Nowadays, each of us in some way encounters insults from other people. But life is too short to spend it on the resentment of toxic people. It is difficult to understand why someone needs to constantly quarrel with others, criticize and insult. Such people are mostly dissatisfied with their lives, so they transfer their negativity to someone else's yard. Some people succeed, but some do not! Namely, there are mentally strong people that society has not "eaten". They never allow the environment to control their emotions, attitudes and moves. They just don't react to insults, and here's how they do it:
They are guided by the saying: Silence is gold
Mentally strong people recognize when people cover up their insecurities by insulting, criticizing, or when they say they need to change.
They know that such people should not be wasted energy because they will never be happy because of someone else's success or they have already experienced their own failure. Strong people never react when such people "spit" on them.
The proof is the American physicist and inventor Thomas Alva Edison. He did not pay attention to the people who ridiculed his ideas, and he is the creator of a great invention - a phonograph.
Therefore, keep in mind that people will always analyze and comment on your ideas, goals and moves and create the image they want. You can't influence it, but you can focus your energy on yourself and your life goals.
They know it's just someone else's opinion
Mentally strong people know that an insult is just someone's opinion. They are aware of their qualities, and they are not touched by negative criticism. They do not waste their energy on negative comments. People who constantly criticize others by doing so actually only show that they do not have emotional intelligence, and smart people feel that.
They ignore insults
Mentally strong people are well aware that hatred of other people only makes life worse. Therefore, they want to cut it at the root. And how do they achieve that?
They ignore toxic people who want to provoke a reaction. When someone insults strong people, he is quite surprised when he encounters ignorance.
The lack of reaction turns them to other people where they can continue to spread their negativity.
Their health and happiness are in the first place
Mentally strong people know the value of their happiness and health.
That is why he will not react to the insults of people who spread malicious negative energy, but will simply turn his head and leave.
Peace of mind is more important to them than other people's opinions. They will not allow malicious people to drain their energy and thus destroy their health.
People who ignore negative people are calmer, happier and more fulfilled than those who get into arguments and quarrels.
They are looking for a solution
Mentally strong people are aware that not everyone can be satisfied. When they encounter an obstacle in life, they always look for solutions. They know how to deal with toxic people, and avoid them in a wide arc.
Divan clanak, Hvala Vam na njemu.