Criticism and self-deprecation

"People are adept at criticizing others but never seeing their own faults."

Do you know the truth, when four people are sitting and criticizing another person, if one suddenly move away from them, you will find that the other three have started criticizing him.This is extremely real and true!😂

Women can be said to be wise and savvy in this matter because there is a lot of movement of women in the grocery shop, picking up children from school and in shopping malls and they have no pairs of discussion, criticism.Because when a few women come together, the world is in their hands.I am a woman but I am not belittling women in fact it is a special feature of women. But we must keep control in this matter. That's it!🫣

This matter is a curious incident to me. And many of us have faced such a situation at some point in our lives. Why is it that human nature is blind to our imperfections and leans towards finding fault with others? It seems that we have a sharp radar that detects the flaws of those around us, while we remain indifferent about ourselves. Perhaps it's easier to criticize others because it creates a sense of superiority, making a momentary moment of feeling better about themselves enjoyable.

However, this tendency to point fingers and give judgment often stems from a lack of self-awareness. Acknowledging one's guilt requires humility, weakness and the willingness to deal with our flaws forward. Such introspection can be uncomfortable, and it is human nature to avoid discomfort whenever possible.

We are living in a world where social media and digital communication have become prominent, as a result of this behavior seems to have expanded. Behind the scenes, people feel bold in their criticism, hiding safely behind a virtual barrier. Sympathy among people is fading, and understanding is becoming a rare commodity. To fight against this pattern, we must develop self-awareness and empathy. We have to admit that no one is perfect and we all have areas where we can improve. Instead of judging others harshly, let's try to understand their perspective and situation. Engaging in constructive dialogue rather than resorting to criticism can foster healthy relationships and community. When these human feelings are born in us, maybe a healthy society and we ourselves can live in a healthy way.

So, the next time we catch ourselves pointing out the faults of others, let's pause and reflect on our motives. Are we truly trying to help them grow, or are we just indulging in a momentary sense of superiority? By acknowledging our own imperfections and approaching others with compassion, we can create a more compassionate and understanding world.

My personal opinion is that -saying something behind someone's back is criticism so it's better to avoid it. If you can say something about someone in front of him, then say it and if you can't say it, then what is the need to say it behind his back! The time you spend talking about others, is the time you spend thinking about yourself. Maybe something good will happen to you :)

@sj0820