Fear of making mistakes
"Sometimes a mistake can be all it takes to make a valuable achievement." — Henry Ford
We all make mistakes. We know that to err is human, that we learn from mistakes, that they are necessary to evolve, and yet we are afraid to make mistakes and admit them.
Why do we make mistakes?
First of all, we do not have all the necessary information when we make a decision, so we are forced to make decisions based on incomplete information. For example, we receive a new job offer. Although it seems convenient to us, we don't know all the details, we have no way of knowing them because we don't work there yet, but we still make a decision. Only time can tell if she was good or not. We cannot know what the future will bring us until we experience it.
Secondly, some decisions are based on the emotions of the moment. For example, when we are impatient to buy a clothing item at a discount and we buy it from the first store. Only after we have seen the offers of the other stores can we realize whether we have acted correctly or not. Sometimes emotions are not the best guide, but we cannot live without them.
Thirdly, there are situations where you have to choose between two undesirable alternatives. No matter how bad the choice you made turned out to be, you cannot know that the other option would have been more appropriate.
A mistake is not the end of the world
Some of us treat every mistake like the end of the world. I have heard many times: "I can't stand making mistakes.", "Should I do this or not? ", "If there will be a mistake, how will I get over it?", "How do I know I'm not making a mistake?". Mistakes are normal, they are part of life. If you're active and doing something, there's a good chance you'll make a mistake. Only those who do nothing, make no mistakes. If you live your life, work, relate to those around you, you can always make mistakes, but that doesn't mean it's the end of the world. Learn from your own mistakes, from those of others and move on.
You don't have to regret mistakes
One reason why it's hard for us to make decisions is because we feel like we have to regret mistakes "I know I'll regret it if I choose/do something". There's no point in regretting a mistake, admit it wasn't the best decision and move on. Give yourself a maximum time in which you allow yourself to regret the mistake, then tell yourself: "I made a mistake. I regretted it enough and I want to move on. I want to focus on the positive things ahead."
Sometimes it's sadder to regret that you didn't make any mistakes, that you didn't experiment, that you didn't take risks, that you didn't dare to live your life to the fullest and all because you were afraid to make mistakes .
We have organized our lives around the idea that mistakes are negative and that we must avoid them. You consider them to be the "uninvited guest" who disturbs your peace, and because of this you are always ready to defend yourself, fearing that they will come rushing to the door. But what if you yourself opened the door, invited him in and were willing to learn from everything that happens to you, like in Jellaludin Rumi's poem - The Guest House?
"This human being is a guest house.
every morning, a new arrival.
A joy, a depression, a lowness,
a passing awareness comes
like an unexpected visitor.
Be thankful for whoever comes,
for every one was sent
as a guide from beyond."
Forgive
From deep self-forgiveness it was only a single step to loving myself totally with acceptance, joy and gratitude. Because after you have healed and cleansed, love settles in its favorite place - in you. In your whole being.
I realized then that just as I have the power to forgive myself in pieces and in totality, I am also the one who can bring love, pleasure, relaxation, pampering, joy, gratitude, balance, harmony, abundance, fulfillment, happiness into my body .
How was it possible that I could do this? Because in this whole process of forgiveness and self-love, the difference made me believe that it is possible, to believe that I deserve to forgive myself, to believe that I deserve to receive and offer my love, to believe that that I am able to generate self-love, to believe and trust that I have all the resources and tools to know how and in what way, to believe that it is my right to forgive and love myself. The difference was made by the simple fact that I gave myself permission, just as I allowed so many other people to do it with me and my body. And now I turn all my experience to you and ask you:
Do you think you deserve to receive your love?
Do you think about yourself that you are worthy to give and receive your love?
Do you believe that it is possible and permissible for you to receive your love and forgiveness?
Do you allow yourself to forgive yourself?
Do you allow yourself to love yourself too?
Because the answer to all these questions is YES! This is the beneficial truth for you, woman! The one you deserve, it is possible and it is your right to forgive yourself, love yourself and value yourself.
You with you.
you you
You for yourself.
You being present in you!
#daughters #daughters
10 steps on the path of personal development
The path of personal development is always at hand, but most people see it only when they are at a crossroads of life, when they realize that the change of direction is a fact that can no longer be ignored.
I usually say that life whispers to us every day, but the tumult in which we live does not allow us to hear his call, then he screams, hoping that it will attract our attention, and in the end he strikes and puts us face to face with change.
Choices define and transform us, dreams motivate us, and the desire to contribute raises our vibration. Limiting beliefs put brakes on us, emotional baggage makes our journey difficult, but when we realize that we are indebted to no one, and that perhaps our only obligation is to enjoy life and imprint the world with our own gifts hidden in the treasure of the heart, our journey lights up .
10 steps on the path of personal development
1=**Who are you?** Answer this question honestly. Beyond the roles you play on the stage of life, beyond the masks you choose to protect yourself or please your loved ones, who are you? What do you keep hidden in the depths of your heart? If everything were possible, what would your life look like? What does fulfillment mean to you?
2=**Discover your values and choose to live in harmony with them.** Do not allow anyone to violate them and do not step on them for someone. Look at the things you appreciate, but also at the frustrations of life, so it will be much easier for you to list five values and allow them to guide you. For example, if lying and omission drive you crazy, one of your values is sincerity. Choose to practice it every day and surround yourself with people for whom this is a sacred practice, otherwise frustration will be the indispensable element in your life.
3=What do you really want? What is the great dream of your life? Let these questions guide you, take the pen in your hand and write down 100 things to do in life. Please don't stop until you make the whole list, then put it on display and celebrate each success.
4=**Set goals that are relevant to you**. Be aware that fulfilling your dreams must be a priority, and personal evolution a certainty. Find that "WHY" strong enough to lead you to success and help you overcome inevitable barriers along the way. Understand that different results require different actions, so rely on courage and perseverance, give up those activities that steal your time and energy, and turn your attention to the steps to success. Divide the big goal into smaller goals and choose to act in the desired direction.
5=**Get inspired by the people who have succeeded.** Read the biography of successful people and choose to work with a coach or mentor. Benefiting from support and a different perspective in the moments of balance is very important.
6`=Identify your negative emotions and release them.` Inner cleansing is necessary, releasing the weight of your emotional baggage may give you wings. Make peace with the past, integrate forgiveness into your life and allow yourself to dream, act with courage and live beautifully. I recommend psychotherapy and practicing the EFT technique. I strongly believe they will help you.
7*=Cultivate positive thoughts*. Choose to see the beauty of each person who enters your life, enjoy the gifts of nature, appreciate your body, look with love at you. Use mantras to raise your vibration. The Ho’oponopono method can help. And the positive statements created by Louise Hay, too. Include meditation in the scheme.
8=**Keep a journal.** It will help you get rid of the tumult of repetitive thoughts every day, be more aware of the direction they are taking you, and have more power to implement the changes that are needed. Writing is pure therapy, and journaling is the confidant who does not betray.
9=**Practice gratitude**. Start each day with an appreciative look at life and end it with a list of 10 things for which you express your gratitude. Remember that the positive and the negative cannot dwell in your mind at the same time. Appreciate the wealth you already have and the good things will increase in your life.
Read, sing, dance, paint, enter into communion with nature… choose to be the best version of yourself! Enjoy every day, be the main character in your life!
10=**Invest in yourself and allocate time for everything that makes your heart happy.** Investing in yourself must be your priority, realizing that skills and knowledge will serve you on the path you will follow. Balance the work-fun relationship in your life. Rely on skills and passions, try new things and dare to embrace change, even if many people will not like you anymore. People sift through and it is normal to be like that, some accompany us for a while, and others are our comrades for life.
The woman's journey to herself
The real woman is the goddess who bravely walks on a journey with straight roads and slippery paths. She is aware that life is a wonderful gift, that she has the freedom to embrace in the treasure of the heart the whole beauty of the world. He walks happily on the fragrant flower plain of existence, but he knows that he will also encounter barriers that he must overcome, while he sets as his personal mission to paint with rainbow colors the whole journey.
Endowed with a considerable dose of sensitivity, women are like open books that not everyone can understand, experiencing situations in which they step on the paths of the world wearing smoky glasses on their noses. Some are still waiting for that prince on a white horse or the Cinderella's shoe to get them out of trouble.
We must recognize that, at a certain level the air can be thinned, the woman can get drunk with cold water without going out of print, she is put in a position to taste the cup of luck, but also the glass of poison of life, just to learn that everything is dual. That freedom and censorship are part of the same existential picture, just like truth and falsehood, love and hate, or ying and yang.
In the tumult of each day, the inspiration resembles an intensely ignored soft song, which is why the supreme force of the universe appeals to bullets and its lethal pistol. In this way, life shows us that we are too heavy to carry in our palms, that it is time to stretch out our hands and allow our wings to grow.
At a close glance in the mirror, with the string of colored beads around her neck, the woman notices that she is dressed in a masquerade ball, that she plays as the world sings, that a thick layer of dust has spread over the essence of authenticity and that the right time has come for a switch switch.
The eyes are the guides that take her to a cryptic place, to a meeting with her own self, in an adventure to the inexhaustible source of love and to multiple possibilities. This meeting brings to light streams of bitter tears, regrets and sighs, often lived in a natural loneliness. For the woman rarely knows how to ask, instead, she masterfully plays the role of savior, she offers to exhaustion, because society has been playing with her mind since she had baby teeth and braided tails. That's how he came to believe that everyone's happiness depends on himself, on how he wears a cook's apron or whose heels as a wise businesswoman.
He hid many dreams in the corners of his own soul and it was time to fulfill them, to call on the world clock to make time for himself. For putting yourself first is not proof of selfishness, but of self-esteem.
What does a woman do out of love? He puts himself at the service of others and can easily forget his own mission. He can display a rosy smile as his soul cries, he can put on the garment of limitless sacrifice, until he gets too close to the abyss of life and realizes that he has not followed the path to fulfillment.
Is it too late to be found? The answer is hidden in your soul, make the journey to yourself, get out of the reach of those who point the remote control of their own desires at you and put brick by brick to the life you dream of.
You may wake up with deafening screams, slammed doors, manipulation, but I trust that beyond innate sensitivity hides your boundless power, which is the time to point in the desired direction, to press the accelerator pedal with courage and leave the brakes under the feet of the cowards.
