Personality, behaviour, death, punishment and reward
It is our personality that distinguishes us from each other with our characteristics, abilities and preferences. Everyone has his or her own behaviour and actions. And everyone is responsible for their own actions. Our personality is the mirror of all these in society. Determining what will be reflected in the mirror depends on the impression given after the created personality.
It is difficult for someone who is too full of himself or herself to like something else. Just as it would be difficult for an obsessive person to adopt a different idea, it cannot be expected that people who have been travelling in the same idea for a long time will get along well.
Many legal and real persons who are rivals today once worked under the same roof. They walked on the same path for the same purpose. They were separated due to factors such as behavioural change, jealousy and competition.
Like a husband and wife parting ways, like brothers and sisters parting ways, like cutting off a gangrenous arm...
No matter how real death is, no one is ready for it. One wonders more about how you died than where, when and for what. Did you die for yourself? Did you die for someone else? Did you die slowly, painfully? Did you die suddenly, without feeling it?
To die for someone else is to give life to someone or some people while dying. To give life to someone is to assume the role of God, even by a simple thought, because only God can give life. In the same way, since only God can give life, can those who kill others put themselves in the place of God?
Behaviour, personality, life and death are interconnected and part of our life. It is the journey between being born and dying in our lives. During the journey, it is a choice which way the rudder will break and who will accompany us. Sometimes voluntary, sometimes compulsory preferences are punishment or reward. Maybe it is a test to be passed.
There are always big differences between the reflected personality and the real personality because human beings are the creatures that can hide themselves best. Therefore, the reflection in the mirror does not always show the truth. The way each personality reflects itself will vary. Only the other party knows and chooses how much of the behaviour or personality is reflected correctly and how much is reflected incorrectly.
If one wishes, one can hide one's true personality from one's parents, one's children or even one's spouse. And they can do this for many years, because not every betrayal and infidelity comes to light. Just as not every thief is punished, there are many hidden crimes, but there is no guilty party.
When personality allows it, things that are wrong for many people can be seen as right. Just as what is right can be seen as wrong, the personality and the behaviour based on the personality formed at the very beginning of life affect the whole life - until the end of life!
When life ends, the reckoning of the personality and behaviours shown and not shown, in short, of the whole life begins. And there is no camouflage or reflecting what suits you while the account is given. There is only the reality known only by Allah.
Reward and punishment will be most necessary then.
Some people do what they don’t want others to do to them, because they feel like it’s right to do it to others and wrong for someone else to do it to them.