Awareness at home: parents should be a good reflection to the children

Article #111

October 12, 2022

Hello, Wednesday!

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Let's talk about relationship between the parents and the children.

In our new generation today,as I watched some videos on facebook or some social media sites there are many changes in how children treated their parents and how parents treated their children. Disciplines must come inside our home and this is the most needed for our children to learn how to adjust themselves on adopting what is happening in the real world.

But, some circumstances are not suitable for our children to see or to be heard that might get them wrong. And they do not know whats the point on all happenings surrounded by them.

Look at the picture below,

I saw this video on Facebook a while ago and to make this things to be clear, I will give a short summary in that situation.

The father of this girl is in the army and was missing a quite long ago, all his family members, as well as his wife, thought that he was dead already but one time he came home with little changes because of trauma during his mission. Isabelle sees everything that her mother having an affair with his father's brother.His daughter seems so angry and not happy about his return. Shouting and has a bad temper she faced his father with an angry face saying"Couldnt you just stay dead"?

Can you imagine how was a child saying that phrase to his own father,his blood?

The father was shocked looking up at his daughter with so much anger to him and he almost hit her. confused and frightened at that moment of confrontation between them.

Isabelle saw on what has happened inside their house while his father was out.

Her mom and her uncle,(the brother of his father) having an affair.

She tells to everybody about the affair with her mom and Uncle. You can see in the face of Isabelle how her frustration going through. She'd burst out all her anger because of everything she witnessed during those times before her father come home.

The situation contributes a big impact to Isabelle,expressing her painful emotions including sadness,fairs of abandonment,misconceptions ,guilt, and etcetera. And Im sure she's afraid that someday she will also experience that kind of pain of betrayal like she saw on her parents. these are some outcomes would happen to them.

Trauma

The trauma caused by this kind of scenario seeing by our children at home will remain in their minds that could hardly for them to move on and some questions are hanging on their minds why do those things exist on their lives?

Hard to trust

They lost their confidence and have a low self-esteem. they try to get away with other companions. They used to be alone and trusted only on themselves. Possible thinking that anytime or anybody could hurt them or betray them one day.

My last words,

Parents should be the one to guide their children to take the right path as a role model for the better tomorrow and have a bright future someday. Love your children and make the best thing that we can offer to them because when we destroy their trust ,they will lose interest in so many reasons. Parents should be responsible the way you act as a parent. We as a parent they look at us as their reflections on what kind of person or a parent you are to them.

That's all for today!

Thanks for reading!

The lead image and the photos above are from the screenshot of my Facebook account🙂