Good afternoon, it's me, Bheng again, lol, happy wednesday afternoon to all, weather's good out here now, sun's up and bright, an idea came out of my mind again because i remember something and made me wrote, share and publish it here at read.cash and going to share something from my fb page here again that's kinda related to this article now, below's that link, lol, hope you will like the song :)
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=702103147401198&id=100028045580752
They say, boys don't cry? I wonder why is that? Don't they feel sadness, loneliness or emptiness? Do they just hide their feelings or what they really feel? Are they just afraid to show it or let someone know that they also cry? If they do cry, what makes them cry? Is crying that bad that they aren't or didn't do it? Is crying just for girls? Do crying makes them weak or feel weak? I wonder why i wonder, lol, hopefully, those questions here would be answered eventually by boys or men here on read.cash, lol
I never saw my father, my brother cried or they just hide it to us, same thing with my male workmate, guess, boys are really good in hiding their pain, loneliness or sadness and what they really feel to someone or to other people or to the one they love.
Like i said, i never knew or met or learned or saw boys that cry, but that changes when i met my boyfriend and all those questions that i included here was answered and it made me believed that boys are just like girls at some point somehow, the only difference's they are not that showy when it comes to crying or showing their emotion to other or someone else.
I met and known my boyfriend last february of this year, since i met him, we had argued many times as there are no perfect relationship and most of the time, he cried when we argued or had a fight or misunderstanding, he was the one who cried many times because of it and seeing him crying like that makes me think and believe and understand that somehow boys or men do cry and when they cry means they really cared and loved you and that you are that important to them, that they can't lose you or afford to lose you nor they can't live without you anymore, remember asking my boyfriend why he cry and why he cried like that and why he always cry when we fight or argue, he said, what do you think, woman? I cried because i never thought that i would love you this much and can't really believed that i fell in love with someone who lives very far from me nor i can't believed that i will have this kind of relationship now, feel a little jealous, feel unsecure or uncertain of some things especially before and what you and your x-friend have been before, if you two are still talking, because he talks and told me something and he still knew what's happening there, he added, i cried because you taught me things that i didn't knew and felt before and made me cried again, the feelings i had for you is so strong that it made me cried many times, sometimes because you surprised me unexpectedly and sometimes because we argued and you didn't understand and get what i've been trying to say to you and didn't do or follow the things i want you to do and also because you are the most hard headed women that i have met and learned to love.
Now and finally, i fully understand why boys or men cry. They are not weak, they are not that showy and they know how to deal with emotion or to how they are feeling, but if they do cry especially to the one they love means a good, really good one or thing 'coz boys nor men won't be crying that much or like that if it doesn't mean anything or if they didn't cared or loved that someone, how 'bout you, do you know a boy or a men who cried? Or if you are a boy or a men, have you cried and why did you cried? As for me, seeing my boyfriend cried many time's a good thing, a good feeling, it touches my heart and also made me cried as well 'coz i felt how he really feels, his emotions, his fears, his doubt, his jealousy, how afraid he was when i told him that goodbye before, his insecurities, everything he really feels was shown or show up when he cries, felt bad as well 'coz i always made him cry, he is so emotional when it comes to me, mixed emotion everytime i saw and made him cry, lol, Bheng again, saying, good afternoon again, feel free to share your thoughts or opinion or experienced if you do have this too or same thing down below, coffee time for me here now, lol, have a good day, God bless and be safe to all and hope you like this one again and oh, just an addition to this one, kinda like how Justin of my love from another star cried, he reminded or same with my boyfriend, lol, ngayon, nahook-up o naadik na ako sa palabas na yun, kapag tapos na yun, pinanonood ko pa sa youtube, lol, maybe because i can relate to it or to them and their lovestory, lol
ছেলেরা কাঁদে কি করে ওরা তো কাদায় নিজেরা কাঁদে না