Long-Distance Relationships: Will you survive or will you quit?
Are you having a relationship right now? Who among you are in a Long distance relationship? How does it feel? Is there any longing? Or Are there any doubts? Do you trust your partner? Is he/she faithful? I don't know lol.
Just joking! Our topic for this article is long-distance relationships. How sure you are that you can survive in this kind of setup? But, let's put a little spice into this topic. What about you fall in love without meeting that someone in person?
You fall in love through communication by chatting. Is this possible? Well, for us Filipino it's possible especially if it's an afam lol. A foreigner to be exact. But this situation is not like that. You fall in love with the same race. A Filipino like you. How will you keep the romance alive? Err... The relationship hehe.
But here's a question from me personally for those people who fall in love through chatting. How did you fall in love and why? This question is intended for Mr. Gemini haha. Care to answer?
If it will be me. I never experienced this kind of love affair charot. Falling in love without seeing that person personally. But you are chatting 24 hours a day right? There is a video call too if you want to see their face. So, there's maybe a possibility to like that person but we are talking about love. Is it love that you're feeling right now or just an infatuation?
What about when the time comes that you two will finally meet and then reality will hit you hard? You will be struggling between reality and expectation. You expect the most but you failed hard in reality. Is it possible to happen? I don't know but maybe it is.
The main question here is, will you survive or will you quit? Long distance relationship sounds exciting and thrilling but will you survive? Will you not overthink what he/she is doing right now? How sure are you that he/she is not talking with another person? How sure are you that it's only you? How sure are you that you're the only baby of her/him? How sure are you that he/she loves you while you two are only talking online? How sure are you that you will survive in this kind of relationship? Will you not go crazy thinking and thinking about the possible result or outcome? Well, DON'T THINK AT ALL! If you want to survive. Hang on! And trust each other. But Can you trust the person that you didn't even meet? I don't know haha. It's your problem anyway lol. But kidding aside, If you love that person even without meeting them. Let your heart decide. Let your heart feel what it feels towards that person. But don't forget to use your brain if you have just a few doubts.
Now, will you quit? Why? Why not fight for it? Because there's doubt and you cannot fully trust the stranger that you love? If you quit you're weak but quitting doesn't mean you're a coward. Why quit anyway? Just stay girl lol haha. What am I talking about here? For me, I will never quit for the one I love even if he's with someone else remember fellows, there's no forever. They will break up! Just joking haha.
But you know at the end of the day. It's your decision and you alone. If you quit or will you survive? Good luck to those people out there who are fighting for their Long distance relationships. Sanaol hehe.
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I've seen it unfold on the App Kik. Few good and many very bad. Kik is kinda of a hookup site more or less. The bad situations were often one individual chasing someone else.
I was there for a few months not for a hookup but to communicate. It didn't work out for me there except for one friend I met that invited me here. Many didn't believe I was there just to talk. I got tired of explaining myself over and over again.
Long term relationship can work I believe but I can imagine there would be struggles with trust though