Misconceptions: The Fallacy, And The Wrong Intuition Of People About My identity
This article is going to be about a contest that is held on hive in which we are being instructed to write on the there misconception of people about us and I will love to post it here as well.
MISCONCEPTIONS......
This is a nasty fallacy that people think about something or about who they are, their brain tends to jump to a quick conclusion without having a clear knowledge of the fact.
Some things aren't quite as they may appear. There are so many misconceptions that we have abothothings or the people around us. Nobody really knows who you are, our suggestions and intuition are not always true.
We all have misconceptions about people around us, even about the people we know very well, and I'm guilty about that too..lol. Here are some of the misconceptions that people have about me:
Being proud
I'm someone who doesn't like to talk too much, I talk when I have an important thing to say and I keep quiet if I don't have anything to say
So they will say " you are too proud, you don't want to talk to us" but I try to make them understand that's is not the way they think, is not mandatory to talk if I don't have any relevant thing to say. But there are some of my friends that understand me, but the majority take it for another thing.
Some will even say, " you are feeling too big to chat with me " that's wrong, once I type the necessary I want to inform, then, and I get my answer, errrrrr, that's the end of my chat with you, but the majority takes it for another thing, even when I try to make them understand my nature, they still don't agree with me, so when they persist to tell me I'm proud, my response is " yes I know" ...lolπ, and they will laugh it out.
I'm calm and I can accept anything
My calmness can be so deceptive. people see me as someone who doesn't talk, so they think I should be quiet with them even when they trying to take my calmness about it.
This made me remember my primary school days, so there was this girl in our class that is always troubling me, she finally stepped on my tail one day, and I gave her a dirty slap she never expected, I could even feel the hotness in my palm... I'm not always the angry type, but not always good when I get angry and I'm always trying to avoid it, of course, the teacher cast the blame on her at the end of everything because they know me for my calmness and she must be at fault.
Yeah, I'm calm, but if you push me to the wall, I don't give a fuck, I'm calm but not dumb..π
Being rich
Yeah, I claim that but I'm not rich, I just try to manage the little one have with me. People will always conclude with the things they see without knowing what's happening behind the scene.
Some of my friends will be like "This girl is rich " sometimes when they try to ask for something from me if I don't have, they will think I'm stingy and I don't want to give them, even when I try to explain to them from now till tomorrow, they still don't believe me. Sometimes I don't why some people have that misconception about me, I don't put on luxurious things, I don't live a fake life, I just live the real me. But still, they don't believe, perhaps maybe because some of them know that I'm a blogger and I make plenty of money from it, I never can tell..lol
Even though I'm not rich, I won't hesitate to help if I can, just from the little I have. Anyways, I claim to be rich, because I believe I will someday..π
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Nawa ooh, it has happened to me before, people and the way they talk or react to things. Your first and last notion of people about you is also people's notion of people; about Me. I just hope these talks from them doesn't get to you.