I'm devasted, I was betrayed!
Article # 146
November 29, 2022
A family is supposedly your rescue and your back every time you can feel tired and useless. A good feeling in our hearts is that we have a family that can give us love and cares when we are so down in life. But sad to say, a family also can bring you a lot of pain and frustration.
This is what I feel right now, a few days ago after our short vacation in our hometown. We go there with some of my siblings and their children, and we have bonding moments happily and so much enjoyed. I treated their food and travel expenditures as my help to them because they have more children to feed and their money is just a little. That money was coming from my earnings in read cash, I had withdrawn all my savings from coins.ph to have a budget for them. But nobody knows about this matter because all the activities I did was kept private especially online hustle.
I am happy that I can share with them what I have but I didn't expect their response to all my good actions I've shown to them.
I have a sister in law, since the beginning I dont like her because of her "marites" attitude. She likes to discuss the life of others without even realizing her own flow of life.
Yesterday I found out that she backstabbed me since long time ago until now, she'd making up stories about me and criticizing my personality. and spreading some negativities about me.
I didn't notice it because I am a loner person, all I do every day is work, take care of my family, and find ways how to make money for our living.
But with my respect, I just let her do what she was doing and treated her well for the sake of my nephews. At the end of the day, we are now in one circle of family. we cannot change the fact that she was been part of our life.
I get hurt and disappointed because I treated her nicely and I share what I can share to them. I don't like a quarrel in the family,So I decided to keep my distance and I did not say any word to her. As I knew already that she was a traitor, maybe the time will come I will confront her but not for now because Im at the level of my anger and I don't want to throw bad words towards her because I don't want to hurt people's feeling especially we are a family.
My thoughts,
I get angry when the time I found out that someone is talking behind my back, for me it is a normal reaction if I get annoyed. But I choose to calm my emotions and not be carried away by my anger because I accept the fact that no matter how good you are to others, not all will appreciate you. Some people will not accept you for who you are, I claim that. I will not strip myself of originality and I will never let go my of my true self just to impress others.
How about you guys,have you experience that someone is talking against you behind your back?
It would be all for now, thanks for reading!
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You don't know how many people have commented on you, it makes you feel bad, you don't know how many people have commented on you, it makes you feel depressed and that's all you think about. But try to pick yourself up and move on, you should not pay attention to them because they are unhappy people who have nothing else to do but take care of other people's lives.