Solution For You And Problem For Me
Actually this is a common problem that often occurs in our lives as humans, we must learn from life experiences that can make life more meaningful without having to harm other people from various aspects of short, medium and long term social life. Maybe the actions we take have made our lives prosperous but for others it may be an act of carelessness because it has changed their lives to be miserable.
This incident occurred when my father built a fence next to my house which often became a mess in my family because so many dogs entered my house to eat chickens, so to follow up on this, the solution was to build a left and right side fence.
Making a fence is not too difficult because my father was taught by my grandfather how to make a fence made of bamboo. The work didn't take too long and finally the fence was finished, all pets were under control from dog attacks and the solution worked.
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But unexpected events came from our neighbors who were upset and angry as a result of making this fence for one basic reason which was quite concerning because their small road had been closed for access from home for travelers. Indeed, if we look at the area or land ownership rights, it is part of our family, but their objection is that the small road they often take has been closed. I also feel sorry for this incident because it has restricted them from walking beside my house which is always their main access road but on the other hand we really need to fence it because of the protection of wild animals that will take livestock.
I realized we had made a mistake in building a fence from bamboo but on the other hand we also really needed protection. This incident made me think that every solution we think of for us to implement may be very good in life but sometimes it becomes a problem for others turns out the solution is not only thinking about the safety of ourselves but also other people because this experience has had an impact that your solution might just be a problem for me.
Some people also don't know to understand what's ownership especially when it comes to land. Some people can understand but not all so more adjustment is needed in that case. Later on they will realized what's the point of making a fence in your own land.