If you have succeeded in life, do not cling to the failures of another
When a man manages to do something that required a lot of effort, pride begins to work in him. The one who loses weight, looks with contempt at fats, and the one who has quit smoking twists his contemptuous nose when another is still swaying in his vice. If one diligently represses his sexuality, he looks with contempt and pride at the sinner, who is struggling to get rid of sin, but his instinct takes precedence! What we do can defile us more than sin itself. What we get can upset our emotional landmarks in such a way that it fills our souls with venom.
The money that comes to us can make us arrogant and stingy, as success can turn us into the frightening abyss of soul passions. The road to love narrows when we look at others from the height of the eagles in flight. The gentleness of the heart dries up the spells of contempt, hatred and pride, if the soul is not ready to receive its success with the modesty and grace of a flower. Everything we do for ourselves and bring us energy is meant to return to those who are still struggling in suffering and sin.
Our eyes are not designed for contempt, but to express with them the image of love that strives to come out of our souls.
If you suppress hunger while fasting, your hunger will increase. Your mind will dream of tasty and chosen foods, your mind will feel the most appetizing smells even in your sleep, so that the next day, mad with frustration, to compensate for its lack by a defiant contempt for the one who does not fast. Then, fasting becomes an occasion for pride, for expressing pride and for triumphing over lusts. But, above all, pride remains pride, and the feeling of frustration confirms it.
If you have succeeded in life, do not cling to the failures of another, so as not to awaken in yourself the fierce worm of pride and passion for arrogance. Success is the energy of love and your ability to accept life, but it does not remain still, it is not like a mountain or an ocean. The arrogance and pride of success bring you down, little by little, from your base, because they draw on the sky of your life events specific to them.
Lose weight, rejoice and be silent! Quit smoking, enjoy and be quiet! Clean your yard, enjoy the cleanliness and leave the neighbor's garbage where the neighbor himself put it. Because there is a hidden relationship between the neighbor and the garbage in the yard, some emotions that you do not know, feelings that you will never suspect and causes that will remain, perhaps, forever hidden in your mind and heart.
There is a hidden relationship between the fat man and his fat. An agreement. A secret. A misunderstood feeling. An unconsumed emotion. A rejected love. Fat is the teacher of fat. Vice is the teacher of the vicious. And, in our lives there are no teachers more severe than our vices and incapacities.
Now I know, I know that any hatred, any aversion, any young mind of evil, any lack of mercy, any lack of understanding, goodwill, sympathy, any behavior with people that is not at the level of grace and tenderness of a Mozart minuet… is a sin and a filth; not only murder, wounding, hitting, robbing, swearing, driving away, but any vulgarity, disregard, any bad search, any contempt, any bad mood is from the devil and spoils everything. Now I know, I found out too…
Dear father girl&boy ❤️
💜 Dear father girl,
When you treat your daughter calmly and respectfully, you learn that she deserves nothing less than respect from others. And this will help her to carefully choose road partners with whom to grow on all levels.
When you're there and she wants you to play prince and princess, or when she wants you to teach her how to drive a nail or watch you fix the car, you show her that it's not just about pliers shoes, it's about you feel good "in your slippers", whoever you are, whatever passions you have.
When she jumps into your arms in tears and you allow her to bring out how she feels, you learn that sometimes it is okay to cry, and other times to tear down walls and prejudices through your courage and strength. There is a right time for everything!
💜 Dear father of the boy,
When you hold your child in your arms and caress his hair, you do not make him softer. Our boys need to remind them that being strong does not mean not looking vulnerable. And the muscle of empathy, of love, of sensitivity must be trained just like any other muscle.
When you play with him and enter his creative scenarios, you do not raise him "childish" or "unserious", but show him that life can be, in equal measure, play and joy, but also seriousness and discipline.
When you tell him, "I'm here if you need to talk," he learns that his opinion matters and that what he has to say can change the world for the better. A child who is listened to when he is young becomes an adult who knows how to listen to others and make their lives more serene.
Children need to be loved as they are, because when they feel accepted, they feel safe and have the courage to build the life they deserve!
"Sorry. Forgive me! ”
These are some of the strongest words.
When we look our children in the eye and tell them this, they learn that they deserve respect - and our respect, and that of those around us. Moreover, they learn to show their respect and recognize when they have made a mistake.
When we ask for forgiveness, when we tell them "I was wrong!" we do not lose the respect of our children, but we gain it in infinite "quantities" for life.
❤️ Motherly love is hidden in small things.
When you cook his favorite food that he ate yesterday with gusto, but today he tells you that he doesn't like it, so you do something else for him, because you want him to eat enough,
When you can no longer stand tired, but you still read his favorite story a third time, because you know how important your evening routine is to him,
When you sit by his pillow at night to caress him so that the fever goes away, even though your temples burn with stress and exhaustion, because you know that you give him security and that your kisses are stronger than any medicine,
When you no longer know who to listen to and you see that everyone has an opinion, so you choose to listen to your heart, even if you are afraid of making mistakes and you have thousands of thoughts,
When he cries and hits and tells you things that make you angry, but you think of his sadness, more than yours…
"That's what love looks like."
Because love is not given,
Love is not taken,
Love simply is.
I don't want to be just the man who always sees life in shades of gray. It's natural, normal to make mistakes, to put my trust in the wrong people, to fall.
But it's just as normal to go after every failure. To regain my balance and free myself a little.
Because I want to be free, like the sea. Don't let a "no" or a "maybe" stop me.
I want to be less skeptical and write the story of a moment, of a day, the story of a summer according to my rules. I may not be a talented writer, but I want to write my own story.
I want to be able to smile when old insecurities, treacherous questions and pathetic reasons stick their heads out to pull me back. To smile, I say, because I know, because I can.
I don't want to settle for the stars anymore. I need the moon, and the fact that I'm not an astronaut won't stop me.
We each fly in our own way, in our own time. And I think that's absolutely okay, as long as we continue. As long as we fly on.
Stress management
5 methods of stress management before an interview
Most of us face unpleasant manifestations of emotions before an interview, especially if the dream career depends on its outcome.
This experience can generate a lot of stress and tension, from wet palms, sweating, dizziness to stomach pain, insomnia, etc.
The good news is that there are some tricks to help you manage the stress of an interview:
✅ the sentences you intend to say
It is often helpful to anticipate certain requirements and questions in order to prepare the answers we will give. By repeating a certain speech aloud, we will train our body and mind for the big day, so we will be able to be as natural and relaxed as possible.
✅ visualize a pleasant image of a place where you feel comfortable
Causes of stress at work
Specialists define workplace stress as a strong emotional response, with many negative effects both professionally and physically or emotionally.
Among the most common causes of stress at work, we mention:
➡️ the existence of too many tasks in a short period of time;
➡️ Frequent quarrels or misunderstandings with certain colleagues;
➡️ establishing a routine that prevents the development of the employee;
➡️ imposing a program without flexibility, which leads to the rapid accumulation of fatigue;
➡️ non-compliance with employees' opinions when making important decisions in the company;
➡️ the constant proposal of deadlines that are difficult to achieve;
➡️ lack of balance between work and personal life
➡️ faulty organization of tasks in a working day;
After identifying the causes of stress at work, it is vital to find effective solutions to ensure the proper functioning of the system.
This technique helps to remove negative thoughts and associate the interview with the sensation created by that image: strength, joy, relaxation, optimism, etc.
✅ control your breathing
The moment you force yourself to breathe in a different rhythm, you become calmer and slow down your heart rate. You can draw air into your chest by counting up to 4 in your mind, then hold the air for a few seconds, then exhale it for as long as possible.
Smile or laugh more
A positive attitude is always needed, increasing your self-confidence.
It is proven that laughter causes the release of dopamine, the hormone of happiness, which reduces stress levels in the body.
✅ relax before the day of the interview
As students are advised not to recap the subject the night before the exam, we must apply the same principle in the case of an interview.
To be in top shape the next day, prepare your body for a relaxing bath, a light dinner and a restful sleep. To be able to fall asleep, use hot tea or milk.
How do you know that stress affects your family life
Stress, this "modern disease" affects our lives more than we might expect, having a major impact on both professional and personal life.
Prolonged stress decreases productivity at work, as you begin to feel more and more tired, exhausted, unable to complete daily tasks.
It also has a negative effect on the relationship with co-workers due to the high level of irascibility and frustration given by the deadlines received, which you feel you can not cope with.
In addition to the relationship with colleagues at work, the constant stress leaves its mark on family life.
Without realizing it, you get used to a less healthy lifestyle, with agitation and fatigue at a high level.
Exhaustion and nervousness affect your behavior towards children, and you spin in this vicious circle that seems hopeless.
How does prolonged stress manifest itself in family life?
➡️ children do not get enough sleep
When parents are tense, children often become agitated, and this affects their sleep. Insufficient sleep creates irascibility, decreases our concentration and attention, losing our ability to solve problems and manage the situations we face.
➡️ Scream more often at loved ones
Nervousness and impatience lead to tone and the use of harsher words, which you would not normally use. When you notice that you are no longer in control of the situation and you lose your temper very easily, it is time to take a break and relax.
➡️ You rarely eat with other family members
When you are overwhelmed and overwhelmed by daily tasks, family meals become unpleasant moments that both adults and children try to avoid.
➡️ talk less and less often with your children
In times of stress and pressure, children tend to isolate themselves and avoid communication with their parents, but also with their friends. If you notice an emotional distance of the child from you, it is time to take action and find relaxing family activities together.
➡️ the appearance of health problems
Stress affects the whole body, so children may have nightmares and headaches and stomach pains, and adults may experience migraines. The higher the stress level, the weaker the immune system becomes.
All these manifestations can be prevented or improved by changing habits that overload the body and adopt a healthy lifestyle.
Playing a sport at least once a week, outdoor walks and short vacations with the little ones are reliable allies in the fight against stress and restoring the family atmosphere.
Reorganizing activities and sharing tasks among all family members helps to better communicate and can bring a smile to the lips of adults and children.
Stress has a major negative effect on the way we act, so it is vital to find the best ways to manage it.
