My own view of life and its difficulties

Life has good and bad surprises and it is not known when surprises will appear. It is good to live with its bitter and sweet moments, and knowing as much as possible can make a difficult life a little easier. And when you choose a lonely life, there will be no one around you to share the difficulties. Everything that needs to be done will have to have the fingerprint of your own hand.

They asked the wolf;

Why is your neck thick?

He replied;

I do my own work myself.

This can also be interpreted as a sign of mistrust towards others. It can also indicate self-confidence. But the bottom line is that it is necessary to know everything that needs to be known in order to sustain a life and to be successful in practice. In a life to be sustained independently from other lives, it is important not to be dependent on second or third persons as much as possible. Independence not only in economic terms, but also in all aspects of life, ensures a trouble-free life or a life with few problems.

Gone are the times when a man who could not cook for himself or do his own laundry married only for these purposes, and a woman who could not provide economic independence and needed a strong person with a sense of ownership married only for these purposes.

I know that there are those who interpret equality differently with their own obsessive, prejudiced and fixed ideas. There is a big difference between what is meant and what they perceive and want to be perceived. Everyone can impose the way of life they adopt in their own world on others. They can interpret and construct gender equality according to their own ideas. The result does not change, as long as women or men do not design their lives in such a way that they are dependent on others, they will have fewer problems. Perhaps they will never experience problems, and when they do, they will have the strength and determination to overcome them with their own efforts.

Life is long, and to share it with others should be a choice rather than a reason or necessity. Preference should not be a choice based on interests or born out of need. The traces that will be created and left behind by couples who do not spare their contributions and sacrifices to each other in long life will create the difference and value in each other's lives. This difference and value will continue even when they are gone.

I respect what someone produces with his hands.

I respect what he produces with his mind.

I respect those who labour with the sweat of their brow and demand the reward for their labour.

Their efforts to produce something right or wrong, to make it exist, to keep it alive are admirable and sacred for me.

There is no difference between someone earning money by prostituting their body (male or female) and someone earning money by exposing their body (male or female). The aim of both is to satisfy others, to bring pleasure. And I never respect them! ... but they are free to do what they want, just as I am free to say what I want!