Reality Is Bitter But If You Are Grateful It Will Feel Beautiful

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Seeing something different between us and others makes the spirit of life weak. Strengths and weaknesses often become problems and burdens in life, contributions to work seem lost in time, intelligence is no longer the basis for building the future because of mental collapse due to inner turmoil. Fighting insecurity is the main reason for survival.

Have you ever looked in the mirror? and see your face is not beautiful or ugly or see your small and not ideal body posture and when you see other people who are not like you, have a handsome or beautiful face and other advantages they have of course you will feel inferior and feel left out . social paralysis drowns out low self-esteem, like water falling from a high cliff.

"why i was born ugly?..i'm shy and i have to go..why i was born with a short body?...no one likes me, everyone insults... it's better for mom not to give birth to me.. just make me suffer. .I can't have a partner, I live alone.." maybe this is a sentence that comes from the bottom of heart as a complaint with the reality that must be faced. Other people's judgments make us fall as if we can't stand up, life becomes depressed, home and room is a place to stay.

Why are we not aware?

when we are in the womb, God has determined a path and a life to be a pioneer for the future, but the judgment of sight destroys the most beautiful gift we have. Physical differences are not a reason to feel inferior, don't blame your parents, let alone the creator. We only live once in this world, what's the point of complaining?

Look Around Then We Will Understand

Walk around the area and you will get the answer. I have a simple illustration and I hope it will make us all aware.

"When you walk and see someone who has only one arm while you have a complete arm...do you realise?......You keep walking and you see someone walking with a cane and sunglasses, and you see how much it looks like he has difficulty walking because he is blind and you see you have two working eyes and can see ..... you keep walking and you see someone sitting in a wheelchair, how difficult it is for him to move the wheel moving and you see yourself with legs that are work... you keep walking and you see a person on the side of the road with folded legs and asking for alms when you approach him and see how hard it is for him to stand because he has no legs he can't talk and can't see because he's blind... you say in your heart how difficult it is for him to live life.. I have legs, eyes and mouth that are intact while he doesn't, ask for simple food, whereas a have lots of food.." When he walked and came home, he was crying and he realized that all this time God was good for him.

Is there still a reason for us not to realize and be grateful?

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Every day when we wake up alive is a good reason to be grateful. It is a privilege.

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2 years ago

thank you jelena, stay grateful for every day under any circumstances, get to know better the life that God has given

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2 years ago

I agree with you. What is really important is how we see ourselves and not the way the world sees us. I know of a cripple who is also a auto mechanic amd he is very good at his craft. As a matter of fact, he has more costomers visiting his shop than the others since every one is impressed by his spirit of determination despite all odds.

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2 years ago

yes that's the appreciation people come to him for not being discouraged in living life even though he is paralyzed. good

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2 years ago

I feel this, there are time that I felt so unfortunate with my life. Then I stumble into a documentary on youtube. That video made me not only cry but realized how blessed I am compare with others.

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2 years ago

Everyone is different, but always remember that we all have our strengths and weaknesses

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2 years ago

People should always be grateful for who they are. Stop complaining of how they look. Whatever way we look, we can make the best out of it . Thank you

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2 years ago

keep being grateful...thank you for giving the argument

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2 years ago

We should be happy with what we have instead of hoping getting more and more.We must be grateful to the God,to our family and everything as it all are keeping us safe and secure.Lovely and interesting topic dear to read about

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2 years ago

yes right .. do not want more because what we have is a gift from God. good

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2 years ago

We should shun complaints all the time. Instead we should be grateful. If you think your life is difficult , you see some that are really more difficult than yours. Your article gives an interesting reading. You really open my eyes to some things that i don't care about . Thanks greatly for sharing.

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2 years ago

I feel proud right now, because it can pierce the heart and you can feel how much we care about the life we ​​have..thank you, this comment deserves to be read by many people..

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2 years ago

I do have blind and pwd friends :)

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2 years ago

sorry for them, we have to support them because they live like us as the same human being.

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2 years ago

Life will only be bitter if we kept on complaiNing about our imperfections and insecurities but if we learn to accept and embrace all these, then we will know that living here today is beautiful. Gratefulness and Acceptance is the key to live a beautiful life and that is what we should always put in our hearts

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2 years ago

Yes, that's right, my friend, the perfect answer is we must accept and be grateful because what we have is not necessarily owned by someone else. Thank you friend for your amazing understanding.

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2 years ago

Yeah I agree with you. Thank you for this wonderful article of yours. This is a great reminder to us all, to learn to be grateful always

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2 years ago

yes I am happy if this is useful and as a reminder to all of us about life.

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2 years ago

Yeah frenly it might be bitter but it tells you to be grateful. Thumbs up

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2 years ago

yes we should be grateful with what we have. thanks for reading and providing arguments.

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