People who know everything
There are a kind of people who know them all. Experts, what more! They know how best to dress, what to eat, what to do, how to do, who to befriend, who to love, where to go to rest, what you did wrong, why you went wrong, how to go , how to sleep, how to breathe. In a word: EVERYTHING! They know everything, they have opinions and judgments for everyone, about everyone, about absolutely everything. There would be nothing serious about it if they kept their opinions, beliefs, points of view. But no! They can not! And they rush at you and start telling you what to do without asking in advance if you need their advice. They enter your life with dirty slippers (they don't know that they have to take off their shoes when they enter a man's soul!), They aggressively impose their opinions on you as if their own lives were in the middle, not your life. I think we all have such people around us, whether we are co-workers or in a circle of friends, or someone in the family.
So, omniscient man! Today I have a message for you!
Before making judgments, giving your opinion about someone or someone's life, don't forget, you only see what that person allows you to see. That's it! You do not know his pains, his wounds, his sufferings, his fears, his defeats. You don't know what was behind every decision you made. You do not know his sacrifices, nor his sleepless nights, nor the thousands of tears he cried, nor the pain hidden behind the smiles of politeness. Basically, you know NOTHING! Then why do you allow yourself to judge, to accuse, to condemn? Why? What makes you believe that you have the right to break into people's lives and souls? Who do you think You Are?
Stop thinking you know them all. Enter the lives of others only if you are convinced that you can help them, that you can hear them, understand them, that you can heal them. Most of the time people do not need reproaches, but understanding, a shoulder on which to rest their head full of thoughts, hugs, and a “Everything will be fine! I'm here with you! ” People need to know that someone really cares, that they accept them as they are, with flaws and qualities, with defeats and achievements. They need to know that they are accepted and loved for what they are, not for what they have.
No one owes you to be faithful, because you are faithful! No one owes you to feel sorry for you, to love you or to lend you money! The short lesson taught by a psychologist.
That means stop waiting. Understand that no one owes you anything and that will be the beginning of your dawn.
No one.
With nothing.
He's not in debt.
That simple…
Get rid of the illusion that you are a very important and significant person in the eyes of those you meet.
No one is obliged to love you, to offer you something, to make friends, to behave honestly and honestly with you.
No one owes you loyalty just because you are loyal to someone or something.
No one is obliged to help you, to give you your arm in difficult moments.
No one owes you to pity and reassure you.
To lend you money.
Listen to your stories and laugh at your jokes.
No one owes you to fill the void in your soul and the lack of ability to live without the presence of someone in your life.
No one is obliged to hire you because you are a good worker.
No one is obliged to take care of you and especially to give you a happy and carefree life.
No one is obliged to give you the same feelings.
Kindly.
With gratitude.
No one is obliged to act in the same way as you did to him.
You understand?
No one. Nothing. To you. You don't owe me.
Never and not at all.
Do you think this truth makes you darker and stiffer?
Disappointed)?
Not. Not. NOT.
Look at things differently.
It is about deep forgiveness.
Everything that happens in your life takes place thanks to your state of contentment and gratitude.
Now you will learn to appreciate the little things you ignored:
A good word.
Asking for help.
A smile.
In fact, the problem was in you, only in you.
Do you notice how good it is in the world when you don't cover everything around with expectations, with "I want" and "you owe me to"?
All people are good at heart. Let them be natural, without your expectations and evaluations. Thus everything will return to its places.
And this is very important in interpersonal relationships.
"If you love, let go…", this means that invaluable freedom, in which true love is born.
Respect the other's choice.
Don't try to anticipate and control everything. You don't like it, leave, but don't hurt someone else's life.
Nobody owes you anything.
This is the first step.
Go on without expectations.
Stop fighting everyone.
Injustice is gone and all that remains is gratitude for what you have in abundance and so wonderful.
Lightness and simplicity, that's what you need to feel.
Now you don't carry with you everything that permanently knocked you to the ground.
You are free now.
Free to listen and be quiet.
Just be free.
Nobody owes you anything.
And you don't need anyone or anything.
Live and love!
The less you need, the happier you are!
The conclusion of the last days: the less you need, the happier you are.
Why? First of all, because you start consuming less energy for the ones you (no longer) need.
I mean?
I mean, it's simple. If you become aware of what you no longer need, you will not be interested in having them. Stop clinging to them and no more attachments.
Attachments lead to a consumption of the soul, to a clinging to that dream, to addictions and self-forgetfulness. Focus on wanting and less on living. At self-destruction and departure from the essence.
By giving up what you are aware of you do not need, you are happier primarily because your time will increase. Precisely because you won't use it to get what you just don't need.
It could be food. It could be hygiene products. Of clothes. Of people. Of all kinds of goods that do not bring you a plus. Which make you run like a mouse in his wheel to have them.
This "what you don't need" awareness can be about more. It does not refer only to a specific category. As we are each different, and unique in creation, our needs are also different.
By freeing yourself from them, you free yourself from all that held you back from being free. From living more fully. From doing what you love. From being useful or doing something useful. From living quietly and living the moment of dolce far niente.
This way you can save time, energy and money, and create memorable moments.
It's like emptying your closet of clothes and things you don't need anymore. Suddenly you have space. Suddenly you are given the opportunity to use that space as you see fit.
Even with new clothes. If that's what you feel you need. Maybe the ones you donated didn't represent you anymore. Maybe they were outdated or you just want a change and the clothes seem the most accessible.
Whatever the reason, try to see why you can free yourself to experience as much freedom as possible.
The freedom I am talking about comes with detachment, with relaxation, with a state of well-being. You feel a relief in your soul. You feel that you have enough. That you are enough and that the outside is no longer the one who fills you, but yourself.
Seek to see what you really need. Freedom is so beautiful. It's so reassuring. Really peaceful. With you and the rest of the world. No matter what relationship you had. With you or the rest of the world.
And when you decide to free yourself, practice giving wholeheartedly. No regrets. No expectations. Without anything. Just look for yourself, to feel full and grateful that you can give, that you can regain your freedom from the methods of consumerism, false needs and even values. By yourself who have enslaved yourself in masks, needs, pretensions and expectations.
Meditate a little on the subject. I don't think you'll be indifferent after that.
The less you need, the happier you are! Take note!
Both for now. Just breathe. Understand. Forgive me. It helps. Loves.
If you want to get rid of bullying, educate your parents!
Bullying, a phenomenon present all over the world, is in fact the act known to Romanians as a "mockery". That is, when a child mocks, laughs, talks, or acts of violence (physical, emotional, mental) against another child.
Everyone jumps up, but omits an important aspect of the vision: children work on the principle of "monkey see, monkey do", meaning they do what they see at home. I do not dispute that there are no results if we work on educating children, but I believe that the greatest education should be given to parents.
Exactly to those parents who have such children. If you do not behave like an aggressor at home or in society, when you are around the baby, he will not do the same.
Bullying is the harmful behavior of people with a greater or lesser inferiority complex. People who, since childhood, have not been loved, have not been given attention, care, trust, have in turn been mocked, discriminated against, ridiculed and so on, and now, when they are old enough, they begin to make a " dance of revenge ”on those around them. It is a method by which the aggressor, through bullying, tries to regain his power from others. He lost his power when he was assaulted by others. She was forcibly taken away. Now, feeling the other's weakness, she attacks him just to prove to herself that he can, that he is also strong. That he no longer has to bow his head, but can make another bow his head in front of him. And how else, than by force. Strength is the key word in bullying. The force destroys, it rushes, it's like a raging storm that leaves nothing behind. Destroy. It is the opposite of power. Power (helps) you, (raises) you, (helps) you to climb, to grow, to grow. And through bullying, the aggressors do not want the aggressors to get up, to have power, but to sit down, to be small - small, to have the aggressor the satisfaction that he is strong, can dominate and play those around him.
It's a psychological power game. Affirmation and reaffirmation. But in fact it is a behavior through which the aggressor shows how many unresolved traumas he has, and his manifestation is a cry for help. Unconscious, but it's a cry for help.
Returning to the idea that parents must first of all be educated: if you do not have such behaviors around the child, the child will not manifest them in society. He, the child, seeing you, big macho or big lady, talking badly about himself or about another person, then there are quite high chances for him to develop in himself attitudes by which to be the same with others.
It is the environment that shapes us. Unfortunately or fortunately. And the environment needs education. The child may have good parents, but if he is raised by nannies or grandparents who have exactly the behavior that no one would want, then the matter is clear.
The fathers of our century went out of their way to make money, to get jobs. I spend 10-12 hours in work like crazy and forget they made babies.
Someone told me the other day that he had heard from a teacher that parents often forget to go after their children. A lady had gone somewhere and forgotten to come for the baby. And it's not a singular case. I am firmly convinced that if we were to give a voice to teachers, we would have N such situations. Seriously?! Is that why you forget about them? Leave them with the nannies, throw them to the grandparents and God have mercy ?! Don't you realize that you are giving birth to souls who will grow up like zombies, without affection, without the manifestation of care, attention, love, and who enter society will behave in the same way ?! Then we wonder about the news that the baby killed his family.
Bullying is the cry of all those children who have bad examples at home. Who do not have love, care and attention. The ones that no one cares about, whether they have money and are dressed in Versace, or they are poor and with ragged pants.
Start at the root, that is, where they come from. Educate the root. I know we are all used to taking antibiotics if we get sick, but the bad part is that synthetic drugs (chemical and not natural) do more harm than good. It treats the effect and leaves the unresolved cause, so that after a while the unresolved cause manifests itself in the form of another disease.
So it is with children and bullying: in vain do you tell children (the effect) if you do not turn your attention to environmental education (the cause).
And one more thing to keep in mind: all bullying is the result of our collective work. Of all the people who thought that if they had money, cars, houses, company clothes, status, they could offer everything they didn't have to their children, they did something.
Brethren, I didn't succeed. Instead of putting value on the material, now the material falls on us like an avalanche. We need time and attention. Whether we are 5, 15 or 50 years old. We are endowed with souls. Souls feed on emotions, feelings, not money and wealth. With money and wealth you nourish the body, but if the soul is weakened in vain you still have a body.
Stop for 10 minutes and look behind you: relive all those memories in which you felt fantastic around your loved ones. Remember how nice it was to have time. When the run was on the playground and not for money and opportunities. Head for the beautiful part of life. You are already in the black and energy consuming. Go to you and your families. Show them your care and love. And all bullying will heal on its own. Because we will no longer have people with the need to prove, but only people capable of loving and accepting. Sounds good, doesn't it ?!
Give it a try, enjoy!
