If you're frightened of being harmed if you fall in love, don't feel alone; you're not the only one who feels this way. In reality, many people refuse to believe in love because they believe it is not worth the risk of being broken and crying. Others claim that this is the beauty of love: you can't completely understand how it feels to love someone unless you've been hurt.
If you aren't ready to fall in love yet, that's fine; take as much time as you need and don't stress about it; the appropriate time and person will come along someday. Please continue reading if you are reading this essay with the intention of dipping your toes into the world of relationships.
When is love worth the pain?
If you believe the relationship has a future.
The first response to this love question is whether or not you believe the relationship has a future. It's a fairly normal response to such a question, because why would you pursue this if you don't think there's a chance of success in the future, right? However, if you believe the relationship has reached a point where there is no way out but down, and you believe it is no longer healthy, it is understandable to let go.
If this is merely a temporary stumbling block.
The second thing to consider is whether you are aware that this is merely a temporary stumbling block in your relationship. As the years pass, you and your partner will encounter many challenges together, problems that will put your love for each other to the test, so don't give up at the first indication of dispute. If you're certain that this is simply a temporary situation, it's well worth hanging on to in order to reap the benefits of growth later.
If you believe that is the correct thing to do.
If you believe that this is the proper thing to do, the third response to this long-awaited question is yes. It's worth it to go through the difficulties and backlash if you honestly believe this decision and this relationship is the absolute right thing to do. Grab your partner's hand tightly, keep your chins up in the face of negative criticism, and trust in each other to get you through this.
If you're serious about making things work.
If you want to make the relationship work, the fourth question to ask is whether it's worth it. When you adopt this mindset, it automatically assumes that you are willing to give up anything in order to be together. So what's a little pain now if you know you'll be spending your happily ever after with the one you love after this?
If you're willing to put forth the effort.
If you're willing to make the sacrifice, tick the fifth box on this list. You can only experience the sorrow that love has to offer if you are willing to make the significant sacrifices that it necessitates. You can withstand any amount of anguish love can hurl at you if you can devote yourself and put out your best effort.
If you genuinely care about your partner.
If you truly love your partner, the sixth best answer to help you decide is yes. When you love someone, anything you do for them is worthwhile. You quit smoking, quit your job, and moved closer to her, or you gave up all your vices, but that's okay because you know that whatever makes your partner happy, makes you happy too.
If it would help you become a better person.
If you know this experience will make you a better person, the seventh response to this perplexing question is yes. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, as the song goes, and this is true because we grow the most when we overcome our most painful and life-changing experiences. If you know that at the conclusion of this experience, you will have changed for the better, it is preferable to go through the pain and receive those benefits.
If you entrust your lover with your life.
If you put your trust in your lover, you'll be able to tell if love is truly worth it. You have no idea where this is going, if there will be a rainbow at the end of the storm, or if you will ever see another sunrise, but it doesn't matter because whatever happens, as long as the person you love is with you, the destination is irrelevant. Because you trust your spouse, you're willing to face the unknown and the agony.
If you believe it is worthwhile.
The tenth and final solution is simple: if you believe your love is worth risking your life for, then go for it! Don't hold back since you only get one life to live, and it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all, as the saying goes.
Fighting for your love is like standing on the edge of a broken bridge, surrounded by storm clouds and a thick fog that obscures what lies below, leaving you with nothing but black clouds. You want to jump to the other side but are hesitant since you don't want to get wounded, but then you hear a voice calling your name.
Everything is worth fighting for if you're together. It's taking a risk indeed. Believe and have faith! 😇