I can't say NO to her

June 21, 2021

She requested this. She asked me if I could offer one article for her since it's her birthday. And I say it's fine coz I can bully you in there(joke!😂) haha so I say Okay. I really can't say no to her.

"Having a sister is like having a best friend you can't get rid of. You know whatever you do, they'll still be there."

My sister is my third Idol aside from Mama and Papa. I always said this to her, that when God shower the blessings of talent she got it all. She's really good at art, she dances, she's a member of a famous dance group in her company, she bakes, she cooks and it delicious five stars.

In the family, my father is the rule maker, my mother is the one to adapt on the rule, while my sister is the rule breaker, hahaha.

She's not a bratty woman before but after her 2nd-year of high school, she changed and become rebellious. Not the rebellious kind who talks back to her parents, but the kind that wants to hang out with her friends, go to so many places without my parents' permission. She makes decisions for her own and not letting anyone crumpled them.

She's very supportive in any way you can imagine. After I ended my first job, she's the one to suggest I work near her so that she can look out for me. Even on the time that I got pregnant, she didn't shout at me as a normal sister would do, she just asked me if I'm going to be responsible because I already told her that I want to have a baby already.

She's a loving Tita to my son, and since my son was the only boy in the family, she pampered and discipline him also. She would bring the kids to the park and let them enjoy the playground under the sun. She treats them to their fave resto. While she's strict with the funds and always follow rules on spending money, she can't resist their requests so she mostly spends her extra allowance on them hehehe. Most of the time my son and my niece are afraid of her especially when she's irritated. She has little patience when it comes to teaching kids basic education. So we reckon not to come to her when the kids had some difficulties with their modules, for sure war will break out if you pester her.

She's often asked when to settle down for her sisters already have children. She will just answer. I already have nieces and a nephew why would I add mine. And marrying is not a competition that you need to be in the first place.

I can't say NO to her

She always has the same vibe as my son. When she requests something from me I can't say NO. She often asks me to pay the Netflix and Spotify because she's paying for the internet and the electric bill, I say "okay". She wants to hang out with me because we never hang out just the three of us so we say "okay".

Whenever we had a little argument, I'm always the one losing. I can't defend myself for she always had the upper hand.

She's a brat but she values family more than others. I hope this says it all.

Happy Natal day to you my Ate. Hope I can encourage you to be part of Read.Cash. Mind you she's the real deal when it comes to writing articles like this, she's just lazy afff..

God Bless!

Fin!