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Have you ever felt something awkward in your life when family members don't respect you but respect others more? maybe we often feel this problem as a family member who lives together in one house who almost every day looks at, communicates, interacts but in reality the good attitudes and actions that have been done to fellow family members are not taken into account and are simply ignored.

I pondered about this when some time ago I was often neglected by other family members. Try to imagine when I have to tell about important matters in family matters regarding home improvement, family needs and budget, electricity usage etc. they don't listen to my story even I feel that this is just a waste that has been wasted but when other people tell on those who are enthusiastic about listening are very visible even input from others is more accepted and realized.

I asked myself, what are the privileges of others over me as a legitimate member of the family? Maybe I'm not considered anymore or they have more respect for others, My confusion escalated when I was at my friend's house and told his parents when he finished telling stories for so long with his parents, my friend said to me that I had managed to talk to his father which he thought was very difficult to tell with him as his son.

From this incident I conclude that the privileges of others have an influence on a family bond, perhaps in this case I am ignored but others are accepted. If we think rationally which one will we trust the closest person we have known and have lived with for many years or someone else?.

As with events at some events or parties, we often prioritize other people to eat but our other family members seem to be ignored or ignored.

I feel something odd and this attitude has been passed down from generation to generation maybe respect for others is more important but it must be remembered that family members are very important because our lives in the world of supporters are the most fanatical when we get problem is family.

• Will someone else take care of your needs?

• When you are old, who will guide you?

• When you are sick will someone else take care of you and give you medicine?

I'm confused why other people are SPECIAL.