When Is The Right Time To End a Relationship

When is really the right time to walk away in a relationship?

Is there really a perfect timing for this?

Or will just walk away from the moment you wanted to or will you figure out things first before you finally decide to leave your partner?

Everything that I will be mentioning below are my pure opinions. So, if we weren't the same, you can comment down below yours.

Break-ups,divorce are always happening in our society. But why is it that it is happening when in fact, from the very start of the relationship the couple are truly, madly and deeply in love with each other. Everything is really perfect only from the start and it is so promising.

But then, when the relationship is now on its long term, the spark / the sweetness with each other is decreasing, maybe because they are now comfortable with each other and being used to being together. And some couple, as the days / months / years that are passing by, their true colors are now being shown or some of their bad attitudes / behavior are now slowly being disclosed with each other and their partners can't take it. And that's the time, the other one of them or both of them will now want them to split out.

If you are one of these couples who no longer want to be with their partner, here are the perfect timing if when will you end your relationship:

End your relationship when you know that there is now something wrong in what you feel. When you already know that is it already too much.

When your love to yourself is no longer there and you know that you are already drained.

When you already know that you did your part, there is nothing wrong when you want it to try and start all over again but when you already did everything just to save the relationship and there is no progress, that is now the perfect timing of ending your relationship.

A relationship is a two way process, that when you love someone and only you are the one who loves your partner and you are not receiving the love that you are giving in return, then simply loving him / her won't keep a relationship. You may be good for a short time but defenitely not for a long time. Love is always a give and take process, one must give and the other will receiveand vise versa.

Settle for a relationship wherein both of you are ready to commit with each other for love / partnership to last long and definitely will lead to forever.

At the beginning of a relationship, both you are are defenitely happy but if it is not what God has planned, He will hurt our feelings. And if we insisted to still be with in that relationship, the hurt that you felt days / weeks / months ago will be doubled or the hurt will continue to grow until you will finally have the courage to step back.

We shoud keep in mind that LOVE SHOULD NOT HURT, LOVE DOES NOT HURT and IF IT IS HURTING YOU THEN IT IS NOT LOVE.

Love is supposed to heal us.

Love is supposed to comfort us.

Love is supposed to give us peace of mind.

Love is supposed to give us security.

We should not always make someone our world because when that someone will leave us, we can still go on with our lives. It may hurt, it will really hurt us defenitely but the best part here is you can manage to slowly fixing yourself up and be stronger. Be independent. Do not let yourself be the loser.

One important reminder to all of you,

no matter how perfect you are,

no matter how beautiful / handsome you are,

no matter how kind you are,

no matter how rich you are,

no matter what is your job,

no matter how powerful you are,

if he / she wants leave you, he / she will really leave you.

So the bottomline here is, choose someone who knows on how to be contented.

And if you really love someone and you do not want to lose them, do not be the reason if why will your relationship end.

Cheating is one of the reasons if why couples break up. Never ever cheat on someone because you will never know on how will it impact to that person's life who has been cheated on. It is never easy to be cheated upon, they may end up blaming themselves if why did you cheat and will keep in mind that they are the reason why it did happen.

Do not be the reason if why a person does not want to believe in love again.

It ia better to talk to your partner, end the relationship than to stay in your relationship but you are cheating. Yes,it may hurt them if you will initiate the break up but it will hurt even more when he / she discovers that you are cheating on him / her.