Appreciation and Care in Marriage/Relationship

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Good morning from Nigeria

I just finished my breakfast, lunch, and dinner at once, don't ask me why. "He who wears the shoe, knows were it hurts" πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.

Let me share something with you all😊 on Appreciation.

Appreciation is the key that opens the door to a lasting relationship. One need to find something to praise their partner for. There's a natural feeling one gets when appreciated. All things God made are good, except that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Take good care of your partner. Appreciate his or her good qualities and other worthy aspects. Fault findings makes it not too good. It's better to commend others for what they are doing(able to achieve), than criticizing them for what they are not able to achieve.

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Lack of appreciation includes: for instance, we are often too busy in our prayers making long list, and telling God what to do, hence we do not have time to appreciate him enough for what he has been doing for us, or sit quietly and listen to what he wants us to do. The best way to get more is to appreciate. The same rule applies in marriage/relationship.

Compliment your spouse's effort and encourage yourselves when there is failure. Some women especially, feel disappointed and stubborn when you do not appreciate their efforts. What the wife needs from her husband, the husband equally deserves the same of the wife with both hands wide open. As the saying goes, "what is good for the goose is also good for the gander."

Take care of people and appreciate them just for whom they are, they will have no option than to try to please more. The baby monkey may not be beautiful, yet, the mother cherish it. Unavoidably however, grey spots are bound to be. Help each other to make necessary adjustments. Obligatorily, nature provides that men should show understanding and treat women tenderly. Just like wives are entitled to their husband's petting.

If a woman discovers that you are concerned about her, she is prepared to sacrifice anything. She would now heartily release those of her values hitherto hoarded from you. Do not deny your partner the compliments they need from you.

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Kissing, for instance, cannotes love, care and appreciation among other preambles. Many couples scarcely kiss. This imputes that they are lagging behind on this aspect of care and appreciation. Some reasons for this poor attitude among couples include unfriendly state of mind against each other, dirtiness, and unattractiveness. These calls for redress.

In 1996, a couple in America, won a kissing competition for kissing non-stop for 45 minutes. Do not be shy about it. Moreover, most times the exercise is an indoor affair. Take erotic care of yourselves, and commend each other.

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Kissing for five minutes seems to be longπŸ˜…πŸ˜…. I can't do it. I've learnt to complement my partner inside or outside. I do it every time and my partner does it too

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Don't just stop at compliments ..... You can do more. Why not try kissing for 2 minutes and thank me later πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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Kissing for 45mins? 😳😳 Wow! Were they not tired? πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…

Truly, appreciation goes a long way to keep the fire in a relationship burning. Appreciation can be found in the acts of service which is one of the love languages that makes relationship flourish. Nice post. This is something I love to read about πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‚

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Thanks for the lovely comment dear. And maybe they were tired but that was after 45 mins.. I would love to try it and see but with who? πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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Your girlfriend? Don't you have one?

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Smiles 😊

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