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Friends with benefits?
Heeeey! Are you wondering about the content of this article? Haha. You may have seen this in your notification, homepage of this site, or wherever. You clicked this because you thought that this is what you think it is? Well, it's not. I do not write that kind of stuff.(shattap ka nalang hahaha chaaar) Are you disappointed? XD If so, sorry not sorry! Bleeeh! 😆 Okay moving on. Ganon dapat, move on agad. Wala ka mapapala kung magmumukmok ka lang dyan! Okay? Hahaha. ***Disclaimer:*** *all of this is just based on my opinions and experiences* :) Lemme share this one. I have this former friend. (Is that the right term? Haha) Yeah, we're not friends anymore. Yeah that's life, may aalis may dadating para umalis ulit hahaha. Here's a very short story of their friendship. (???) XD We all know and we are aware what friends are, right? Supporting EACH OTHER but with limitations. Here it is, they knew each other for a long time. They labeled their relationship as friends. Hmmm. But the boy was always asking and taking and taking and taking whatever he wanted. And the girl keeps providing what boy's want. One day, my friends and I overheard their conversation. Not our intention! Don't get us wrong! Haha. Boy: I want to eat this one (maybe he is showing it through his phone.) sadly, I don't have money. Girl: How much is that? Boy: P199 pesos only. Girl: Oh okay. Order it, I'll pay. Boy: Yeees! You're the best friend! Thank you. (Then he left in our classroom) One of our friends asked the girl. Is that really a friend? It seems you are his sugar mommy. With a confused look. Then she replied, "It's complicated, we are more than friends. I love him and he said that he loves me too." "And then?" We asked. "What did he do about it?" I asked. "He just said that we are better off as friends" she answered. "Wait what? Friends? You love each other but better off as friends? Then you always buy what he wants, stop it. Let's say, you are a couple. Still, it is not right that you will buy everything for him. Friends are not like that, even the couple. Know your worth. Don't let him use you" our friend says. What a complicated relationship. It is like,**"mahal kita kasi kailangan kita"** at **"mahal kita kasi ikaw yung nandyan"** (*I love you because I need you and I love you because you are the one who is there.*) The girl told us that she is afraid that the guy will leave him if she doesn't buy something for him. Damn! If the boys were like that, don't be afraid to be left. He is not worth it. Aside from that, there is no assurance that he will love you forever just because you buy things for him. That's not how it works. Even if you give your all if he will leave you, he will. My point of sharing this here is, don't let others abuse you and don't abuse others. Not because you know that someone has feelings for you, you will take advantage. What is your opinion about this? Yaaay! Finally, I'm able to write here again. Kilala niyo pa ba ako? 😆 chaaar. Lead Image: source https://giphy.com/gifs/nbc-tv-iFUr4hisCIwEDb2Mpn
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Hahah,napagkamalan Lang sugarmommy, wag ganon.May mga Tao talagang nang abuse,na experience ko to dati sa hyschool ako,na humingi ng pangmerienda kasi alam nya na crush ko sya,kaloka pero yon pala May girlfriend na sya.
Luuuuh. Ambad talaga ng mga mapangsamantala na yan!
He love her but he just want friendship wow and he keeps asking things from her. I'm sure that's not the first time she bought something for him. I think the girl should know her worth and find some that respect her. Because I'm sure the guy love someone else
Yes. You got it right. I hope the girl learned already.
Kaya dapat, "mahal ka kasi mahal ka". Hindi yung mahal ka kasi may kailangan ka. Kakainis, mga abusive af. Hays!
O puso mo, puso mo. Relax. Inhale. Exhale. Hahaha. Sana lang talaga mawala na mga abusado! Grrr.
Hahahaha ay ambot. Naiinis talaga me.
Wahahaha. Gusto ko nga batukan talaga yung friend ko na yon at nakakainis nga 😆
Lol.. Martyr nb tlga sya ? 😅 magpapa gamit... Obvious naman na hndi love yun... Piniperahan lng sya..tsk..
Yes ate, martyr na talaga. Nakakainis.
Yes true dzi. Don't let yourself abuse by others. We must be observer. Kailangan natin mag obserba sa mga taong andyan sa atin kasi andyan lang siya dahil may nakukuha sa atin. Okay lang naman maging close kayo sa isa't isa but don't too much. Kasi sa huli you're the only one will left with pains. Wag talaga magpapaabusado. Kumusta kana dzi? I miss you...❤️
Very well said, Ramona. Nakakaasar naman din kasi yung mga nagtetake advantage. Porket alam nila na gusto sila. Tsk. Okay naman ako, Ramona. I miss you too. Ikaw kumusta? 😁
Love without action and commitment are just words, though it's a fiction a girl should know here Worth. Pag slam niyang ginagamit lang sya then think again
Trueee. Wag masyado nagpapakatanga.
Woohoo wee miss five cups is here again writing. Do to others as you would want done to you is what I say. But if it makes her happy paying for all his things, when not let her do it.
Hello uncle, EM! I'm trying to be active here and in noisecash too. Hihi. You are right po. :)
It's not love because it's only give and give. It should be give and take.
You have a point, mars.
Grabe naman iyang si boy...sugar mommy yan?
Nakahanap ng sugar mommy haha
Sarap iuntog ni boy sis.hihi or pati na rin si girl.hahaha sorry sis ah, it's pretty obvious naman kasi na hindi inlababo ang boy sa kanya. Wala atang lalaki na inlab sa babae na ganyan umasta.
Haha don't be sorry sis. Sinabihan nanamin yan na ang t@nga niya at ang martyr pero sige pa rin. Hays. Kaya ngaaaa. Kung mahal talaga ng lalaki, hindi niya hahayaan gumastos para sa kanya.
