Surround yourself with people who support you

We must recognize that in life there are people full of nuances, such as ying and yang, some like the day, others the night, full of joy and sadness or a complement of both, what we must be clear about is that absolutely no one is It complements neither bad nor good, but it is essential for our life and well-being, to surround ourselves with people who, instead of subtracting all the time, add us, we cannot ask that all the time be pink situations, life is made of different shades and mainly that's what makes it interesting.

People in general are sociable by nature, it is something that can no longer be changed because we bring it from birth and in our days we are always in contact with people, only those moments are enough for them to transmit their good vibes or otherwise their thoughts loaded with negativity, pessimism, of course we cannot avoid them because sometimes this type of person can even be someone from our family circle, but what we can do is limit a little these people who steal our energy It is not selfish, but when someone infects you with negativity and worries, your energy will only focus on it and you will not move forward, you will stay stuck.

If we analyze even most of our friendships or people around us concretely come into our lives since we were young, they have always been in one way or another through the good times and the bad, they are people we have known for a long time and we tend to have more trust with them, because we know them almost as well as ourselves, we have shared a lot of adventures and even moments that leave us with bitter tastes but in one way or another they have remained by our side, giving us unconditional support and affection, of course also to Along the way we meet people who are exceptions because when we meet them it is as if we have known them for a lifetime or a thousand lives, the match is immediate, because they come to contribute positive things to our existence.

Investing our energy with the right people is quite a challenge, but unless we become hermits, we must be aware that we will always be in contact with many people, therefore it is vitally important to learn to recognize which are the people who or otherwise add to our environment and try to establish healthy and lasting relationships with them, as well as get away from those who only steal energy from us, by keeping these types of people in our environment will only end up disappointing us and leaving us almost powerless because they are very negative, do not let them waste your time and energy focused on this type of person because they are the ones that take us away from our goals instead of motivating us, they want us to sink, yes or if you should distance them a little from you, from your environment, because in the end they drag you to be like them, which is not healthy for you.

The people who join us will always be a blessing, a light at the end of the road, even if in our downturns we don't love ourselves, they will be there giving us all their love, they don't criticize us and they always help to bring out the best in us. afloat although that at times deserves to say a few truths that perhaps at certain times we want to cover up, they will always support us even when our plans are really crazy, they help keep our minds open and leave stereotypes aside.

We must be clear that at times as much as we want certain people to remain in our lives forever, it is not possible, some have only a short step in our existence but full of many positive things because in one way or another they had an objective in our lives. life and when they fulfill it they leave, but they leave us full of good vibes, good memories and good teachings. You have to be extremely aware that it is not only surrounding yourself with good people, it is being one of them:

• One that adds to the lives of your loved ones and those close to you instead of just bringing back bad memories.

• We must help others by giving them creative solutions, everything has a solution in this life except being dead.

• Transmit security and confidence to them, especially at times when their world is not being very beautiful.

• Enrich his world, teaching him what you know, don't be afraid to share your knowledge, on the contrary, be afraid of being selfish.

• Always make them feel special just as you would like to be treated.

• Always support them and feed their dreams that they always go for what they long for and desire, install them to work daily for their dreams.

• Broaden their perspective on life, help them to be open to any situation

• Do not feel selfish and envious that will only harm you, it will make you a being closed in on yourself, stagnant, people will move away from you, instead you could be a light on their path, remember that we all have our space in this world, we can all shine but above all remember that you are the sum of all those people you help shine

Never forget that you are the sum of all those people you help to shine, to whom you teach a little bit of your knowledge without envy or rancor, to whom you constantly support, to whom you show a different world, to whom you teach see things from other perspectives. By adding to their lives you are automatically adding to yours, because we can all shine, in this world there is room for everyone. That you will not forget.

Now I want to tell you a little about myself, personally I have many acquaintances but few friends as such, because gentlemen friends are the ones who show you that they are with you in moments of glory when you are at the highest point and also when you are at the lowest. The rest are just acquaintances or almost friends because we must never deny that they are people who in one way or another have added to our lives. Particularly from when I was at school I learned from two extremely spectacular beings, both taught me what friendship and its magic were, I thank both of them for being with me in my most beautiful moments but also when I was very bad, when I didn't even understand each other. myself, those who were with me in my school process who helped me when I did not understand certain assignments, those who were present and were my accomplices when I had my first love to them I can only say THANK YOU for being in one of the most beautiful processes of my life and although today our lives are a little separated I always remember them with great affection and that in one way or another I will always be there for them, here is a photo of those times.

Although life has shown me that people can also come into your life, leave a teaching and advance on their paths, I also learned that there are overwhelming people who come to spread their positivism and joy to our lives, as is the case with my colleagues. from the university, they marked a before and after in my life, they taught me the importance of unity, of fellowship of helping without expecting anything in return, that we can all shine because there is a space for everyone. But especially in this period I met a person who at the time never thought we would become so close, I have to admit that I was closed, my mind was not as open as it is now, I thought that the only friends I could have I already had. and that there was no room for more. This person made me understand that if there could be more and much more special, that the period of time did not matter when there was a friendship match, when even being so different, with different perspectives of the world we could fit perfectly, her and her incredible way of thinking I only have GRATITUDE because they made my 2 and a half years in college an incredible life experience and I only wish that we both shine, that we reach our goals and that we never rest until we are super successful. Here I show you a little in photographs