The first time I started writing online, I was so scared of a lot of things.
My thoughts are not acceptable.
My opinions are nonsense.
My writing are bad in grammar.
I might use the wrong words to write.
My writing would not reach the readers as I want it to be.
I might hurt other feelings in my writing.
And a lot more of it.
The first online things I know is Facebook and I do not have a lot of good memory using Facebook. In terms of getting rapid information, Yes I love Facebook but in terms of reading other status, I do not like to read most of it. Yet, I do still have Facebook.
I do not like the attitude of public insults among good friends and family members that I saw there but lets forget abut that because I can't control people and I don't want too.
When I enter the world of blogging, I see new things. It's like a whole new world to me. The things that I don't like to read still exist but it is somehow different. Things that scared me before slowly disappear.
It is hard to avoid all the things that I am scared of so I decided to just face it. My fears of writing online.
My tips to handle my fears is....
I write for you but also for me.
I meant that when I write, I will make sure to write something that I would like to hear or read. For examples, I would not like to read about other talking bad about me online except for if it is a suggestion or thoughts that will help me to become better like "You're too fat or ugly, you should take care of yourself more". Things like that.
So' I would not write bad things about other. Well, that help me. I hope it will help others too.
I wonder If I post in a community...
Can everyone see it or will it be just in the community? Let me know.
Or should I post it twice? With the community or without the community or both?
I can not tell you how it works if you post in a community. If you know please let me know.
Grammarly is an app you can use (it's a keyboard) on your phone too. It only works if your internet connection is fine. It can be a great help.