"Shame on you if you fool me once, shame on me inf you fool me twice". Maybe, just maybe, when he said he loved her he meant just as friends and that's why he said that they were better of just as friends. Now, if she made her feelings well known, that it's a romantic love, not a friend love, and that was his answer and on top he uses her as an ATM, run girl, RUN!
It is really sad for the girl. But even if they are friends he must not do that. He doesn't have the license to use the girl. No one has.
Of course he mustn't do it, no one should, nor friends family or couple. There should be an equilibrium between give and take for both parties involved, not one doing the giving and the other doing the taking.
Aynahh.. Abusado din talaga siya langga noh? Ayy...Very wrong talaga...Hehe..
Sobrang abusado ga. Hays
1. The girl is in love with stupidity. 2. The boy is greedy, hungry and a smartasshole. 3. Buying food lang ba talaga? 👀👀👀
1. True 2. True! 3. Not sure. 😆 hindi naman na niya nakwento yon hahaha who knows? 🤣
Hahahhaha xD sabagay bahala na sila.
Hala namiss ko po magbasa ng article nyo. Welcome back po at buti na lang po ay nakabalik na kayo. Tama po huwag po natin abusuhin ang kapwa natin at ganun din po tayo wag po nating hayaan na magpapa abuso sa iba.
Ay medyo busy busyhan po kasi ako sa school work haha. Sana lang tuloy tuloy na to ulit. Haha.
Same po medyo busy din pp sa school. Sana nga po magtuloy tuloy na po kayo ulit dito. 😊
Nanggigil ako sa katangahan ni ate girl bbmars. Bat ganun? Arrrrghhhh . apaka user naman ni boy. Di sya nahiya? Kaalalki niyang tao.
Trueee napakauser talaga kakainis. Walanghiya si boy, bbmars.
Nako naman masakit yun. Mahal ka lang kasi kailangan ka. Kailangan ka para mabili gusto nyang pagkain🤣 pero bakit pag ang girls ang laging nagpapabili sa lalaki okay lang, pag lalaki hindi? Dapat parehas lang. Give and take. Or mag chip in kayo ir mag share or bettter yet wag na lang magjowa para sarili mo lang pinaggagastahan mo hahaha
Yeaaah give and take talaga dapat. Bet ko yung huli mong sinabi *wag nalang magjowa para sarili mo lang pinaggagastahan* 😆😆
dal naman niya nagpauto...wala na bang ibang lalaki..anubaaa lalaki lang yan marami niyan sa shoppee lapit na 11.11 mag add to cart nalang cia...naku naman talaga oo
Uto uto nga talaga si girl. Hahahaha scam naman kasi mga lalaki sa shoppee ma. Hindi dumarating. 😆
yung akin nga eh last February ko ba inorder para sana sa Valentines until now on the way pa rin hahaha
Grabe naman yon, abusado naman si boy. Hahhaha! I think hindi nya mahal si girl, sinabi nya lang yun kasi alam nya na may gusto sa kanya si girl. Kaloka. Sana mauntog na yang friend mo. hahahha
Tumpak ganern! Mahal lang kasi kailangan. Hahaha. Sana lang talaga. Pero 'til now yata nagpapakatanga. May issue sa social media e tapos ilang days okay na ulit sila. Hala ang daldal ko. 😆 shhh ka lang ha. Hahahaha.
Gosh. Napaka-martir ha. Hahahaha! Sana mauntog na sya ng malala. Expensive yata yung nabiling helmet ni Kuya. Hahhaha
Talk about stupidity 🙄, why she's settling for less duhh. Well ganyan kasi talaga ata pag sobrang nagmamahal kalang. Yong di mo na makita ang tama sa mali yong nabubulagan kana. Yong kala mo tama pa ang ginagawa mo, iniisip mo na makabubuti yun sayo pero di nya alam masama na pala ang dulot sa kanya. Aigooo. Yang ganyang kaibigan ang masarap kaltukan ee kaso di rin nan magagawa kasi baka masamain nga diba. Aigoo. Ambot nalang sa kanya. Hindi lang si boi ang may kasalanan, sya din because she's letting him.
Sobrang t@ngaaaa niya, Ate. Gusto talaga namin siyang batukan non e. Kamo minsan tumatawa pa siya pag sinabihan siyang t@nga. Gustong gusto niya ay. Yung mindset niya kasi na baka wala ng magmahal sa kanya na iba. Hays. Ang dami dami dyang iba na magmamahal sa kanya e. True kasalanan niya rin talaga.
Yan ang mahirap ee siguro marami syang insecurities sa katawan kaya ayan ang mindset nya. Di dapat ganon, unahin nya munang mahalin ang sarili nya para magkaroon sya ng happy life hindi yang ganyan. Yawitism!
Hu u po bhie? Hahaha I don't think that is love. Ang kapal naman ni guy if he just wanted 'as friends' pero kung makaasta daig pa ang jowa hahaha saka tama ka rin naman na kahit mag jowa pa sila, hindi dapat pabili boy so guy. Kainis!
Hahaha nalimutan na ba? 😆 chaar. Kapal muks ni guy e. Haha. Dapat talaga give and take. Hays.
Na miss kitaaaaaa bii! Busy na busy ka na talaga sa lovelife mo ha. Sanaol may juwa! 😂💗 About sa boy na tinutukoy sa itaas, pakisakal please haha, ginigil niya ko. Pasampal din kay ate ghurl at baka matauhan sa katangahan.
Namiss din kita miiiii. Hahaha. Hindi naman. May iba lang talaga pinagkakaabalahan. 😆 Ang sarap talaga sakaliiiiin! Hampasin ng dos por dos! Haha. Trueee para magising siya sa ginagawa niya. Dami daming pwede dyan ii.
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