Cares and social media
The feeling of not being cared for is a universal experience. And we often feel like nobody cares because the people around us are too busy with their own lives and don’t have time for us. Especially in our family or romantic relationships, we can easily lose ourselves if we don’t protect our boundaries.
Relationships with other people and coping mechanisms to deal with depression are topics that require a lot of attention. Our social network is so intertwined and it can be hard to identify ourselves when we don't know who we are anymore. Even in our social media-driven world, there are people who feel like they have no one that cares about them.
All this is based off the "likes" on social media which tell us our self-esteem depends on these likes. Then when people don't like what they see they feel terrible and start building up angry thoughts either toward themselves or others. We are told by society that we have to have a perfect life, or else. This is how the feeling of being alone and no one cares about you starts, and it builds up into something terrible.
You can't really blame them because the social media platforms only care about using their data to make money and track their movements. They don't really care about human beings on the other end of their screen.
Feel like nobody cares about us and that we are the only ones who care about them. This is an incredibly lonely feeling, and it's something that many people struggle with on a daily basis.
So what's the problem? Why do we feel like nobody cares? And is there anything we can do to help this situation?
There are a few reasons why we might feel like nobody cares. Maybe that person was too busy to respond, they wanted to give us the cold shoulder, or maybe we just weren't important enough.
However, some people might feel like nobody cares because there was nothing for them in their lives. Maybe they have been rejected so many times, that they don't see any point in trying again.
There are many people and organizations that care about us but we as a society have become disconnected. This disconnect can lead to feelings of loneliness and isolation.
It is easy to get lost in the maze of our lives and feel like nobody cares. In reality, there are tons of people who care about you, but you may have been conditioned to believe otherwise. Humans come with a built-in need for connection and social approval: Loneliness can lead to negative health outcomes and mortality.
We need more opportunities to connect with others. We need more chances to meet new people and be engaged in our communities. We need more ways of adding meaning and purpose to our lives, feeling like we are contributing to the greater good. And perhaps most importantly, we need these connections for psychological therapy for the mental illness that has been seen in recent years - such as depression and anxiety - so that it does not spread any further than it already has.
It's true my friend. Sometimes we felt that nobody care us because they are busy with their own lives too.