Some people believe that mothers are solely responsible for raising their children, while males are only responsible for providing for their needs. This, however, is not the case. Dads, too, need to be active participants in their children's lives. As they grow older, this will have a favourable impact on them.
So, how do you go about being a good father? If you're a new father who's still fumbling around in the dark, here are some practical suggestions.
Make an effort to be a good provider.
For improved financial security, more families nowadays have both parents working. Regardless of whether or not your children's mother works, make sure you're doing your bit. Even if your pay isn't particularly high, your children will undoubtedly appreciate your efforts to meet their requirements.
Spend quality time with your children on a regular basis.
Make the most of the time you have with your children while they are still little. They'll have their own lives eventually, and you'll miss having them around. As a result, find time to bond with them, no matter how busy you are at work. I admire a father I met previously who told me he spends thirty minutes every day with each of his children.
Set a positive example for your children.
If you don't want your children to pick up vices like smoking or drinking alcohol, don't give them to them. Be a role model for them if you want them to be kind, hardworking, and disciplined. Showing your children anything is the finest method to teach them something.
Stick to the house rules.
Be strict and consistent with whatever house rules you establish, such as a curfew, television viewing times, and chore assignments. Don't be swayed by whims or justifications (unless valid). If you don't obey the rules, there will be consequences. Those who return home after the curfew, for example, will be grounded for the entire weekend.
Don't be too tough on yourself.
Discipline must be ingrained in the family, but I don't believe that being overly strict with your children can help. They may obey you now out of fear, but if they get the opportunity to be free, they will abandon the restrictions you have established. Many of my friends who came from conservative households grew up to be incredibly emancipated.
Correct their errors.
It is your obligation as a parent to ensure that your children grow up to be upright and good citizens. As a result, do not be complacent in punishing kids when they disobey from the start. If you hear them cursing, for example, you must quickly handle the situation by explaining why it is wrong and warning them that if they do it again, they will be punished.
Learn to pay attention to them.
Yes, parents may know better, but if you want to keep your children close to you, learn to listen to their arguments. Even if you are the family's leader, your children have their own opinions. Allow them to explain themselves before you ground or scold them for something they've done. Then, if their justification isn't valid, you can carry out the punishment.
Encourage them to pursue their goals.
Allow your children to explore their passions rather than forcing them to pursue a vocation of your choosing. Encourage them to pursue a college degree or a career that they are passionate about. Because they are content with what they do, they will have a better chance of excelling in their chosen industries.
Allow them to make their own decisions.
Teach your children to be self-sufficient and decisive from an early age. They should learn to make decisions about what they desire, such as the meal they want to eat or the colour of shoes they want to purchase. They will not be readily manipulated by others around them as they grow older.
Demonstrate your pride in them.
Your children value your admiration as a father. Make sure they know how pleased you are of them. Never compare them to other children and always appreciate them in front of others. These will help them feel better about themselves.
Love their mother.
One of the ways to be a good parent is to love and respect your children's mother. Because of the rising number of broken families in society, your children may be concerned that your family will fall apart as well. Show them that your marriage is founded on a strong foundation of love to protect them from this dread.
Being a father is not easy, and the duties that come with it can be overwhelming at times. However, for the sake of your family, strengthen your resolve, make plans for the future, and endeavour to be the greatest father you can be with the support of God and your wife.
Yuppp, today's generation many things have changed. Providing needs is not just a father's job. Thought just because you can provide need doesn't mean you're a good dad. Me as a son. I want to have more quality time from both of my parents, I want to reach them whenever we want.
A 5 years from now or a decade I might become a father that is for the information you gave writer.