STOP mimicking kindness🙏
Yes, living in a world of image and appearance, people mimic goodness. Practicing false goodness so many times, it has turned into a behavior.
It's like a program that you activate when you need it.
But do you know who are the first to be fooled by mimicked kindness? We ourselves because, if you look closely, we mimic kindness towards us for the first time. Why? As a result of what we see "in the market". Fortunately, the human beach offers us so many examples of "how to" and "what to do" that various characters appear who come to show us how "we" should be.
Well, out of a need to be exactly the "good" ones, we turn into mediocre copy-pastes.
With regret for those who feel that mime is good, I remind you that the planet Earth is about duality and the density of duality. It's about darkness and light, sweet and bitter, black and white, goodness and wickedness.
And I remind you that we, as human beings, are not entirely "good." As Spirits we are, but here on Earth, we have come to experience the duality, which also involves that drop of "evil" that we hide behind the curtain so that at some point it will explode into something that wonders what.
I don't know why I have to tell you this, but if you've ever wondered why it's allowed, in some situations, so bad, one explanation is the denial of the so-called "evil" in Existence and its assembly, the transformation into an energy. condensate that ends up making "poc". That it is about one's health, cataclysms, poverty and other forms of negative manifestation.
Many do not understand why floods or droughts come, all kinds of weather conditions over certain areas. It's really simple, because the planet is so smart that it knows how to harmonize polarities. People get the impression that if they play with the weather and do well in an area, their play will be without repercussions. False, when you are dealing with a Natural System of Self-Knowing "how it should be", that System will know what methods to use to bring harmony back to its level.
So it is with man, as he tries to be good, especially in a false way, so he will be rewarded 😰
We sometimes live with the impression that we know and that we can, when we are part of a System far too broad to perceive it with the human mind. And that very system also detects and identifies the mimicked goodness, and as a counterweight it sends the dose of what is needed.
What I am writing here is also relevant for those cases in which some people ask themselves "why do these things happen to me, that I am a good person, I have only done good".
The news of the moment is that mimicked goodness is not goodness 😝
It's false kindness
Allow yourself to experience all human states, both the states of darkness and the states of light are equally uplifting. How can the Darkness be uplifting? By teaching you, the experience of living in the Dark is perhaps one of the most valuable lessons. In the light everything is 🪷 flower power 🐥 fluff and unicorns 🦄 But in the Dark you can know the depth of your being and the limits of your existence.
Personally, I dislike mimicking kindness, along with receiving false mimicry from others. Interestingly, from those who mimicked kindness to me, I never needed to use what they wanted to give me. From simple things to more generous forms of giving and helping.
In fact, they were of no use to me
I always felt an inexplicable streak of negativity 😕
Implicitly rejecting their manifestation 😱
From now on, see yourself first. And then, even where you are not, allow yourself to be genuine. Always reminding you who we are and why we came here. What I'm writing here doesn't mean we can't transform evil, yes. But up to the ability to transform, it is good to have the ability to receive.
Mimicking and stifling only make situations explode 🫣
Awareness and understanding release 🤗
Take care of us and those around us
We only appreciate the good things when we meet the worst! That is in our human nature ...
If we hadn't met the tears, we wouldn't have been able to appreciate the unimaginable power of a smile.
If we had not met with sadness, we would not have been able to appreciate the euphoria of joy and the healing effect of laughter therapy.
If we had not had the terrible pains of an illness, we would not have been able to appreciate the most precious gift we have, health.
If we had not gone through certain sufferings that were considered incurable, we would not have been able to appreciate the divine miracle produced by faith.
If we had not encountered the cruel disappointments of love, we would not have known what the thrill of the purest and noblest feeling in the world, love, means.
If we had not met poverty due to lack of money, we would not have been able to appreciate its value.
If we had not met false friends, we would not have been able to appreciate the dedication, unconditional help, and soothing embrace of true friends.
If we had not gone through the pain and the bad stages of life, we would not have been able to appreciate the beautiful moments we are living.
We love and appreciate good only after we have become acquainted with evil! Therefore, in all evil there is a part of good, we just have to observe it and realize that without those moments of sadness, those of joy could not have appeared. Just as without light we could not see the infinity of the blue sky, so without darkness we could never enjoy the enchanting brightness of the stars.
Today's worries, tomorrow's burden ...
* We are so full of soul, so heavy, that simplicity becomes an effort that exhausts us terribly. We do not realize that we carry in us all the frustrations, all the grievances, the failures and the regrets only when it is too late and we are already on the ground. Recovery is more difficult and difficult than prevention.
We let too many things into the soul. From negative thoughts and feelings to words thrown into the wind by people without God. No wonder we walk through life as if we were sick, as if we were old, as if we were hopeless. With our shoulders down, our heads down, our eyes down, we cannot see the greatness and glory of God.
Let us take more care of our souls, let us care more about what is going on inside us than about the words and opinions of those around us.
The only opinion that counts and deserves to be taken into account is that of God. As long as you follow in his footsteps, as long as you try to be His child, you don't need the validation of other people. God is the one who validates us. Not the people, not the things, not the material, not the success and not the wealth.
The soul needs simplicity and order. Discipline and balance. We can't burden him endlessly with anything. He needs to breathe, to calm down, to find peace and harmony.
When you don't know what to say to God, say, "Thank you!"
I don't ask for anything more, I'm just amazed and I thank Him from the bottom of my heart for everything!
Thank you, Lord, for the water, for the bread, for the air, for the heat, for the life, for the health, for waking me up in the morning, for putting me to sleep last night, for what has been shown and for what has not been done, for the people who take us out of the way, for all that we know and do not know!
✅Positive thoughts
The thought of the week
It's about you. Always;)
I've told you a few times before that the system we're working on isn't the brightest, is it? At the beginning of this week, I want to remind you, but not to make you sad, but to make you aware.
Even if we do not know, from the first days of life the human environment teaches us that, most often, something from the outside is the cause of what happens to us. Both positive and negative bill.
For this reason, until recently and still valid in some situations, people were looking for partners to love them, friends to be with them, bosses to appreciate them, implicitly they had children so that, I quote, “to have old age who to give them a glass of water ”🥶
What the system has done is just externalize our existence by making us believe that "others" through and for us. But as we awoke, we saw that we could become somewhat independent of the outside world.
Even from giving up looking for lovers who adore us or those "best friends" who will fulfill our lives. But what makes me happiest is that humanity has understood that you are making children your guide and hope, not the way you have your slave in his old age, who can bear your frustrations and unhealed wounds.
Yes, humanity understands easily, easily that it is about itself. Always
By changing the way we look at things, you know that the way we look at things changes. And so, we learned to look at ourselves 🥰 With more understanding, bewilderment, rebellion, but also forgiveness, reconciliation, implicit love.
The outside is here to be our reader, mentor, guide, sources from which to learn, to develop, including to adjust our existence in the terrestrial plan. The others are here "for our good" so that we, through them, understand that whatever is outside, with small exceptions, it is about the inside.
That's a big deal.
Understand that it's about you. Always
What does a successful day mean?
It can be one in which you are very productive. But also one in which you laze in the sun.
A successful day means spending quality time with your loved ones. But it also means spending quality time with yourself.
A successful day can mean adrenaline, travel and unforgettable things. But, just as well, it can mean a day when you get lost in a book, when you dry your hair in the sun and don't hit your head with spf, hats or anything like that. It can mean a day when you are comfortable with yourself, when you feel free and reconnect with all the wonders around you.
The role of plants in our lives 🌹🌱🌿
I approach a familiar subject, but as well known as it is unexplored. My desire is to make us aware of what we have around us.
First of all, notice that living we are (in) Life. Therefore, the first role of plants is to be in Life, to contribute to life and, most importantly for Man and the Planet, to sustain life. I have also said that Nature can live without man, but Man cannot live without Nature. The difference between the two forms of existence, Nature and Man, is that Nature is always Anchored and Connected, unlike man who has fewer and fewer Roots and Connections.
I also approach the situation in terms of understanding that we are part of the Whole and the Whole is part of us. So another remark is that we and the plants are, in fact, the same One.
Starting from the idea that we are "One", I illustrate the third role, of Collaboration. Yes, being a Whole, there is always an exchange between the two elements, human life and plant life. Man constantly takes from plants, respectively plants from man. Therefore, please pay attention to the plants you have in the house, decorative or aromatic, and observe the way they are and observe yourself later. Over time, once you become accustomed to observing the environment, you will see that their condition is influenced by your condition. They will stagnate, flourish, die, multiply, even reborn. Depending on the environment, they will lead their own lives.
Each plant has a great power of sacrifice, so they will sacrifice themselves for the environment and often take over the weight of people 😬
Like animals, plants take up the coarse energy of their cohabitants, thus helping humans to be better 😶
During the takeover process, there is a Communication channel between Plants and Man. Yes, the plant kingdom is constantly communicating with us. It is true that not many of us are aware, but plants transmit information to those who care for them. Each plant has its own "spirit", and by the fact that they are always Anchored and Connected, the information received is true.
As a challenge, start communicating with the plants around you. You can submit the most beautiful compliments or the most unpleasant words to them. Reactions will not be long in coming 🥸
Being with us, the plants are our true Companions. Yes, people may not see things that way because they don't respond back the way we know they do. I mean verbally. But plants are, along with animals, faithful and colorful companions. A flower in the right place creates harmony.
Another role of plants is to teach us care. Let's be aware and careful to put water in them, to change their pot, to take the dried leaves ... if we refer to the ones inside. Let's see if the location where we put them is the right environment. The lack of one of the vital elements can affect the plant, and consequently us.
The last of the many roles, and one that is missing from man, is Respect. Have you ever wondered how much modesty lies in the grass we tread on? Or how much power is there in the trees we cut down to keep warm? Not to mention the vegetables and fruits that are the fruit, the babies of each seedling. When was the last time you said, or did you ever say, "Thank you for a handful of cherries" for being made, that the tree has borne fruit? It's normal, you'll say, I'm just not going to think about it.
It is normal, this is his role, but it is also normal for us to honor the gifts received 🙏
Man lacks the act of Honor. It is a lesson that is not taught in schools, nor is it sufficiently illustrated in books. But perhaps from now on, those of you who read will be more and more aware of the role of plants in our lives and of the act of Honor.
I would like to end with a remark about all the devices we use.
