What is your biggest fear in life?

Blog 85-14th
Date :May 20,2022
Time :10:55am

I've already answered these questions from my previous article "What is one thing that you wish you could change about yourself? This time I will share my husband's answers to the questions I've already asked. I asked him those questions but I have to translate them into my dialect which is Bisaya since he is not that good at English. So without further ado let's hear his answers.

If you could live one day over and over again for the rest of your life, which day would it be?

He wants to live the day he got married and has kids because he knows that the life of being single is so much different from the life he has right now. He has more goals for his life now than before.

Of all of the restaurants that we’ve been to together, which is your favorite?

We have the same answer to this question and that's Mang Inasal too. He enjoyed his first time eating at Mang Inasal.

What is your biggest fear in life?

He is afraid that he might lose us knowing that our marriage life is being tested how many times already. He admits all his lapses and his shortcomings. He hopes that I will still extend my patience and understanding to him and will never give up on him.

Were you ever sent to the principal’s office as a kid? If so, why?

Yes, he was sent to the principal's office when he was in high school for initiating gambling in school.

What is the one thing that I do that drives you the most nuts?

Honestly, he can't find an answer to this question cause he knows that I am not the pain in his ass. He said I am a good wife and a good mother.

If I had to cook one meal for you for the rest of our lives, what would you want it to be?

He loves the sweet and sour pork that I cook the last time we had a Christmas celebration with the whole family from his father's side.

What is the one thing you wish I did differently as a Mom/Dad?

This one too, he can't find anything to answer since he knows how I take care of our son and he knows how a good mother I am.

What physical feature do you love most about me?

yay!! dito ako kinilig Lol.Akala ko di na ako kikiligin.He loves my eyes. Especially those times that we are still dating. He is the third person who told me that I have a wonderful eyes. yung sabi niya ,yung mata ko daw laging nagniningning,parang nakasmile lagi pero nakakatakot naman daw pag galit ako haha kasi very visible daw sa mata ko pag galit ako.LOL

What physical feature of yours makes you the most self-conscious?

He was shy to admit at first that he felt conscious about his ears. I kept telling him that it doesn't affect his kaguapohan having that tangkag ears, I don't know the term tangkag in Tagalog and also in English.

Your t-shirt or lingerie? Which do I look sexiest in? (For Wives)

Ito iba sagot niya.He said I look sexy if I wear a dress. Since he knows that I am not a girly type of person and I rarely wear dresses. But there's one time that I wear a dress just to make him impressed. Glad he finds me sexy LOL.

If you could pick any job in the world to do, what would it be (if $ wasn’t a factor)?

He wants to be Mekaniko,Since mahilig talaga siyang magbutingting nga mga parts ng motor or sasakyan.To be honest maswerte ako sa asawa ko dahil ang dami niyang alam gawin,maging panday at mason man,maging tubero or electrician.Same kami ni hubby kasi mahilig matuto ng ibat ibang bagay.

Where do you want to be buried when you die? Or where do you want your ashes scattered?

He said he wants to be buried in the libingan ng mga bayani I know he was just joking, his answer was he wants to be buried at the cemetery of the rich people.Haha

What is your favorite ice cream flavor?

3in1 flavor.Eh Yun ang gusto niya eh.Selecta 3in1.Ube, chocolate at manga.

What is the one nightmare you remember from your childhood?

We have a similar nightmare when we were kids, He said he kept on dreaming that someone is chasing him and he was trying to run as fast as he could.

What is your all-time favorite song?

The funny thing about his all-time favorite song is, He didn't really understand the meaning of the song or he just interpreted it the other way around .His favorite song is Namumuro Ka Na.He didn't understand what is Namumuro means.Sabi niya nakakarelate daw siya kasi sa lyric eh di ko naman siya inaalila at di ko naman siya sinisigawan haha.Natawa tuloy ako ky hubby.

What is one thing that you wish you could change about yourself?

He wanted to change his attitude, especially the attitude that he can't control his feelings or his mind and the way he talks. I am glad that he is willing to change it because that's always the reason why we have misunderstandings.

Anyway to those who are wondering how we are right now, I know some or most of you are asking when I will stay with my husband. I just chatted with him this morning and this is how our conversation goes.

Translation of our convo

Me: Even if ilang beses pa tayong di magkamis understandings,I will still forgive kasi I will always pray to God na darating din yung time mababalik din tayo sa dati,Na magbabago kapa,eventually nagbabago kana slowly,need mo lang ng taong laging magrereming sayo.Sana you will know kung ano ang ikakabuti ng rating relasyon.Please let's help each other,di madali na ako nalang lagi ang gumagawa ng paraan para mgwork out pa ang relasyon natin.Time will come talaga na napapagod din ako na lumaban mag isa.

Him: I am so sorry if I lose hope so easily especially pag nag aaway tayo,hirap tayong magkaintindihan kasi minsan iba yung pagkaintindi ko .I'm thankful sayo dahil kahit among pagsubok dumating sa atin di ka parin nagpapadala sa emotion.

Me: It's okay bb.You just just need someone na magreremind sayo na hindi dapat ganun ganun nalang sumuko kasi hindi naman tayo magsyota lang eh,we are talking about our marriage life.Remember we got married ,we are bind us one.So we are one .We are married couple.Mga pagsubok lamang ito sa ating marriage life and I hope na kahit pa sa darating na pagsubok u will bare it in your mind na di tayo ngpakasal dahil guapo ka or maganda ako,sample lang yan ha.We choose to be together kasi alam natin na destiny tayo,pinagtagpo tayo ni God to become us one.Hindi pwedeng kunting away lang gigive up na tayo,walang taong perpekto need lang natin ng taong iintindi sa ating perfectly kahit man ang hirap intindihin,pero if you are willing to listen and understand I know everything will be okay.

Him: Thank you for always reminding me bb. I love you

Me: That's my responsiblity as your wife just do your part. I love you always bb.

see?Ang haba ng message compare sa sagot niya Haha.Okay na yan ang important naintindihan na niya ang lahat.

Ending thoughts

I honestly felt happy that I got the chance to ask him those questions, I think I have to do it more often at least this way I will know what's on his mind. Maybe it's just hard for him to open up about what he really feels.

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