Life will go On!

Hello! Greetings to all. Hope everyone on this site also had a great day. I also had a great day because the way the crypto market is pulling down today I stopped seeing BCH wallet. However, there is nothing to worry about. Hopefully we will get back double or more of what we are losing.✌🏻💪🏻 My topic today is not crypto market. The topic of my article today is our ongoing life. The effects of past wrong decisions and the preservation of love for oneself.

Why can't we forget the past from the present? The past is behind us. There is no such thing as fearing the past or taking the past with us .There is no point in dragging it forward and spoiling the days ahead.

But what happens when the past makes our present life unbearable? Mistakes made in the past can affect our present life. Such as getting married or falling in love with someone. And if that person is one of the most wrong decisions you have made. Where life can take you is probably beyond your imagination.

Writing this sentence does not mean that I am trying to intimidate anyone. I'm just writing about some real experiences. It may be that I want to warn or explain that whatever decision you make, you must take it in stride .That means you have to taste the decision.

There are some things that you can't change immediately if you want to. The results will flow through your life for a long time.

After many years of marriage, when you feel that the person you are married to is the result of your wrong decision, then who are you to blame, yourself or your parents? If you blame, will your current situation change? Of course not.

The biggest problem of our Bangladeshi women is that we want to achieve more harmony. When it comes to gaining this harmony from others, it becomes disinterested in oneself.

Isn't that normal? If you always want love from others and don't get that love, don't get enough respect, don't get your opinion evaluated, always get devalued then there is nothing to give yourself. Believe that you will become zero.

This is what we have learned since childhood. The bond of harmony is the strongest bond .Your efforts will never be successful unless the other party tries as hard as you do. That is why it is most important to have love for yourself.

Not all married life is happy. It is true that in a married life you must make some concessions, but that does not mean that you will forget yourself. It is not always possible for everyone to sever all ties. How many relationships will you sever? You will have to come in contact with many relationships in your life which you cannot accept or which you will not be able to get along with, but you will have to maintain good relationships even after that. Because it is not possible to walk alone. I'm not saying don't have a relationship. I say keep a distance between relationships.

If you are thinking of trying to change someone then you are making an utterly wrong decision. You can change a baby if you want. You can make a child your own if you want because children are ignorant and have no idea about the world but how can you change an adult human being. You can't change someone who can't be changed by their parents.

One thing you can do is change yourself.

We girls easily share our love. For example, when we are with our parents, we think of our parents as the only claimant of our love. Later, after marriage, that love is shared with the husband, then when the child arrives in the family, it is shared again. In the midst of all this sharing with the love, have you ever kept a piece of love for yourself? How to keep that time or place you do not have left.

There is no guarantee that a person will be by your side all your life. Accidents can happen at any time in our lives. Maybe he once told you he would be with you all the time and he left you. The one who said he would look after you all his life suddenly changed his mind. People change in a moment. If you go to find the answer, your whole life will go away but you will not find the answer. Stop looking for this answer and change your way of thinking.

I think our thoughts shape our life. Some blame destiny for anything uncertain happens in their life but I believe our thinking habit positive or negative helps you to make decisions in your life which eventually shape your destiny good or moderate. Just like root of plant. Thoughts are saplings of our life.

Over the years I've at least figured out that whether it's a good relationship or a breakup I have to go my own way.

The past will never leave us but life will not stop. As long as you are alive, you have to fight your struggle, no one else will come for you. So you have to prepare yourself better. You have to love yourselves and develop in a better way so that you can handle all situations.

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