In this world there are different people, there are kind, rude, greedy, selfish and there are people who try to be tough that you think no one's around her/him. This are the people who protect their heart to be hearbroken at the end of the day.

In my almost 28 years existing in this world life already gave me struggles that cause of not guarding my heart fully . I easily gave trust to others, i easily gave love to others , special someone or friends. And by not guarding my heart deeply it turn my life upside down and at the end of the day it's YOU yes YOU, YOURSELF are always suffering for that kind of behavior.

BE KIND

Every person have our own kindness in our heart but as time goes and because of experienced and encounters in life you choose to change and you need to change for your own good. Because there are people who always taking advantage of your kindness and because you not guarding your heart from those people , they think it's okey with you even they did something that makes your heart broke. By guarding your heart to this situation you need to be wise enough to choose and to trust.

TO GIVE TRUST

Social media is one of the best example nowadays that many of the users are using this just to give your trust to them. Mobile Games, Video calls, Chats, Fake news etc. In mobile games you easily give trust to your co player after months of playing with him/her and fall in love, without investigating if this person is single or married or in a relationship(base on what I read). Video calls and chats, after spending time together for months again with all the butterflies in your stomach and kilig to the bones conversation you give trust that much without stalking if this person is available, single , married or your just a play time.(base on what i read again haha). Fake news , you give trust in the issue in social media because it goes viral you think it's legit and lead you to disappointment , like scammers offering money or job.

Because of easily being attached to someone by giving your trust to them and in the situation you failed to "GUARD YOUR HEART" and you end up hurting your self and breaks your heart.

TO LOVE WITHOUT LIMITATION

IT'S not a problem to love but always set your limitation. There are people that always blind when it comes to falling in love. But this Falling inlove should have your own limits. Why? Because we can't predict what will happend next , we don't know if that person will stay on us forever. You can love but set a side some part of your heart to yourself. If you feel your not happy anymore don't make it harder for both of you but if you think there's way to make it work go on. But always think that you need to set your limits what if this one will not work ? Can I still be happy? Is my heart be okey? Ofcourse not because it will be broke if that's happen.

That's why in order to guard your heart always limit what you can afford to lose. Dont gave so much because at the end if he is not really meant for you , you will hurt so much . And others kill their own life because of this love thing "kasi halos kaluluwa ibibigay niya wag lang mawala ang taong mahal niya" and that's not love after all.

A though person

I really admired this kind of person how they handle it? How they face it? Why is that they choose to be so tough by guarding their heart.

This is base on my experienced and also my sister has this personality. We live together ever since we are a kid and i know her more, a smart kid , a good sister , loving and sweet .But because of our experienced in life she choose to be tough to face it. We experienced broken family, my mother leave us to work abroad for how many years upto now just to support us , we heard so much words from our aunt and MARITESS around us , and how our family always looked down by others. And it changed her a lot. She choose to stand her own, graduated college without allowing others to stand beside her because all through out her journey she only had herself(except me because im always there beside her).She choose to GUARD her Heart by being a TOUGH person with tough personalities. And that's why I adore her more but i know my sister is a good person. She doesn't allow sadness hurt her more.

CLOSING THOUGHTS

Guarding your heart is not losing your trust to others. It's a way how you protect your heart to hurt many times. And for me it makes you a better person and to be able to survive in any heartbreaks you may face in the future. After all always choose to love yourself more and protect your heart like a fragile box.

Special mention to miss @Talecharm I am so inspired by your articles , it's more about life , an inspiration , a articles that full of wisdom and advises. That's why I started to make one and I loved it because I can be able to express my emotions and able to flex what inside my heart.