Films, plays, stories, books have been written on the sentence "Love is different in November", and it is a slogan accepted by a part of the society. Songs were composed in many languages, poems were written, and masses directed towards love were formed. Is love really different in November? What distinguishes November from other months?
November is only one of the 12 months pronounced throughout the year, it has nothing to distinguish it from other months, and there is no proof that the loves it contains will be different. It is just a slogan and a populist approach. We can also see a successful society as a project to steer.
Or, by approaching the event more ironically, we can examine the features that can set this month apart from others by being among those who think that love will be different in November.
November is the last month of the autumn season, so it is possible to see every shade of nature in this month, this is an impressive sight and it is a social fact, if not scientific, that it can affect us in everything that is impressive. Maybe I shouldn't even say social, it could be a herd psychology that was formed as a result of the guidance of others. Perhaps there is a limited audience who can think this way.
November is one of the months when nature throws away everything so that it can renew itself in the spring, which may bring a feeling of purification. With this feature, it may be appealing to people who have come to the autumn of their life, which we can call middle age and advanced age, instead of younger people.
I didn't have a love affair in November, if I had, I could have set myself a good example here, and I don't know anyone around me who can set such an example.
You have already understood that I am critically looking at a thought that can distinguish November's love from others, I can't see any positivity that can set this month apart from the others and separate the love that will form in it from the others.
Just like February 14th being Valentine's Day, maybe a crazy shopping interest with a trend that will be created and a clever plan to ensure the spinning movement of money that can turn the wheels in the economy. When we look at its main lines, I can say that it is a successful plan, because February 14th is pure madness. As an ex-lover who forgot February 14 when I had a girlfriend and was victimized on that day, I may have presented a subjective approach to today.
Anyway, our topic is not February 14, we were talking about the privilege of a love that can be experienced in November.
Of course, the definition of love here is also important, the classical love we know from the love in November may not be meant or it may have been evaluated in terms of a wide window. If we count the family ties that can be strengthened in the warm houses where the family gathers in this month, which comes just before winter, I think love is different in November.
Or, as we enter a new month, if it is thought to set new goals and move forward by opening a clean page (emptyed wallets) in line with those goals, November may be another month.
As someone who has had limited love and has not yet married, I do not want to bore you with the different aspects of love. Happiness is precious in every month and season, when you find it, try not to lose it, hold on tight and, if possible, wear a cuff (ring) on your wrists. As you get older, expectations rise, and as expectations increase, happiness moves away from you.
Those who think that love is different in November, today is November 1 and 30 days where you can experience love differently are waiting for you. You can make the best use of this and carry your love to other months. I wish you all happiness.
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November is a normal month for me, not saying that this November will be my happiest month, because all moth deserve a lot of happiness. Send love everyday ❤️