April 19, 2022
Yesterday, I wrote an article regarding red flags in a relationship. To reciprocate what I've wrote yesterday, I will now talk about green flags today.
Are you looking out for little signs / positve signs that will tell you to whether to accept that person in your life or will just reject him?
If you're looking for signs, I will give you some. So continue reading this.
What are some green flags in having a relationship?
1.You can talk for hours but it seems like a minute
When you are with someone you are comfortable with, you lose your sense of time. Sometimes, hours pass by when communicating with him / her without you noticing it.
This could be a sign that you are enjoying him / her company.
2.Listening every detail you are telling
When you are interested with someone, you want to know everything about them right? Like, what's his / her favorite color, if what is his / her favorite food, if what is his / her taste in music, if what are his / her hobbies, if what makes him / her happy or mad and anything else, so when someone likes you, he / she is interested knowing every details about you and will make sure that everything you say will be marked in his head / brain.
If he / she listens to you, it's a plus points, right? And will give us butterflies in our stomach, hundred and one percent.
3.Acting natural around him
It is natural that you can get nervous when you are with someone you like most especially at the beginning. But as time goes by, when you are comfortable and calm around him then it is clearly a green flag.
You do not need to fake your behavior when you are with him because when we have a mindset that "if someone really likes you, he / she must accept your flaws and everything about you" and with this, it will help you know if he really likes you.
4.He is kind with everyone not just only with you
The way he treats others will give you a valuable insight with regards to his character.
When you are on a date, observe on how he treats others like the security guards or waiters on the restaurant.
Is your date going out their way in complaining about your waiter to you? Is he kind and patient with your waiter? Does he lose patience with them?
When you observe how he treats others, it will give you an idea on who he is and what character / behavior he possess.
5. You find yourself smiling almost all of the time
6.Not Distructed with anything else
When you are together, his attention is only with you. He does not use his phone from time to time not unless it is really important.
If he is not interested in you and in what you are saying when having a conversation, there is a tendency that he will bring out his phone to occupy himself. So, if he is not always on his phone or is not really using his phone when having a conversation with you, then it is a green flag because the act of putting away his phone is giving his full attention with you because the time you are spending together is important with him.
Are you comfortable talking to him?
Did he make you laugh?
Is he kind to you?
Do you feel happy around him?
Do you like who you are when you are with him?
This are the type of questions you should answer yourself if you want to have a second date with him.
If your answer from all these questions are "YES," then go on and have a second date with him if he asked you to.
If you find yourself coming home after that first date will all smiles and butterflies in your stomach, then you may have find whom you really like / love.
What you have stated is also related to my article entitled long observation, short engagement particularly in what you have mentioned to observe how he treats the guards or even the waiter at the restaurant. This observation is very essential to know more the character of a person you are dating.
This article is very helpful especially to our single friends.