Status Update:"LDR"(Long Distance Relationship)Bring it on!

Nobody says it is going to be easy-the extra distance makes many things unachievable. Things could get complicated, and you could get sad and lonely at times. ~lifehack.org

Good day fellas!

This topic might not be new to you. But let me just share my thoughts about it. I already read some articles regarding this one. And it seems that, it was sort of all negative views, but as I say, we have different views or perspectives to many things and situations.

So here it goes..

Many people say that long distance relationships can never be worked-out. But for some people, it gives a little extra challenge to take on to their relationship. They much prefer this kind of relationship too. And I am one of them.

I would say, I love to take on challenges. I am not over confident about it, but I just want to sort things out. I want to give my best shot to it.

My family and friends did discouraged me to tried it out but for me, there's nothing wrong that. It might be tough tho, but I really want to go for it. So, I just ignored them, probably because as I say, I love to take on challenges.

You have already knew some details about my current boyriend, MGD right? (to my ever supportive readers☺️) And for the new ones here's the link for you to know who was MGD:

https://read.cash/@renren16/hoping-hes-the-one-60b1adcc

I and MGD was in a long distance relationship right now. For the very reason that he lived in Southern part of Leyte. And he just visited me often times because of our distance, his work, and most especially because of our current situation, which is this covid pandemic. So, we only have communication through video calls and chats.

There's a saying states;

"If you want to live together, you first need to learn to be apart." ~Anonymous

And a Chinese saying stating that;

"Real gold is not afraid of the test of fire."

I found this situation as an opportunity for both of us to bound together even longer and stronger. As what Emma said to Will in season four of glee;

"I'd rather be here, far from you, but feeling really close, rather than close to you but really feeling far away."

Luckily, MGD and I both understand each others' situation but indeed, we also experienced storms. We both fight to each other, and for me, it was the best thrilling part of being in a long distance relationship. That when you fight and just want to break it up and quit, yet you both chose to take down all your pride and keep your love for each other alive. And thankfully, MGD had an enough patience to settle things down. That was also one of reasons I chose him to be my boyfriend because he was matured thinker than I. I'm not saying I am immature but when it comes to him, I would say, maybe at times.

I also love surprises. When MGD visited me, he brought and bought my favorites fruits and chocolates. He also gave me flowers but it just happened sometimes. That little efforts he made for me, makes me feel so special. I am contented with that little sweets, and fruits, and also the flowers, as long as he wholeheartedly gave it to me, I appreciated it that much. Unlike other girls out there that was too demanding, but whatever, not my problem. And it was such an extra ordinary feeling when you missed someone so much and you finally get to see each other again.(hayy heaven..😌)

Honestly, I still have doubts and a lot of what if's? But, I just chose to keep in silence. I am still observing the other sides of the picture, probably, I might get hurt if he do something awful but let's just hope for the best!

Final Words:

"The truth is, no couple can be in a long distance relationship forever. Eventually we all need to settle down." ~lifehack.org

How about you?

Do you also prefer to be on a long distance relationship?

Can you take on the challenge?

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God is good, All the time!😇