Solution For You And Problem For Me

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Actually this is a common problem that often occurs in our lives as humans, we must learn from life experiences that can make life more meaningful without having to harm other people from various aspects of short, medium and long term social life. Maybe the actions we take have made our lives prosperous but for others it may be an act of carelessness because it has changed their lives to be miserable.

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This incident occurred when my father built a fence next to my house which often became a mess in my family because so many dogs entered my house to eat chickens, so to follow up on this, the solution was to build a left and right side fence.

Making a fence is not too difficult because my father was taught by my grandfather how to make a fence made of bamboo. The work didn't take too long and finally the fence was finished, all pets were under control from dog attacks and the solution worked.

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But unexpected events came from our neighbors who were upset and angry as a result of making this fence for one basic reason which was quite concerning because their small road had been closed for access from home for travelers. Indeed, if we look at the area or land ownership rights, it is part of our family, but their objection is that the small road they often take has been closed. I also feel sorry for this incident because it has restricted them from walking beside my house which is always their main access road but on the other hand we really need to fence it because of the protection of wild animals that will take livestock.

I realized we had made a mistake in building a fence from bamboo but on the other hand we also really needed protection. This incident made me think that every solution we think of for us to implement may be very good in life but sometimes it becomes a problem for others turns out the solution is not only thinking about the safety of ourselves but also other people because this experience has had an impact that your solution might just be a problem for me.


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Comments

Some people also don't know to understand what's ownership especially when it comes to land. Some people can understand but not all so more adjustment is needed in that case. Later on they will realized what's the point of making a fence in your own land.

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2 years ago

yes, that's very true and that's also what I feel maybe they should get an understanding so that all things about kindness can be felt without any conflict.

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2 years ago

Not once nor twice have I experienced this kind of thing. There was a type we blocked a narrow road in our compound because people were turning it into a major road and plying motorcycles...Which is not supposed to be so. When w blocked it, the people started saying all manners of talks, it nearly caused fight

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2 years ago

That is also a problem that often occurs in my area because there is no sense of solidarity between people, but now everything has changed with good socialization in the community.

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2 years ago

Sometimes what is the best for us is worst for the others and so we also need to be very careful and shows some consideration so no one will get disturb. However it is also your right to have some protection, but maybe you also need to give them some space to pass specially if there's no any other way for your peace too as for sure they will continue disturbing you if you won't listen to their complaints.

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2 years ago

smart answer exactly what you said my friend and I totally agree and maybe we should act more professionally so that our lives can always respect other people.

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2 years ago

Hopefully you can fix that problem so that your neighbor will not get mad anymore.

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2 years ago

That has to be done my friend so that living in harmony will always be realized, indeed we also need protection but also other people's lives must also be considered.

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