How can i have more freedom?

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We are living in this society when some youths wanted to gain more freedom but not gaining their parents trust.The issue of trust can be a cause of misunderstanding between youths and parents.

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Me,i always question myself why my parents doesn't giving me enough freedom.Then i saw the book (this book)and found a chapter titled with "How can i gain more freedom"And i found a questions that can be an answer to my question.

Here is the questions:

Do you always  wash the dishes?
Do you always take responsibility in all you do?
Do you always waking up early in the morning?
Are you following the curfew that your parents gave to you?etc.

And now,i finally knew why my parents doesn't give me more freedom.So,i asked myself,do i think i can handle my freedom in all i do?Do i think i can treated an adult when i can't prove to my parents that it's my time to have a freedom?

If you want to have more freedom,you need to gain you parent trust first.But it's not that easy,earning their trust takes time.To gain their trust you need to prove that you're responsible to take it.And when you prove yourself responsible,you take one step in your goal.

Some ways to prove yourself trustworthy:


1.Do the household chores without being reminded.
Example:Washing the dishes.
2.Manage your time wisely.
Example:Use your gadgets in a balanced way.
3..Be pantual
Example:Wake up early in the morning when going to school,so they wouldn't woke you up.
4.Value and take care of the things given to you
Example:Take care of your cellphone.
5..Show to them that you can save money in your own responsible way.
6.Follow the promises you made.
Example:Don't come home late.
7.Always say the truth when you make mistakes and try apologizing to them.

Yes,nobody's perfect,we always make mistakes but that is not the end of the world.But when you all did your best but still didn't take the freedom you want,don't be annoyed and don't be mad at them.Talk to them honestly and tell them what you need to do to earn their trust.Don't expect them to give you more freedom easily.And please,REMEMBER THAT GAINING FREEDOM IS HARDER THAN LOSING IT.So this quarantine,grab the opportunity to earn your parents trust so that you can have more freedom and you can treat as an ADULT.

That's all for today🤗Thank you for reading this article and i'll appreciate if you leave your thoughts about this in comment section🥰Stay safe everyone❤️

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Ako, my parents trusted me too much. They let me live my life. They let me enjoy it, but with their guidance too. And yes, the things you mentioned above could prove your parents that you are worth the trust, but sometimes you have to show them they can trust you. You have to at least try to show them you can stand alone.

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4 years ago

Wowowow sana all haha ako kase i'm still gaining for their trust saka dapat talaga may limitations and you should not cross it🙂

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Yes. Madali lang makuha ang trust nila kapag pinapakita mo na worth it yung pag-invest nila ng trust sa 'yo. You can do it babygirl. Just take your time.

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Thanks for believing in me ate na kaya ko❤️🤗

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You are always welcome! 😍🤩

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ang role model naman pala!!!💖💖💖💖💖💖💖 there are just some parents who prefer to be strict to teach their children to be obedient at all times but that doesn't mean they don't trust them . some parents give utmost freedom to their children to let them be independent but that doesn't mean we can abuse that freedom. children should know their limits at all times and be obedient because parents know best nga dibaa ^^

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yesyuff HHAHHAHA dapat talaga may limitations e pero minsan mahirap din sundin pag nadadala ng mga barkada kaya dapat yung barkada mo have the same mindaet as yours muehehe

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yessss always choose the right group of friends na hindi ka ipapahamak and ikaw din syempre be a good influence din sa kanila HAHAHAH ang tino natin dito nakakalokaaa HAHAHA

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4 years ago

kunware matino HHAHAHAHAHAHA ios yan

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4 years ago

You dont have to rush yourself to gain freedom as an adult. Your parents are giving you restriction bcoz they care and love you,dont worry if you will reach the right age they will give you your freedom even if you will not ask for it.

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4 years ago

yes ate and i'm tryin to gain their trust first☺️Thank you for that ate @chelout🤗

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4 years ago

thats right. your parents are really blessed to have you as their child. earning their trust is a very good step in proving your maturity that you can handle yourself wisely and properly. But remember also,a parent's word is always for what is best for you.take care

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4 years ago

yes,they just want us to be good.Thanks for that ate,i'll always remember that☺️❤️

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Your most welcome.😍

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4 years ago

Our parents knows what is good and best for us. Maybe not giving you much freedom is for your good also.. Calm down your too young, you can do anything you want in the future, don't in a hurry..

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noted ate @Kris2310,hirap talaga pag nadadala ng barkada's,baka yon din yung dahilan kaya they don't give me enough freedom.

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Independence are given to us if they knew that we can handle ourselves properly. For years, they are our sources of stability, they provide everything for us. They help us grow, so it's not easy for them to let us do whatever we want. It can called discipline. Our parents and guardians are there to see us growing. I believe that they only want the best for us, so let's give it to them, the time where they can still take care of us while we are in their house.

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4 years ago

Yes dapat pag hihingi ng freedom dapat responsable hehe kase pag hindi mo na handle yon,mawawala din tiwala sayo ng magulang mo hehe

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Oo, at ikaw Lang din Ang mahihirapan dahil nasira mo na e. It takes time to gain again what you have lose.

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4 years ago

Everyone want to be a freedom .

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ofcourse,but that's not easy to have.

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Nowadays Its very common youth wants freedom but parents did not give them freemdom... because of todays world situation youth are joining many crime for this parents are afraid to give freedom there side this is rught On the other side All youth are not same they are the future if they are not get freedom how they lead the world....... Afterall your writing are good ❤

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You nailed it,we are living in this society that crimes are everywhere.I also think that it's the reason why parents doesn't easily give more freedom to they're kids,they're afraid if something bad will happen if they give them so much freedom.And maybe their kids are not responsible enough to handle it.Thank you for reading this and i appreciated your comment🥰

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Parents are always knows best, they always try to fulfill our dream

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4 years ago

Exactly,so we need to follow them🤗❤️Thank you for reading this!

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great article, please subscribe me

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Always remember parents knows best, they have gone there already and you are still traversing to the place where they are in now. All parents wishes goodness for their children to be away from harm. If gaining freedom from them is difficult maybe they have observe that time has not yet come, that children are still dependent upon on their parents and not able to handle oneself safely. Society today is so different, youths minds are restless, has to be monitor and be guided since temptations are just around the corner. Youth must listen to parents, wait for the time when they give the freedom, for they know when is the best time.

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Yes,i need to gain my parents trust first before wanting more freedom,they always care and know the best for me,so i need to follow them.Thank you for sharing your thoughts here❤️🤗

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4 years ago

Wow i like this article this really helps a lot for us parents and childrens

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Thank you for reading🤗I hope it help you in any way❤️

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Yup its really help me a lot my friend i hope you can visit my post too

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sure sure🤗I'll visit your account later and consider subscribing you🥰

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Yes im done subscribing to you already my friend

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It is true that a child should gain their parents trust before wanting to have some freedom. Most (not all) teenagers nowadays are wanting freedom but are not responsible enough.

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Yes,i think that the problem why they lose their parents trust,because they're not responsible enough to handle it🙂

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4 years ago

We can not live without freedom. its our fundamental rights

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Yes,what i mean is more freedom,a freedom that you want to have when you're young.

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Amazing writing

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Thank you for reading this🤗❤️

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Welcome

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