We are living in this society when some youths wanted to gain more freedom but not gaining their parents trust.The issue of trust can be a cause of misunderstanding between youths and parents.
Me,i always question myself why my parents doesn't giving me enough freedom.Then i saw the book (this book)and found a chapter titled with "How can i gain more freedom"And i found a questions that can be an answer to my question.
Here is the questions:
Do you always wash the dishes?
Do you always take responsibility in all you do?
Do you always waking up early in the morning?
Are you following the curfew that your parents gave to you?etc.
And now,i finally knew why my parents doesn't give me more freedom.So,i asked myself,do i think i can handle my freedom in all i do?Do i think i can treated an adult when i can't prove to my parents that it's my time to have a freedom?
If you want to have more freedom,you need to gain you parent trust first.But it's not that easy,earning their trust takes time.To gain their trust you need to prove that you're responsible to take it.And when you prove yourself responsible,you take one step in your goal.
Some ways to prove yourself trustworthy:
1.Do the household chores without being reminded.
Example:Washing the dishes.
2.Manage your time wisely.
Example:Use your gadgets in a balanced way.
3..Be pantual
Example:Wake up early in the morning when going to school,so they wouldn't woke you up.
4.Value and take care of the things given to you
Example:Take care of your cellphone.
5..Show to them that you can save money in your own responsible way.
6.Follow the promises you made.
Example:Don't come home late.
7.Always say the truth when you make mistakes and try apologizing to them.
Yes,nobody's perfect,we always make mistakes but that is not the end of the world.But when you all did your best but still didn't take the freedom you want,don't be annoyed and don't be mad at them.Talk to them honestly and tell them what you need to do to earn their trust.Don't expect them to give you more freedom easily.And please,REMEMBER THAT GAINING FREEDOM IS HARDER THAN LOSING IT.So this quarantine,grab the opportunity to earn your parents trust so that you can have more freedom and you can treat as an ADULT.
That's all for today🤗Thank you for reading this article and i'll appreciate if you leave your thoughts about this in comment section🥰Stay safe everyone❤️
Ako, my parents trusted me too much. They let me live my life. They let me enjoy it, but with their guidance too. And yes, the things you mentioned above could prove your parents that you are worth the trust, but sometimes you have to show them they can trust you. You have to at least try to show them you can stand alone.