As a small child, you had a limited circle of relationships. Now, that you are older, you have a larger circle form which to choose your relationships. You may realize for the first time that there are people of all ages,races, religious,and backgrounds from which you can choose relationships. You can choose people who support and encourage your best qualities. You can change or back out of relationships that have a negative influence on your health, your safety, or your values. No relationship csn be healthy unless both parties feel valued and want the relationship.
Friendship
A friendship is a significant relationship between two people, based on caring, consideration, and trust. A friend is someone whose companionship you enjoy and who can be a source of help when you have a problem.
A friend also may be someone with whom you share confidences, interests,hobbies,or other friends. Having friends can help you define, understand,and reinforce your values. There are many kinds of friendships. Friendships vary in importance and in how challenging and complicated they are. Maintaining friendships can be hard work,but they are usually worth the effort.
Close Friendships
Having one or more close friends is important to your total health. Sitting with a group can make you feel socially connected. These casual relationships, however,do not fill some of the deeper needs human have. A close friend is more likely to share what he or she is really feeling and thinking and in turn make you feel comfortable doing the same.
You may trust a close friend with your secrets or go to this person when you are hurting, confused or in trouble. He or she might give you honest criticism and make you apologize or be accountable for your mistakes. Because you may care deeply, a real friend is also more likely to make you angry or hurt. Losing or having to share a close friend with someone else can be painful. It is important to remind yourself that no one owns anyone else- that people must be free to choose with whom they want to be and when. Friends try to work through conflicts. This helps frienships stay healthy and grow.
Platonic Relationships
Not all close friendships are made up of same sex pairs. Sometimes a male and a female can become real buddies in what is a platonice relationship.
A platonic relationship is one in which there is affection,but not romance. Such a relationship can be a wonderful way to grow to understand and feel comfortable with the opposite sex without feeling any of the pressures of dating. It can also help you begin to know that people of the opposite sex are human beings just like you, with the same kinds of fears,needs,and feelings.
Dating Relationships
Dating provides an opportunity for you to get to know yourself better to recognize your strength and waeknesses. It also gives you an opportunity to interact with feel comfortable with the opposite sex. By meeting and spending time with a variety of people, you learn what types.of people you like your decision making and communication skills and in so doing broaden your own development.
Dating often leads to an ongoing relationship with one person. Thes are some advantages to this type of relationship. However,teenagers who date only one personmay be closing themselves off from meeting other people too early in their social development. Although this type of relationship may be convenient and ensures that you have a date, it may not be helpful in developing a healthy relationship.
These days many teens go out in groups. Others do not date at all. The fact is, dating steadily dating in groups, or waiting until later to date are all healthy ways of meeting your emotional and social needs.
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Final thoughts:
The friends you have or want to have a major impact on your self-esteem. Think of someone consider to be a good friend. Make sure that if you found a right person you will never lose it cause it's difficult to find a true friend a real one...
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Date published: October 20,2021
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