Does he/she loves you?
Do you believe in signs? Or do you believe in what he acts and what your eyes can see? Some of us can see the signs but our mind are close to accept the reality. That is the reason why we ignore the signs that all people around us can see but ourselves are pretending as a blind. Truth hurts but we need to accept the reality.
DISCLAIMER: I'm not a love guru and I'm not an expert. All that I will say is just my opinion, experience and observation, so please bear with me guys.
Signs that a guy/girl doesn't really love you
NO TIME FOR YOU- When your love of your life have no time for you, you need to worry guys. If he always said "sorry love, im always busy" that is like a siren that is very alarming. We can accept the truth that he is busy but 2 or 3 texts or chats can't affect his work or whatever. If he really want to contact you he will find a way. Even if he are sitting in a toilet bowl he can message you if he want. Being busy is just his reason, the truth is he is really ignoring you.
CAN'T SPEND HIS MONEY FOR YOU- In this case, it is depends on the situation. If he really don't have enough money it is understandable. But if he can buy his luxury and all while you are spending your money when you go out for a date, there is something wrong with that. It is okay if he did it once or twice but not always. Much better if you are sharing in the expenses.
NOT INTERESTED TO KNOW YOU MORE- A person who truly care and love you have an interest to know the inner of your personality. Not just asking "how are you", " did you eat" and "what are you doing" is not enough to show that he cares for you. Asking about your family, all important people around and even the small details about you is the most important factor to consider. Knowing about your favorite color and some stuff, that is the description of the people who interested and really loves you.
HE/SHE DOESNT MAKE YOU A PRIORITY-Putting you at the bottom.of priority list is hurting too much. If they has to choose between something they like and you, they wont choose you. This means he doesn't love you anymore because a man who really loves you always put you first-no matter what. If you needed some help they would really drop everything immediately to come and rescue you if they wanted to.
HE/SHE NEVER GET JEALOUS ANYMORE- A guy/girl who loves a woman/man will always be a bit scared that someone will take her or him away. He also don't want you to wear a revealing clothes or a sexy one because they don't want that someone staring at you. And if he doesn't get jealous anymore be ready because something is about to come. Kabahan ka na girl/guy....HAHAHA
There are many signs that someone are not really into you but our eyes and mind are close to accept the truth. Sometimes we are hoping that they will change their treatment on us but days are passed and nothing change.In that case maybe you need to take some action, confront them at first but if still like that its better to end the relationship. What is the purpose of continuing the relationship if it is not healthy anymore. Better to end it at peace than to get hurt each other physically, mentally and emotionally.
"Let no one who loves be called altogether unhappy. Even love unreturned has its rainbow.” ― J.M. Barrie, The Little Minister
DOES HE/SHE LOVES YOU
76th article of mhy09
April 3, 2022
Once again I just want to tell you that I am not an expert, this article was inspired from the video I watched in Tiktok. And because I don't have anu idea to write, I decided to share this one. Some are based on my experience and my observation. There are many signs left and lets see if I can continue this... Parang ayoko na yata, lumalabas ang pagka ampalaya ko....HAHAHA. Thank you guys for supporting always. Until on my next one... ♥️mhy09
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Tama ka sis sa sinabi mo, dahil kung mahal ka ng isang tao kahit malayo bahay mo sa kaniya gagawa yan ng paraan para puntahan ka.. Mag eeffort talaga yan pag love ka.. Pero kung ramdam mo na balewala ka lang sa kaniya, iwanan agad yan hahaha. Dahil d na yan magbabago