In an outing in nature, some people came on ATVs on the route. Being connected to Life, I felt how much it hurt her. I could feel Mother Earth trembling with anger. Then I asked, "Why?" The answer was simple, because it produces "noise and disharmony." I mean, nothing natural. Nature and Life produce elements that do not destroy. Man ... has more to learn!
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Preventing others🤫
If we knew how much harm we do to those around us, through our various behaviors, I think the availability for change and evolution would increase exponentially.
So how do we stop others?
Easy, not giving them the opportunity to grow with us. Before I go any further, I have a request. From now until the end of June, look at yourself, but also at the environment in which you live, and see (your) behaviors that hinder the development of others.
So how? Here it is: not letting people do something 😇 Here are three examples that most of you are familiar with.
The first of the mother, father, family who does everything for the child. From the first moments of life, the family is there for the child, perfectly normal. Support is the key, but the ability to discern how far we can go and where we allow our wings to grow is essential. Do you know the behavior of parents who want to give their children everything? From putting them in their mouths when they can already do that, to giving them a toy instead of letting their baby take it, to chasing after them, to intervening for them among friends, to those who I talk and answer instead of the offspring, not to mention making decisions on behalf of the little one (or not) and end with the memory of a situation in which the "leg" of 18 years did not want to grow up but the family did and the adulthood took place.
The second example is the marriage in which one of the spouses martyrs himself and does the work in place of the other. She cooks, washes, irons, takes care of the house, if necessary, the children, goes shopping, chooses the holidays, pays the bills and what else do they have as a couple to do. To the point where, although the other one could, not only does he no longer have the availability but also the necessary fun.
I give the third example from a discussion in which I was told that he had not allowed a friend to do a job x because my interlocutor knew that maybe he was better than his friend.
And this is how we become "the hindrance of others."
I explain briefly:
- doing everything for children, we cut their chance to develop from the beginning. To understand what it means to make decisions, the ability to discern good from evil, to know what to expect. Not to mention the management of the situation, the adaptation of behavior, the creation of connections, friendships, the ability to socialize and fraternize with different people or groups. In Romanian, many parents "spoil" their children out of an exacerbated desire to help, control or be with them. Look at the non-speakers, they learn, guide and release the puppies. Give them the best, but also the chance to develop on their own. They fell, perfect! You will be there to encourage them to get up and shake off their dusty clothes, let alone bear the fall in their place. The chance at life is given by trust, not by giving of everything. There are so many children who do not know how to cope with life, to adapt, to make friends, they have a false self-esteem. And painful.
- and consortia break up with each other. Someone recently told me how she and her husband did it all together and how they learned from each other. A marriage, a relationship, a connection is about developing partners by learning from each other, with the mention that both are open. If I have the ability to cut onions, then I can pass on the teaching to the person next to me. If the other person knows how to make mayonnaise better, it comes out tastier and has a technique that doesn't cut it, let's see this miracle too 😋 it leads to frustration, exhaustion, reproach, unavailability, separation and division (even if not physical, but the most painful - emotional).
Writing about them, I can think of a couple who have been together for almost 40 years. In the house of the esteemed, the woman did most of it. And because she didn't have much to do with anyone, and because she was always unhappy. Well, our housewife has gotten sick and the wonderful gentleman has to do the work for her 😱! Besides the fact that the communication between the two is "water gun", and rarely hit, they woke up at the point where she expects everything to be done "as she does", when he is more of an amorphous, reinforced concrete in the household. He also found out that he had to do women's business because there was no one left.
- who would want friends with a "he knows them all" always? And who wouldn't let you, in your inexperience, do something? And friendship is about superiority and control 🥶? Of course, we do not dispute that it is nice to have good friends at all and you wonder what acquaintances. But still.
Anyway, at least I didn't go down without explaining myself first. For the love of art 🤗
The idea is simple: by not letting others live the experience, we are directly opposed to their development 🛑 This is exactly the aspect we ask you to observe in you and in your environment. The habit, even the grips through which we always jump to do something for others.
By simply not letting a person suck, you are obstructing his ability to learn to do something. You limit him, you pass that ability on to him.
You know very well that repetition is the mother of learning, that is, practice. But if we put ourselves between experience and individual, chances are we will wake up, over time, with a disabled person. And not physically, but as an experience and living life.
Like this:
- parents wake up with children unable to live their lives, full of fears, anxieties, dependent on those who gave them life
- spouses with absent partners, unavailable, living in other realities (even relationships)
- and friends with other friends who "know them all" so well that only one pedestal is missing. Undoubtedly, all self-esteemed connoisseurs would climb on it on their own, because only they know how and still can
No doubt read this because some of you want to become aware of something. What? Time will tell. I wish and wish you all the best.
Golden rules that would be great to guide you through in life
1. To see God in every movement, to hear God in every sound, to feel God in every touch, for God exists in all existing and non-existent forms.
2. To love the Universe and everything related to it because we are all ONE and we are connected.
3. The reality of each one is as everyone creates it. All moments and experiences already exist, but in order to manifest them we must vibrate properly. Thoughts and emotions form the vibration. The state of being makes it come to your reality.
4. We are spiritual beings, not physical bodies or minds. We are Divine beings who came to earth to experience who they really are.
5. We are LOVE each of us, we just need to be aware of this to experience it.
6. There is no right or wrong, right or wrong, there is only what exists and we must accept that, especially collectively. For our lives we have the power to choose what we want to experience. For others we have the power to accept all the realities they create.
7. Every being is free and has a free will. Do not violate anyone's free will. Each in his own way. Who you can help, do it with pleasure and involvement. Who doesn't, is free to choose any other option.
8. You live your life making choices inspired by love, happiness, joy, without having outside expectations. Let life surprise you. Everything that comes into your life is for your supreme good.
9. Live in the present and enjoy every moment that comes your way, every sunrise, every breeze, whether you eat, stay in nature, stay with your friends or stay on social networks. Live it to the fullest!
10. Everything you want already exists inside you. Listen to your soul and intuition and from now on everything you do will be in line with it.
11. Meditate, say statements, pray, grow, and discover yourself. Love yourself and behave as you know you already are.
12. Forgive everyone and everyone, including yourself. Every day he forgives and blesses those around him.
13. Enjoy the success of others as your own, we are all ONE, connected, so the success of another is also your success.
14. You reflect in the mirror with the help of the people around you. Each person is a mirror of yours. You see yourself through another person, and so does he.
15. Observe life in terms of joy, happiness, love, beauty. Whatever happens in your life is based on this observation.
16. Your physical body is improved every day and looks exactly the way it is.
17. Choose to be yourself every day, to connect with yourself, to love and respect yourself. By doing this you will enter the wonderful world of the deliberate creation of life.
18. Intend to bring light, joy, knowledge, peace, and love to every person you meet.
19. You are an unlimited being who can be, have, do whatever he imagines.
20. All the things that stand in your way are because you attracted them and because you identified with them. If you don't like your life, change direction.
"Modesty is the business card of the smart man. You don't have to go all the way to your destination. Take the first step and you will know the next one. One morning, an old street sweeper was introduced to a young man who wanted to learn the craft of sweeping. The young man took the broom in his hand, but when he looked into the distance and saw how long the street was, he became discouraged and said, "We will not finish sweeping this street in two days, let alone in one day. I give up." . And he sat sadly on the sidewalk. Then the old man said to him: "Well, you don't have to look at the end of the street, because that way you never do anything again and sit aside. One more wine, one more brandy, one more cigarette and you wait for time to pass, convinced that it is not possible. Not so! Take the broom in your hand and don't look ahead! Just look down, turn left with the broom, turn right with the broom. Left-right, left-right and, without realizing it, you've reached the end of the street ". See today, here, now, what you have to do and without realizing it you reach the end of the street. "(H. Filipescu)
A little story
In a garden somewhere,
Saw a lily and tulip ...
And arguing endlessly
Which of them is most desirable:
Lily- I smells good
Stuns everyone
With its fine izuri
And any man who cherishes.
"Yeah ... but I am so beautiful!"
Said tulip proud hard
"I velvet petals
The world did resemblance !!! "...
And arguing boasted,
Rain and clear skies ...
Till one day when the earth
Get frail a thread with thorns ..
"What fierce ghost!"
Tulip said the lily
"I do not smell but comely
But that is full of thorns! "
"Yes even you're absolutely right
You know it's ugly sister ...
He looks for in our garden?!?
C here are just beautiful flowers! "
And so today, and tomorrow so
They had forgotten their hatred ...
Now they had on-else
As gossiping above all sport ...
The thread grew slowly,
And the thorns grew by just
And our lily and tulip
Daily spoke badly of him.
But one morning, in the sun,
Fall dew appear on the field
On top thread appears
A little ducky and tender.
phew ...
"May and dare to blossom!"
He said the lily tulip ...
"Who thinks her wish
wire and thorny ugly ...? "
"Let sister! We know very well ..."
Lily replied conceited
"That is more beautiful than you!
Nor fragrant like me! "
But the blame bud,
A red rose blossom
Velvet and nmiresmat,
As only these flowers can be.
Lily .... not smell:
It's a foreign poison ...
Tulip-almost-die
Envy invade ...
And because in Beauty
It can not compare
To be-turned lily and pufneşte
Full of nerves and evil:
"Look at those balls on this !!!
He flourished njosească to us!
It gives him great bloom now ...
Here, right in our garden !!! "...
... ... ................................
"Do not judge what you do not know!"
He said a smart man once ...
"People talk a lot and badly
And you have to thank her again! "...
Hate, envy, gossip ...
We ally ourselves with other enemies
For position and money
I forgot how to love! ...
Do not judge what you do not know!
That life can not foresee and a ...
Try to be more modest
And illuminate your soul! ...
And her look proverb:
"Not all are beautiful beautiful!
And not all thorns sting
Although they seem scary! "
Do not judge! ... And you're wrong!
And I told - do not wash!
Watch what and how you talk ..
That appearances deceive! ...
About the power of the subconscious
ECHO:
Father and son climb the mountain. The son falls, injures his knees and cries out in pain:
- AAAuuuuuuu !!!
To his surprise, a distant voice from the mountains answered:
- AAAuuuuuuu !!!
Curious, the child asks:
- Who are you?
The answer arrives immediately:
- Who are you?
Upset that someone was cheating on him, the little one shouted.
-Coword!
- Coward !!!, was the answer.
