic, arrogant, vain, selfish, inaccessible, etc. But it's not that simple for women. There are opinions that among the conceited ladies there are numerous examples of exceptional women who, with their hard attitude and arrogant behavior, in some way protect themselves from intruders and lazy suitors.

Arrogance is the worst trait a man can possess. While self-confidence is the key to an attractive man, arrogance and ostentation totally lowers the mood. On the other hand, a man without self-confidence is just as unattractive as this one with too much self-confidence.