My best decision in life:Bearing a child at the age of 18

Article #62

August 07, 2022

A Sunday's best for everybody is when has time to do a bonding moments with our families and friends. But sad to say that it wasn't happened today because the weather isnt good and I think it is not safe going outside and might have a heavy rain the whole day.

While I am lying in bed,I don't have any sense of writing an article today because I feel sleepy and tired for almost a week we do overtime my work. but I don't want to be absent this time coz I want to be active and motivate myself to continue my journey being a writer since I was enjoying it already.

I tried to find a good topic on google and then I come up with this title. this is perfect for me as my real-life experience.

It was caught my attention when I read this question and I want to share it with you guys about this topic above.

I would rather choose to have my first child at the age of 18!

Based on my real life story,

I got pregnant at the age of 18,and the father of my child was 21 years old that time,my pregnancy is not an accident or a mistake because we've planned it to have a baby at an early age. without even thinking about what would happen to us in the future.We decided to live in even though our work at that time was not stable we do only a part-time job and no permanent income but still we planned to have a baby.

At first,I am very scared thinking what would happen next and my partner dont have an stable income and his salary is not enough to feed us but we didn't give up.

He always told me that we can do this and that if we have faith in God we can surpass everything in our relationship. struggles and hardships are just part of life for us to learn and to be strong, he always said that to me.

She is a blessing from God to us.

Iba talaga pag may anak kana,may maraming pagbabago sa buhay na di mo namamalayan.there are times that you need to sacrifice and set aside first all your issues about yourself because you have already someone to take care of which is your "child". A someone that can be your new life.

I dont have any regrets that I already bear a child at my young age of 18.Mahirap sa umpisa pero wala namang madali sa buhay,dumadaan tayo lahat sa mga pagsubok.gusto ko talaga magkaanak ng maaga dahil may strength pa ako na buhayin ang anak ko at mabigyan ng maayos na buhay,edukasyon at masayang pamilya.

I can work hard enough and prepare for her future. And now shes is already 12 years old and We treated each other as best friends.

I am proud mother here.ahemmm...❤

Bilang isang magulang di naging madali pero kakayanin dahil may pinaglalaanan ka sa lahat ng hard work mo sa buhay.

My thoughts,

Having a child at the age of 18 was my choice and this is not a mistake nor misfortune.This is the best blessing I received ever.If I could turn back the time,I would choose the same as today because Im so blessed and I could never ask for more.I am contented now with my family.I am happy now and forever!🙏💕

Thanks for reading!

@maria_23

Lead image is my own photo.