Not understanding what is happening, the boy looks at his father:
"What's going on, Dad?" Was the question on his face.
The father, smiling, says:
- Be careful: I admire you !!!, he shouted.
The voice from the mountains answers:
- I admire you!!!
The man shouted again:
- You are a fool!!!
- You're a fool !!!, the voice answers.
The child was dumbfounded. Understandably, he didn't understand anything.
Then his father explained:
- People call it ECHO. In reality it is LIFE itself ... it gives you back everything you say and do ...
Our life is simply the ECHO OF OUR ACTIONS.
If you want more LOVE in the world, create more LOVE around you ...
If you want to be treated well, treat others well ...
This relationship applies to all aspects of life ...
Life will give you back exactly what you gave it ...
Your life is not a coincidence ... IT IS A REFLECTION OF YOURS.
Someone used to say, "If you don't like what you pick, check what you've sown.
Exactly what you plant, that's what you pick.
You don't have to be a farmer to know that a good crop needs good seed, good fertilizer and constant irrigation. "
Your attitude is the only one that has an impact on your life: everything you give comes back to you!
HOW THE MIND WORKS
1-Think good and good will happen. Think of evil and evil will follow. You're what you think all day.
2-The subconscious mind does not contradict you. Accept what the conscious mind decrees.
3-You have the chance to choose. Choose health and happiness. You can choose to be friendly or unfriendly, helpful, cheerful, cordial, friendly and everyone will respond accordingly. This is the best way to develop a wonderful personality.
4-4-The conscious mind is "guardian". Its main function is to protect the subconscious from false impressions. Determine to believe that something good can happen and is happening now. Their greatest power is the ability to choose. Choose happiness and prosperity.
5-The suggestions and statements of others have no power to hurt you. The only power is your way of thinking. You can decide to reject the thoughts and statements of others and affirm the good. You have the power to decide how you will react.
6-Be careful what you say. He will have to answer for every useless word. He never says, "I'm going to fail, I'm going to lose my job, I can't pay my rent." The subconscious doesn't get a joke.
7-Your mind is not wrong. No force of nature is evil. It all depends on how you use the powers of nature. Use your mind to bless, heal, and inspire all people everywhere.
8-Never say "I can't". The master is afraid by replacing it with the following statement: "I can do anything by the power of my subconscious mind".
9-Start thinking from the eternal truths and principles of life and not from the point of view of fear, ignorance and superstition. Don't let others think for you. Choose your thoughts and make your own decisions.
10-You are the commander of your soul (subconscious mind) and master of your destiny. Remember, he has the ability to choose. Choose life! Choose health! Choose happiness!
11. Everything your conscious mind assumes and believes is true, the subconscious mind accepts and seeks to accomplish. Believe in luck, divine guidance, right action, and all the blessings of life.
"We talk too much, we love too little, and we hate too often!" A damn real article that will touch your soul
We all ask for sincerity, but we still don't use it…
Here are some sincere and so deep thoughts about the things that really matter.
“The paradox of our times is that we have a high structure, but a low tolerance; wide highways but narrow views.
We spend more, but we have less; we buy more, but we enjoy less.
We have big houses, but smaller families; better amenities, but less time.
We have the best education, but less mind; best knowledge, but we evaluate the situation worse and worse. We have more experts, but more problems; the best medicine, but a much worse health.
We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too much irresponsibly, laugh too little, walk too fast, get upset too easily, go to bed too late, wake up too early, read too little, watch too much TV, and pray too seldom.
We have too high requirements, but low value. We talk too much, we love too little, and we hate too often. We know how to survive, but we don't know how to live. We add years to human life, but we do not give life to the years.
We reached the moon and back, but we hardly crossed the street to meet our new neighbors.
We conquer outer space, but not the soul of a loved one.
We do more things, but not better.
We clean the air, but we pollute the soul.
We write more, but we learn less.
We plan more, but we accomplish less.
We learned to hurry, but not to wait.
It's time for fast food and bad food, big people and small souls, quick profit and difficult relationships.
Time to increase family income and increase the number of divorces, beautiful homes and the destruction of family homes.
Short parting time; disposable diapers; one-night stands; overweight and pills that do everything: it excites us, calms us, kills us.
It is the time to fill the windows and empty the warehouses.
The period in which the technology allows you to receive a letter and, at the same time, to distribute it or to click on "delete".
Remember! Spend more time with those you love, because they are not with you forever.
Warmly embrace the person you love, because it is the only treasure you can offer from the heart and it does not cost a penny.
Say "I love you" to your loved ones, but first really feel it.
Kisses and hugs can solve any problem when they come from the heart.
Hold your hand and enjoy the moments spent together, because at some point, the man will no longer be by your side.
Make time for love, for communication and time to be able to share everything you have to say.
Because life is not measured in the number of breaths, but in the moments that take your breath away. ”
Letter from God
"Have you often wondered where I am? You cried. Your heart was bleeding and your soul was crying for help. I was there, but you didn't see me. I was holding you in my arms, and you were looking back and crying because you couldn't see the marks next to yours. You thought I left you. You fell into despair believing that you would never get out of trouble. You shouted to the sky and only the echo of your voice answered. You fell to the ground defeated and discouraged….
I was there dear soul!
I carried you in my arms, otherwise you wouldn't have reached your destination. I was healing your soul while you threw stones at me. I was stroking you, while you were hurting me by saying I didn't exist! I was by your side, talking to you in a whisper trying to soothe your pain, but the noise in your soul kept you from hearing me. I was fighting with those who hit you, but you were blinded by pain and did not see me. I caressed your soul, but the hatred in your heart prevented you from feeling with me.
I was there meu .my darling. I'm ALWAYS next to you! Rest in your soul and you will hear me whisper words of relief. Let go of the thoughts of revenge and you will see me working hard.
Let me help you, my dear.
I am there with you and I am just waiting for you to open the door of your heart to me.
With love,
The one who carried you in his arms and still carries you,
God."
TODAY IS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL DAY!
Each of us plays his part on an instrument in this symphony of life. Problems arise when we want to interpret someone else's score. The life we live is the prayer we offer to God. We are all surrounded, moment by moment, by divine love. Everyone's experience and life change other lives. Mission. There are no differences between us but those in our minds. The problem becomes a problem depending on the interpretation that my mind gives. No one is inferior to anyone else. We are mysteries of the great Mystery…
Man, stop looking through your lashes, all the clouds where thunder is heard and lightning are passing. Thoughts and emotions are ephemeral. Every human being is an icon and a gift to others. It never occurs to anyone to criticize a rainbow color: green is good, blue is sinful, red is shameful, yellow is proud. They are all shades of love. When you give up, life embraces you. How beautiful God sees you!
Forgive me, Lord, the tear left in the corner of my heart! Who am I without you?
It all starts and ends with "I love you"!
How do I teach my child that the world is a beautiful place even if there are wars, famines
For many days I wanted to write this article about parents, children, bad and good, and how we parents can shape their image so that they can see the world. I don't have the absolute truth, not even close, I'm just setting out my example, maybe it's useful.
The catalyst was a message received from an acquaintance about how we humans are just jumping in certain situations, I don't think it was a criticism (only) of me and I didn't take it personally, but it made me think.
I don't think that's how the person was trying to paint my life and people, I think we're jumping in any situation based on our personal values.
Of course, we will jump more to events and situations that affect us more on a personal level, for example when something happens around us, to a family member, to a dear friend.
We also react to events that are not related to someone you know, such as:
a person who has grown up in material deprivation will help where there is hunger,
a person without parents will help orphans,
a person who loves animals will help with animal shelters with money
It's a choice not to do anything.
It's a choice not to do anything.
It's a choice not to do anything.
It is the choice of each person to do something and not an obligation (more than moral). There are people who say that they give taxes, and from that money the authorities, the state, or anyone can do what they want and they don't give anything to anyone "for free", just as there is no need to comment on someone's personal choice.
BUT to comment when someone chooses on personal money, on personal time, using their personal resources to help a case that is different from what we would do is…. difficult to qualify.
Okay, let's move on.
I was talking to my little girl that it's OK to have different opinions like "let's agree to disagree" and that sometimes we have to clean up our friends list, invest our time where it makes sense.
I also told him that one's opinion must always be respected!
We can analyze, we can debate, it is ok if we do not reach the same conclusion because we are different BUT evil, envy, selfishness, and any other emotions that do us no good we are not obliged to accept them, nor to fight them. That's why we're looking to have friends we're compatible with.
I told him that I had received a message that saddened me in tone and message, but that I had not entered into controversy. I told her that I am sad to see that there are parents who give their children ideas about an ugly and bad world, in which people accuse each other instead of being united, with people who instead of building something stand aside and comment with malice - that is, it would be better not to spread evil.
I think these are people who suffer and feel the need to look for the worst in the world to bring to the surface, to point the finger, to condemn, to put in the middle of the "market" or social media messages their sensational evidence with the message that "you don't think / you're a fool / woe to your head… etc" if you don't see those things so clear that they see easily and quickly and in their goodwill they try to align you too, to get rid of stupidity collective in which you splashed brainwashed by everyone around you (all but them, of course). God forbid you see things differently!
What seeds do I plant in my baby? What is my goal through the examples I give him?
Let me show you that problems are solved.
Let me teach her that when someone needs it, she can help to do it wholeheartedly, because even a little help can have a big effect on those who need it.
Let me teach her that this world is a wonderful place and that if she has problems, people like me and her will jump to her aid.
Good and evil live together, as well as light and darkness, as well as many others, they stand out from each other but we appreciate what we choose in our lives.
Good and evil live together, as well as light and darkness, as well as many others, they stand out from each other but we appreciate what we choose in our lives.
I want and hope that every day he wakes up with a smile on his face, to be a good man, happy, generous, fulfilled.
I am aware that through the words she hears from me, through the conversations I have with others, through the way I relate to various things, I build her filters of life, values, beliefs, including blockages.
We parents are the first example in their lives.
It is difficult for us to let go of certain aspects that we have grown up with, I know, but we have to think that we are preparing them for the future.
If we are critical, eternally dissatisfied, if we constantly comment on the evil in the world we let them see this part of life, we draw their attention to it, we let them internalize these things that of course are there, but what do we prepare them for? What do we want to see and look for in life? Which of the two parts of life?
We can show them the other side of life, the beautiful part in which good overcomes evil, in which love overcomes negative feelings, in which they are safe.
