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Let's talk about cheating
Why do so many people suffer from heartbreak? Even if we don't want to experience it, it will be designed to harm us. It's terrifying and repulsive to love when the end result is agony. When you thought he was the one, yet he managed to deceive you and exchange you for someone else in the end. You don't know what is true and what is not when you're in love. We all want to be love unconditionally since that is what we all deserve, so why are so many people still tempted and capable of making mistakes? They say that the year 2022 is the year of breakups and heartaches. Well, it seems to be true because it was just the beginning of the year when rumors about cheating, annulment and breakups about some famous celebrities arises. We often heard from the news, blogs and podcast that this famous couple broke up and it's because the girl found out that the guy is seeing another girl behind her back. Hearing such experiences made me realize that no matter how long you've been with your partner, your relationship can still fall apart for a variety of reasons. So what are these reasons, exactly? ***Lies*** ***Money*** ***Loss of Trust*** ***Goals*** ***Different priorities*** ***Poor communication*** ***Little intimacy*** ***Lack of respect***
We may all tell white lies, but if your partner seems to lie frequently, it could be an indication that something is wrong in your relationship. We can keep a secret if it is for the greater good and no one is harmed, but if your falsehood cause harm to your partner, it is unacceptable. Cheating begins with lying, so if you suspect something is amiss in your relationship, don't be afraid to approach your partner right away. We understand how difficult it is for someone to acknowledge that they have made a mistake or cheated, but we shall validate our suspicions based in their actions, whether it's true or not.
According to study polygamy is in our DNA. Due to cultural and practical reasons, humans have only lately become monogamous. Those who have self-control and self-discipline, on the other hand, are more faithful to their partners. Admitting that you cheat is not being a man, and it is something we should not tolerate or admire. Let's not make this type of behavior acceptable. Cheating is cheating. One thing I realized about the recent split up of the famous celebrities is that cheating is always a choice, no matter how God-centered your relationship is, if one wants to cheat, one will cheat. Upon knowing their breakups, I found myself really pondering about the formula of a successful relationship. What are its ingredients? Is it love? Trust? God-centered? Family? friendship? If they had it all, why their relationship still failed? Consider the likely consequences of your sin before you cheat. Cheating is probably the most inconsiderate act of a person can commit toward his or her partner and family. So if you are no longer satisfied/happy in your relationship, you should end it promptly, rather than looking for one while you're in a relationship. With what happened between their breakups, here's a reminder that cheating is not part of a relationship's ups and downs. NEVER NORMALIZE CHEATING. **Thank you for dropping by; I appreciate your time and interest in reading all the way to the very end of my article.** @springapple All rights reserved 2022 All images are from **Unsplash** If you haven't read my previous article, here are these: **Reasons why I love Taylor Swift** https://read.cash/@springapple/reasons-why-i-love-taylor-swift-17bc6a3a **Cheap products I bought online** https://read.cash/@springapple/cheap-products-i-bought-online-08f77f7e
16 comments
Iwan ko nga bah bakit nga bah may cheater!!.
Kaya nga po eh, hay nakuuu. Sakit sa lipunan ang mga cheater haha
I agree with you ,kahit na umamin ,cheaying is cheating parin ,nakakasakit parin ng damdamin.
Truee! Kahit umamin sila, nagawa narin nila, nagcheat parin sila at wala ng mababago dun hays
For me, I believe the reason for most breakups is due to insincerity in ourselves. We often elevate things that really should matter less in relationships and elevate those we ain't suppose and the results are multiple heartbreaks everywhere. It's sad!
Agreed to that. Sad
Cheating is cheating talaga, hindi un pagkakamali kundi choice.. Hay naku bakit ba kasi di na lang makuntento sa isa.. Nakakalungkot un nangyari kay Moira at husband nya..
Very true sissy. Pati tuloy sambayanan affected sa hiwalayan hahaha. Bakit kasi may mga cheater sa mundo!
Nagkalat ang lahi nila😂
.. Inshort "wala kasing forever" hahaha.. Just kidding.. Peace yow
HAHAHAH, baka meron naman. Pero walang forever sa hindi makuntento sa isa. Hay nakuu
To cheat is always a choice, if your love is not that strong its easy to destroy. Why people cheat because they want it too. If they don't they will resist on that kind of temptations.
That's the sad reality ☹️
I've been in a heartbreak also, like my girlfriend Mary another man when it was too late to know that she was already pregnant, and she married him in our anniversary.. I was really shock but now I decided to accept the fact that she is not destined for me at all.
It's a tragic tale of your life. We can't say for sure if a woman or a man can cheat in a relationship. It stings so much in the part of you that discover that your girlfriend is pregnant and even married on your anniversary. I hope you're okay now
News about this nowadays also breaks my heart as a married person. I was afraid that someday it might happen to me but Lord, please no. Break ups, cheating, dishonesty is so rampant nowadays among married couples. This is also a sign of the times that the love will grow cold.