Threat and Lie=Toxic relationship
How will you know if the person is lying to you? Through their eyes or their actions? Maybe, both? How about if you didn't see them, how can you know? Do you trust your instincts and gut feelings?
Not telling true intentions or telling fake intentions. Which one do you prefer? They will lie to your face or they will lie hiding their face? Sounds confusing right? I'm confused too lol... Then let's confused our brains more!
Will you still like to be in a situation where it's already toxic and full of lies? How about they just don't lie to you but also threaten you? Will you have inner peace? Will you still be the same? What will you do?
Of course, we already have the same answer for this. It's a big NO! How can you be okay if you experienced all of this? The best way to do is to run and let go! You are afraid because you have kids? If you stay, they will only witness the toxicity of your relationship! They will suffer silently and will have trauma when they grow up.
Imagine every day of their life. They are seeing you in that bitter and poisonous situation. Where lies and threats collide, it will be forever painted on their mind. They will witness the prevention
without determination. They will see you being defeated without fighting.
What are you doing in there? Run! Do you hesitate because you have no work? Do you have no money? You have no one to depend on? Or you don't have the courage at all and preferred to be a coward for the rest of your life?
As long as you are alive, there's always hope. So, why you are afraid? Why don't you stand on your own? Remember, when they all left. You have yourself! Stand up and walk out. Be reborn into a new version of yourself. Don't think negatively. It can only affect you. Be positive always, And know that God and the universe are always with you.
And Why I'am talking like this? Why did I choose this topic? Because this is the situation where I'am in right now. Just funny! Full of hatred and frustrations. Someone will always slap your face that you have nothing without them. You can't survive without them. That you are disabled without them. In short, you will die without them.
I'm just thinking, Why? I live before I met them. I survive before they came into my life! And now, they are trying to manipulate me with their lie and much worst is with their threat! The place itself is toxic and the people keep on lying in front of your face!
The other one is more toxic than you can imagine. Their only way of surviving is to find some rich and old husband to be! There's no other way for them to earn money. And it hurts your ear that you are hearing these words every day of your life!
Why can't I make a decision for myself where there are no toxic people around me? They are not helping at all! They are poisonous plants that are hard to pull. Their roots surrounded you. Unless you will make an effort, you can't escape from them.
They are toxic. So, toxic!
This time, I want to do it and decide if my own. I'm tired that there's someone around me. Manipulating and feeding poisonous advice! Wish me luck, my friends...
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