I think they have the right to be confident, kind, generous, wise, happy!
We will have successful children, because we care!
Discover how you destroy social networks
We are in the information age and modern technology has evolved quite a lot but it would be better to stay a little and think about the impact of social networks in our lives.
Are they good our morale? It really helps, as they were designed from the outset? They are really useful or is a waste of time and a source of sadness?
If before people sent their letters which handwritten and wait a few weeks to reach their destination, today with just a few clicks you can contact real time someone halfway around the world.
Behold beat technology space and time without problems, which is a big plus, right?
Is this a benefit of humanity? Clear yes. But unfortunately, the Internet has a dark side which is quite dangerous. Those who do not learn to beware of the pitfalls of social networking, end up being frustrated and dissatisfied with their lives.
Involuntarily they compare to the "better" than them and begin to feel envy, malice or despair.
When you see luxury exposes others videos as you go and you just live from hand to mouth, it is understandable that you get to feel small and insignificant in this world so great.
And somewhere louder you think you've been wronged / D of this cruel fate.
What can we do to avoid this evil I am social networks?
How can we avoid the psychological poison that Facebook, Instagram or TikTok a spreading each scroll through feeds your account?
I will try to discuss in this article, so I invite you to read carefully until the end and tell me in a comment your opinion about this topic.
Today, it seems that Facebook is starting to lose kind of popularity and more and more people migrate to Youtube and more recently by TikTok platform.
I had seen a documentary about TikTok application which stated that every day millions of people around the world create their account on this application. At least at the level of 2022, when writing this article, this is the reality.
"It means he has a huge success, good for them!" you could say, but that is the substrate of the behavior of users accounts on social networks?
People are used primarily to run after everything is FREE. So we made, psychologically, we are very happy when we receive something ready.
Any gift, any benefit for which you pay nothing makes us vibrate with emotion and to awake out of sleep everyday monotony. Become energetic and enthusiastic.
However, there are thousands of people who have no account on social networks. They are cut off from the virtual reality. I do not know and have never heard or perhaps do not care about it.
Others are so clumsy phone that does not know how to install an app and create an account on Facebook, for example.
Some are old and simply are not accustomed to XXI century technology.
Others have not a smartphone, so are poor financially!
They are privileged in any way that they have or will not have access to this virtual world? We shall see.
Whether you fit the guild who have accounts on popular social networks or not, the Internet world governing your life without you. Social networks and the impact is felt in your life, in one way or another.
Think of your bank card that you manage through a mobile phone application. Or transactions you make on your laptop or computer. You would not want, of any technology. And if you do that, you are very close to have contact with social networks. Sometimes I have no choice and are forced / D to do this, you might even need to work to collaborate with such a network.
However, how you use the most popular social networks distinguish between good and evil that they produce.
Today, almost all business sites need an online presence to have greater success.
Once we have dealt with pandemic Covid-19 and such restrictions imposed by the majority or immersed in Netflix movies, TV programs, or have all sorts content on YouTube and other social networks.
Before we go any further, I want you to think about the following: social networks are made up of nothing but people. So it reflects the mentality of those who make it up. Hence results and impact of social networks.
Facebook, Tik-Tok's Youtube site are nothing more than large chunks of cyberspace where millions of people like me and you create content and publish various types there every day.
Some possible public bullshit, others seek to create value with which to inform and truly help others have a better life and to succeed in life positive aim.
We all form these social networks without us humans, they would have no practical purpose and could not exist.
*Think you have a Facebook account. What you do with it? Perhaps you hold to talk to family and friends via Messenger, to publish some great photos with you or to them "spy" on others and see what they have done.*
The bad news is that what we choose to publish sometimes there is so artificial and fake that it characterizes us as we really are. We want our lives we manifest perfection but in reality, we are so imperfect! And not a bad thing because you are imperfect. It is actually very good because in this way you are forced / D to evolve and change.
Many people consider Facebook or TikTok is an alter ego of their own, which can be simply perfect and show what nor reality.
Others, like me, think that these social networks were designed to spread useful information and help the world, preferably by post positive and inspiring.
The conclusion is that all social networks are made up of people and thus reflects the result of each character and mentality. Here's how to form social networks impact people's lives.
Sure some postings violate these platforms and therefore are removed and the user is blocked. These are extreme cases.
However they came to these virtual communities in which we spend our time? May our good are they for?
*We got to have a separate life on social networks and some simply feel that there unless they have* a presence online.
A Lost DREAM...
- a lost dream?
Warm summer mornings always remember childhood days when I would wake up early in the morning and I ran to the friends.
Barely got to eat something during the day, only the mother's entreaties:
-Mădă, come and eat!
-Not hungry. Stay and play.
And all states ... .de morning until the sun went to sleep.
Playing hide-and-seek, hopscotch, salt thread, ducks and hunters, baba muuulte blind and other games that kept us all engaged, nerisipind single gram of energy.
I remember very fondly those days have memories worth as told and bloopers. We enjoy the simple things but we realize that happiness could ... simply.
With disappointment, say that technology never ceases to appear a month passes and performance made the most children forget what the park means real social life, which means movement and fresh air, falls, fights insignificant matches football and reconciliation with the sweet taste of chocolate.
Computer games, all actions that do nothing but distract the kids from reality, generating memories? What will be told when they are adults?
Children are not to blame. No blame can no parents who lack time no longer afford to spend an hour playing with their own children. Perhaps society has become too shallow and shape their attitude and behavior depending on what cell phone you have, how you spend your free time, etc.
Technology has its purpose, but that's too much hurt.
When I was little, I wanted so much to be a "great man", that now I realize that the most beautiful days were then, when I woke up with sunrise and went to sleep when Star appear in the sky.
Let each child to taste the flavor of childhood. Nobody relived those days, no matter how much they wanted.
Every age has its magic.
"A child can always teach an adult three things: how to be happy for no reason, right never sit still and how to press for what he wants." - Paulo Coelho
*~~**A**~~* ~~**LESSON**~~ *~~**IN**~~* *****COURAGE*****
More or less, each has a lesson of courage in life.
Media promotes this kind of people, heroes who save other people's lives, but heroes did not need help? They who are helped?
However, where does the impulse to act when we are afraid?
Some works even without thinking that their deed carries serious consequences on their lives and thus the feelings of loved ones.
How many times have you tried to get your courage to act in a any way? And whenever the scene you give back? Courage is a momentum just moments, no matter how many plans you've done before, nothing comes out as you imagined.
So, after all, where does the courage?
It appears desires!
The desire to:
He says someone something
-to save someone's life
-to be regarded as a hero
-to be loved
-to you can demonstrate that more
-to be free
-to help people
-to change our lives
-to left alone, etc.
It is these desires expressed in the form of this beautiful feeling increases our confidence noi.Curajul stubbornness is like a child to do the opposite what parents said: As I say more not approach the fire, the more he frige.Asta's life cycle will not evolve if we have the courage to act.
What are the consequences of inaction? Regrets! And if we are honest, we recognize that each went regrets in life. Rather than ask "what would have happened if ...?", Better to live our end of life smile and fulfillment facts.
I wish you a lot of courage in realizing your dreams!
Because before you can, you have to WANT!
Dream of a World
Dream of a world
… In which women love their men so much that they can never get their hands on a weapon again
… In which men have such an open heart that they can never see an enemy instead of a brother
… That the women may be gathered together, and offer the blood of the womb to the earth, that the blood of their husbands may never again bathe in the pride of this world.
… In which women feed in their wombs and give birth to the world the vision of perfect peace
… In which men receive in their hearts the blessing of true power
… In which women are offered the gift of security, so that they can freely offer the gift of life
… In which men can put the integrity of their own heart above the feeling of debt
… In which, together, men and women have the power to put Love above all else. Even when we seem to be forced to choose something else.
I dream of a world where it is as clear and clear as daylight that the separation in which we invest so much energy is another invention created to keep our hearts hard.
I dreamed of a world of open heart, no matter the circumstances. Tearing wide and non-negotiable. A world of love at all costs.
Aim
And maybe I'm not the only one…
Amazing Planet
We live on an amazing planet. We are surrounded by plants, animals, seas, oceans, insects, birds and humans. Wherever we look, we see breathtaking scenery. Who among us has not admired the sunset, rainbow after rain or a butterfly on a flower gathering nectar? And how beautiful view of snow-capped mountains or a field of blooming chamomile. Each day brings something unusual and bright in our lives.
Man and nature are inextricably linked. A person not only lives in the nature, but regularly uses its resources. But the desire for comfort not only kill the love of nature, but nature itself. Many believe simply that owes everything human nature.
Using natural resources should at least cherish them and to treat Mother Nature as a human being. Love for nature must be inculcated from childhood.
Nature is inherently unpredictable. A day can give a gentle sun, the other can bring a destructive element. Even ancient thinkers noticed that nature can wreak. It gives life and in one world can take.
Nature often plays the role of a psychologist and soothing. Nothing helps you understand better than solitude with nature. Nature is the best place for fun and relaxation. A picnic with family or friends is much better than going to the cinema or restaurant.
Nature and told a woman: be nice if you can, wise if you want, but you must be careful by all means.
Mind and common sense will help you find the beauty, wisdom and happiness.
Woman born is closest to nature: it is the very nature itself on the one hand and on the other hand the man himself.
A woman is a continuation of nature, which means a continuation of life.
Nature - as a woman, is not subject to any indication.
The cycle of nature there is no victory or defeat: there is movement.
Even when it seems that nature sleeps, she actively forward.
Nature and beauty are inherently one. Nature pleases the eye at any time of the day, you can admire the sunset endless mystery, magic night, morning freshness and movement day ... appreciates, loves and take care of nature!
How do You manage your time ✅⁉️❓
How do you manage your time?
Efficient time management defines the ability of people to perform their daily tasks effectively, both personally and professionally....
Time management refers to the way we organize and manage our time, based on a prior organization.
Because we live in the age of speed, the ability to manage our time efficiently makes the difference between success and failure.
Unfortunately, there is no universally valid time management strategy, so what works for one person, team, or company is not valid for another. Because we are different, we have different habits to do things and to use the 24 hours of the day correctly and efficiently.
Whether we are employees or entrepreneurs, when we talk about working life, the key words are "productivity" and "efficiency".
