Momong, is the best way to monitoring child growth

Have you ever heard the word “momong”? This is actually a term from Javanese people that is often used everyday, what exactly is momong? Is momong important for children? Then what is the impact of momong for children and parents?

Term "momong" is usually interpreted as parenting, more precisely, that is raising children. Momong is an activity, effort and action of a person to nurture, guide, love, cherish, protect and look after a child which is done wholeheartedly with aim that child can get better and more appropriate care and education for the child.

Mothering a child is usually done by carrying a child because if you carry a child by carrying it, child will feel more secure and comfortable when he is very close to person who is taking care of him. However, mothering of child also does not always carry her, it can also be by watching and supervising child when child is playing. This can help children to become creative and brave children so that children do not rely too much on their parents and even the people around them.

Maternity activities or parenting are very important for someone to do for children, this would be better if the parents took care of them and not someone else. The "duty" of parenting should and should be done by parents themselves rather than having to hand over "duty" of raising child to others such as baby sitters. Because parents should be first to know and understand their child's development better than anyone else.

Giving full authority and custody of children to others is not good for children's development. No matter how busy parents are, children must receive direct guidance from their parents. Do not immediately give trust to others to take care of children, because not everyone can be trusted and can look after, care for, nurture and educate children according to what parents expect.

Trust of parents is often misused by people who already have trust of parents to raise their children. However, most of baby sitters are reluctant to take care of the children properly and correctly so that children receive a poor upbringing. This causes growth and development of children to be less good and experience disturbances.

There are many examples out there that are not very good or even very bad for parents who choose baby sitters as a substitute mothering for their child. If parents are busy and cannot take care of their children alone, parents should be smart in choosing and sorting out good babysitters for their children.

Momong is an activity that is very important for child development. Because by raising children, we as parents can know development of children directly. Momong can also help growth and development of children to be better and in accordance with the expectations of parents than children who were not cared for properly before.

Parents who take care of their children, indirectly direct their children to values ​​and good things through their habits. So that child will grow up to be a good child and in accordance with what parents expect. Parenting can also provide examples of good and bad things and children can distinguish between good and bad.

The conclusion is, try to keep taking care of your own children, even though you already have a baby sitter, it's better to still take time to take care of children directly. Never give full custody to another person even if it is his grandmother or grandfather. They should be enjoying their old age, not being your child's baby sitter.

Hopefully we can become parents who are able to raise our own children, no matter how busy we are we still try to give the best for our descendants.