Have you ever met a person that always thought of a bad situation before things happen? They often predict the worst and left a negative aura to their surrounding. Leaving others with worries, stress, depression, demotivation, and so on.

Well, predicting the worst before it happens is not a bad thing. It helps to prepare ourselves for the worst and also gives us time to find solutions before the moment arrives.

Everything in life can also be similar to cooking. If we add too many good ingredients to one pot, the meal will still taste bad because of the imbalance. That is why wise a chef measures their ingredients well. They did that to make sure they will have the same excellent taste they first created. Even if they want to improve their perfected dish, they will not immediately experiment on a bunch of ingredients. They will try one or only a few ingredients at a time. Sometimes they might not even change the ingredient but the way they cook it. This is what I thought they would do. I am not certain.

In life, I thought that things should also be in moderation. Not too much of negative prediction and not too less. Too much will create gloomy days, too little will create darkness.

Some words are only said as a way to express the level of the disturbance they feel inside of them. Some manage to encounter and some fail. Some of the failures to encounter end up in ending their life.

Each trouble has a way to solve but then if we are to drown inside of it, we will never be able to see any of the solutions.

Do not wait.

Don't wait for others to come and become our saviour. They may take a while to arrive. We must learn to save ourselves. You will find the difference between being independent and dependent when you are able to do so. There is no more restriction that causes our depression once we are able to be independent.

Do you think you are capable of being an independent person?

I once thought I cannot do so but I started small. I start with planning my life. It took me years to complete each of my plans but I am almost halfway through it now.

If you think that you cannot do it, then you will forever be unable to.

But...

If you give it a try even when you do not think that you will be successful...

You have already taken a step forward and you can slowly keep going starting with your first step. You might reach somewhere that can lead you to another few steps ahead in the future.

I am @heartbeat1515 and I wrote random thoughts that cross my mind.