Are there things that you can't even say to yourself? Talk to yourself first about whatever you like or dislike. Start by accepting your feelings as it is. Whatever you feel, embrace yourself and hug you tightly! You're starting to heal now, don't worry!
How many times does a person experience an event that he calls a turning point in his life? How many times does he lean against himself? How many times do you trust someone? Aren't they all concepts that can vary from person to person? Sometimes you hear and feel such things that your perceptions change. You yourself are surprised at how strong you are in spite of yourself.
This is life! Of course, human beings need people. Nobody wants to be alone. We are all social beings after all. But sometimes, don't you think that people's egocentric attitudes, selfishly pro-self-interest habits, and their self-surrendered state to the primitive feelings within themselves are too flat, undeveloped, and vulgar?
In my opinion, the best thing you can do at such times is to steer yourself as much as possible. She should be alone for a while, she should think about everything. Because a person can filter only when he looks at himself and distinguish between right and wrong. When you think about it, if you decide you don't get it wrong, whatever you feel is absolutely correct. Because I think people can think wrong, misunderstand but cannot feel wrong! You will never forget how anyone made you feel. I don't think feelings can be so wrong.
I think one should get as far away as possible from whatever makes him feel worthless, and remember once again how valuable his own self is. It means that no one who does no effort for you deserves the value you give to the other party. But of course I think there is a very fine line here.
Of course, love is not a reciprocal phenomenon. You accept and love some as they are, where they are, the way they are. Again, we do not have the choice. Because you don't love someone or someone by saying "I will love". Love comes on its own. It goes out by itself. Love always makes the choice. We just feel.
That fine line is evident here. At the point where you feel that you do not value you, you may continue to love again, but at the point where you feel worthless, maybe all the good feelings in you begin to blur. As a result, you become neutral.
Of course, I've always tried to explain something based on love in social relationships. But loyalty and love to the family, and the love experienced in love take on a completely different shape. I don't think I can express that love too much. Because if only words could suffice him...
Your tolerance coefficient is much higher in everything related to your mother, father, spouse, child than in social relations. Especially LOVE is a completely different kind of captivity. Whenever you can free yourself from a love, sometimes love turns into love at that point. You love it as it is, as it is, near or far. This is a much more complex issue. Their intensity varies from person to person, they are very different.
And now, purging all your emotions, return the momentum to yourself. If we can direct our feelings in the face of all the pain that we inflict on ourselves, wouldn't we once again realize that the real happiness is hidden only in our thoughts?
Who can make us feel worthless unless we want and let us in? Are you aware of the power, light, sparkle and infinite beauty within you? Besides, if you don't value yourself, who can see you as valuable?
Now I don't know how old you are reading this. But just take a look at your life like this. Maybe you were hurt too much, maybe you were despised, maybe you were scared, maybe you endured a lot of wreckage. But the greatest good you can do to yourself is to remind yourself of the value of your own self by staying "right now" as long as possible! No loneliness can scare a person who gets along well with him!
Whatever you have been through, accept the events, people, your mistakes as they are and forgive them! When you forgive everything, you are free and light. The more positive you think, the more positive you will be. When you are positive, everything good will be attracted to you. As I've always mentioned, this is the invisible law of nature!
Then hug yourself tight.
First yourself, then all loved ones who care about you.
Thank you for the many beautiful people in your life!
Forgive, love very much, feel, stay in the moment!
And thank yourself for everything.
Look, see how everything will be better.
With love...
