Abortion

Nowadays, teenage pregnancy occurs in a woman at a younger age. The main cause of teenage pregnancy is a lack of parental care, poverty, non-use of contraceptives, etc.,

In this case, women can be quite shocking by their unwanted pregnancy and they resolve it by practicing an abortion.

What is abortion?

Abortion is a procedure to end pregnancy or expulsion an embryo or fetus from the uterus. For me, it is considered an immoral sin and even a crime. It is a very sensitive topic because it reminds me of my best friend who had an abortion.

Taking risks of abortion

Pelvic inflammatory disease Infection:  the germs from the vagina will enter the uterus and cause an infection. The cure does this such infection takes antibiotics.

Incomplete abortion: incomplete abortion may result in infection and bleeding.

Menstrual clots: Blood clots that cause severe cramping. The clots usually are removed by a repeat suction curettage.

Menorrhagia: this happens following an abortion. Ask the doctor to explain heavy bleeding and what to do if it occurs because it is needed medication.

Vaginal tear: The opening of the uterus may be ripped while it is being stretched open to allow medical instruments to pass through and into the uterus.

Uterus Perforation: A medical instrument may go through the wall of the uterus. Heavy bleeding or infection occurs depends on how severe it is. Hysterectomy may be required for the most severe infection.

Side effects of Anesthesias: anesthesia increases the risk of complications associated with abortion.

Infertility: Complications associated with an abortion or having many abortions may make it difficult to have children.

I have a story about my best friend's abortion. At that time, I have no idea why she should end her pregnancy without thinking that she might kill an innocent child or should I say a "human beings" in her womb. I feel sorry for her and her baby because I didn't save her, I was not there to give some advice. It's too late when I was discovered that she had an abortion. She cries a lot while she confessed to me. One of the main reasons is that she wants to save herself from humiliation. She also said that she didn't want to give up her career and she wasn't ready to be a mother and fear of discrimination.

Honestly, I wouldn't support her reasons for wanting an abortion. It's not an acceptable reason. She is so selfish. I try to understand her because at that time she was just 16 years old. She didn't know what to do, she panics. Anyway, she already learned a lesson. She guilt about getting rid of her blood and flesh, an innocent child. Until now she keeps hiding it from her family and moved on from the past. She promised that she wouldn't do it again, ever again!. Good thing is that she regrets it. She asks for forgiveness.

After all that happened, I have so many realizations. Now that I'm a mother, I am thankful for raising and loving my child unconditionally. For me, she is one of the precious gift given by God.

For those who commit a crime like abortion, I have a piece of advice. Don't be so selfish. Give them a chance to live because they're innocent. They're not the one who is responsible for your own mistakes. Don't just think about your pleasure over responsibility because abortion will never be okay, unacceptable!

These decisions propose that assuring women can have a wanted abortion allows them to protect a positive future outlook and achieve their aspirational life plans.