Self-discipline, perseverance and punctuality are essential qualities for project success, career advancement or building a successful business.
Here are some ways in which time can be managed more efficiently so that we can complete our daily tasks:
✔ Prioritize all activities
Prioritization means assigning a level of importance to all requests in a working day.
The first step towards efficiency is to write all the activities of a day on a piece of paper, divided according to importance. Their evaluation is essential for the efficiency of the working day, distinguishing between important things and urgent things.
✔ "Keep, Throw, Give" Technique
It has been shown that people who are not organized cannot manage their time effectively because disorder has a negative effect on our brain and performance.
To increase productivity, the following techniques can be considered, which can be applied in the office, but also at home: the configuration of three boxes, on which to stick the following labels: "Keep", "Give" and "Throw" .
In this way, all the things, tasks and objects that we do not need can be distributed in the "Throw" box. In the "Give" box will be placed the items to be sold, donated or, if we are talking about tasks, distributed to those who can perform them better.
✔ Stress management
It is vital that each person knows their personal stress level so that they can keep it under control and function better. In order to cope with all the demands at work or at home, people need breaks.
Disconnecting from exhausting tasks helps to restore inner balance, so after short breaks people will be calmer and will be able to concentrate better.
✔ Setting goals
A key point in time management is to set goals throughout the day: to accomplish a certain task or part of it. When we have a well-established goal, it will be easier for us to manage stress and increase efficiency.
✔ Focus on a single task and avoid multitasking
Although it was initially thought that performing several tasks at the same time saves time, it seems that this method actually decreases the yield.
The time lost in moving from one task to another can be invested in completing a single task, so we will have no difficulty concentrating and maintaining attention.
Focusing on a single task is the best way to get it done successfully without distractions.
✔ Setting boundaries
Many people accept as many responsibilities as they are given, without the ability to refuse. They do not say "no" either to maintain a positive impression or to show dedication to their work. Taking on more tasks makes it very difficult to develop a program that adapts to all requirements. People need to learn to set limits on the number of tasks they are willing to perform, as overwork can lead to burnout and stress.
Therefore, efficient time management helps to make efficiency more efficient, whether it is work or housework. Each person needs to identify the techniques that work best for them and apply them in order to complete their day-to-day tasks.
Conflict
The need for people in conflict 👎
Among the many needs that we humans have, one of them is the need for conflict.
When we do not have enough spices in life, salt and pepper, we will look for all sorts of solutions, methods and artifices to make something happen in our lives as well.
I invite you, from now on, for a month, to become observers of yourself and of the environment in which you live. You will notice how people are attracted and need conflict.
Of note, we are not referring, now and here, to armed conflict. Not. Only the personal ones that we each trigger.
First of all, for a conflict to start, we need something or someone, as a partner in the conflict.
Disputes can also take place with a single character, but we look at situations in which at least two people are involved.
What makes conflict good for people? First of all, it takes them out of their daily routine. He puts them on the treadmill and they start running through his mind all kinds of scenarios, lines, situations.
Yes. Conflict gives people work 😁
Then, once they have something to worry about, how do they do it? It puts them in a fight and makes them feel important.
Conflicts often lead to supremacy 👎
Unconsciously, people also struggle with the need to feel important
They will also fight for the feeling of superiority 👎
When we count too little or not at all for ourselves, they will emerge and we will create the means by which we will make every effort to (show) ourselves how good we are. That we have the whole arsenal to fight someone or something.
Without realizing that we are the first to fight 🤨
People get involved in conflicts because, for the most part, that's how they were raised, that's how they lived. In conflict. They learned this behavior from their parents, from the environment that made them "great people".
They only perpetuate what they have learned
That is, to strike 🙂
Rarely do you see someone stroking, literally or figuratively.
It's more common to hear screams, accusations and shared punches.
A good part of the conflict is that it burns. It reveals some details kept under the rug, and by conflict they burn.
But at the same time, with the burning, and until the moment of their burning, a large amount of dense, negative energy is propagated.
Is it worth it?
Posting stops here. The message has been sent. It remains to put into practice the act of observing, proposed at the very beginning, and to draw your own conclusions.
Maybe you'll even make changes🙏
Bitcoin
Basics for a new user:
As a new user, you can start using Bitcoin without understanding the technical details. Once a Bitcoin wallet is installed on your computer or mobile phone, it will generate your first Bitcoin address and you can create one whenever you need. This address can be shown to your friends so they can pay you, or vice versa. In fact, it's quite similar to how email works, except that Bitcoin addresses should only be used once.
The blockchain is a common public registry on which the entire Bitcoin network is based. All confirmed transactions are included in the blockchain. In this way, Bitcoin wallets can calculate the balances that can be spent and new transactions can be verified to involve bitcoins that are actually owned by the payer. The integrity and chronological order of the blockchain are empowered by cryptography.
A transaction is a transfer of value between Bitcoin wallets that is included in the blockchain. Bitcoin wallets keep a secret piece of data called a private key or seed, which is used to sign transactions, providing mathematical proof that it comes from the wallet holder.
The signature also prevents someone else from altering the transaction after it has been issued. All transactions are issued between users and usually begin to be confirmed by the network within the next 10 minutes through a process called mining.
Mining is a consensual distributed system used to confirm pending transactions by including them in the blockchain. Mining imposes a chronological order in the blockchain, protects network neutrality, and also allows the various computers on the network to agree on the condition of the system.
In order to be confirmed, the transactions must be included in a block that respects very strict cryptographic rules that will be verified by the Bitcoin network. These rules prevent previous blocks from being modified, as this would invalidate all subsequent blocks.
Mining is also the equivalent of a competitive lottery that prevents a case in which an individual can easily add new blocks consecutively to the blockchain. In this way, no individual can control what is included in the blockchain or replace parts of the blockchain to withdraw their own transactions.
Time for us and our children
Ever since I understood what a family really means, I wanted to have a large, happy one, which emanated positive energy, in which we laughed a lot, we were united, we loved each other unconditionally. In which we are all one. And I started designing it, until the Universe proved to me that even the most beautiful dreams can come true!
For me, the most important things in life are related to family and peace of mind. I have always wanted the family I will build at some point to be extremely united, happy, relaxed. Let's be warm with each other, workers, let's fight for our dreams, let's help the people around us, let's get along well, and me and "him" to be the best parents possible for our children. Which will fly in a big, beautiful, white house with lots of floral elements. That was my vision of the house where we will live.
Regardless of the problems I encountered as a child, I educated myself to always go ahead, to weigh well the decisions I have to make, to be a positive example, to be a good person and to get where I want. What happened and what I want to convey to my girls Ana and Stefania.
"Children are not the only ones who grow up, and parents grow up. Just as we look at our children, let's see what they do with their lives, so they look at us, so they see what we do with ours. I can't tell them to my children to reach the stars. All I can do is reach out to them. " Joyce Maynard
I promised them freedom, happiness, love, peace, adventure, play, a lot of time spent together. I want them to enjoy a real childhood, to travel, to know the world. To experience different cultures, not to be the victim of frustrations and failures of parents. As I have seen, unfortunately, in other families.
The wonderful family I have built is an incredible force of nature. And from here, things get trickier, and this is where the true meaning of life lies. This is a feeling that I sincerely wish you all. And I want you to always appreciate it at its true value and never put it in second place. Beyond career, success and money are the people who will always be with us.
If you ask me, the memories with my loved ones are the most precious legacy we will leave behind. They are also the ones who will tell us if we really lived or not. I wouldn't want to go through life without enjoying it to the fullest. Without enjoying family! I suggest you borrow the same mentality.
Who love us, support us and always charge us with the energy we need to move forward. And for them, money is not important. But the moments spent together and the memories we build every day.
🌦️Rain drops🌦️
I don't know about you, but I have some moments when I can't wait for the Rainer.
It's that moment when I would be lazy in bed, watching a movie or just sitting and listening to the rain knocking on my window.
Rain is always welcome for nature, earth, flowers, trees. I think they enjoy the small, cold drops that fall from the sky the most.
The branches of the trees bend as if tired in the rain. A cold wind, and strong enough to tilt the trees and the most beautiful flowers in my garden, was constantly fighting to keep them from bending to the ground.
The one most affected by the rain is the grass. She struggles to keep her green hairs on the surface so she can breathe freely, a few flowers are already showing signs of giving way to this close fight.
If the rain continues at the same rate, the last flower that has the power to withstand the wind and the raindrops that fall from the sky more and more strongly will not last long.
A few flowers have lost their beautifully colored petals. They look as if they are upset by the loss they have suffered; the water flows on their leaves like tears full of pain.
Today, somehow… I don't know why, it reminded me of a story that I've known for some time and that always comes to mind when it rains.
That's exactly what it's called "It's a beautiful rainy day." It has marked me since I read it, to be a few years back. I don't even know if I remembered exactly, but I'll tell you briefly, give me a minute for a beautiful story! It is the story of a woman with a strong critical sense, far too often focused on the empty half of the glass, far too harsh and direct, far too anchored to see and signal irregularities and defects. It's a beautiful story there, because she finds a partner who easily teaches her to look at life with different eyes.
To see beyond appearances, to go beyond visible boundaries, a partner who shows them how to see the good and the beautiful. He teaches her optimism, step by step, not to see only the ugly, not to utter only evil.
There's a scene that fascinated me, where the two of them are on vacation together. Helene, the female character, is enchanted by his overflowing optimism, on a rainy day. She is overly irritated and nervous about the bad weather, and he answers calmly: No, my dear, it's a beautiful rainy day.
Time passes, the two of them get married, they have children, he remains her life partner over the years, the only one who can balance her and teach her to release her good, rather than evil. After a life together, he dies, and Helene only now realizes that she has lost the only one who read her soul and who could make her listen to her heart more often. She leaves at one point on a vacation, alone, sad, suffering after his loss and travels around the world. One day he arrives on a beach, in an exotic location… where it starts to rain, and a tourist sighs and complains about the bad weather. And she answers radiantly - No sir, it's a beautiful rainy day.
It is a scene that reminds us how important those around us are, how we impregnate each other with thoughts, words, emotions. I actually think I remember this story, which stuck in my soul, every day with rain, when I want to moan about traffic, congestion, wanted and unwanted. Andreea I forget to enjoy every day as it is!
Photos taken by me yesterday when, what do you think? It rained🌦️
@Madalina
