How to handle a toddler with tantrums?
Blog:162-23rd
Date :August 30,2022
Time :6:38pmWhen I had my first born,I am blessed because she never had a tantrums at all.She will kept quite when she started crying and then I told her to kept quite.Whenever I saw toddlers who had tantrums,I will tell myself."Sus ako panang anak ako na ng gikunot"(If it was just my child I would probably pinch her).
Not until I had my bunso(my youngest).He just turn 2 years old last June 25.As he gets older I've notice his behavior.If he wants something like he wants milk and I can't give him right away he will throw a tantrums and roll over the floor.I will just tell him to stand up and wait for his milk.Siya ang batang pag may gusto ,gusto niya agad agad makukuha niya.If he wants milk he can only say Mama,milk please.Minsan pinagtritripan ng ate niya.Dami pang pinapasabi like Ate,I want to drink milk please.Then yung anak ko susunod yan kahit anong sabihin ng ate niya kasi may gusto siya eh.Nakakatawa lang kasi pag sinabing want sasabihin ni Bunso two.kasi akala ni bunso his ate is counting.Sasabihin pa ng ate niya to kiss Mama or his ate. So minsan imbes na magtatanrums si bunso madidistract yung mind ni bunso.
May time talaga na bigla bigla nalang siyang tinutupak like pag nglalaro siya tas di niya matama or maayos yung laruan niya tinatapon niya ito. Wala siyang patience when playing.
Pag my tantrums siya at ayaw tumigil kakaiyak minsan hinahayaan na namin. Di namin pinapansin kasi titigil din naman siya kakaiyak pag gusto niya. Minsan naman niyayakap ko siya at kinakausap at tumatahan naman. Minsan ayaw talaga kahit anong gawin ko.
To be honest, hindi madali ang magkaroon ng anak na my tantrums Lalo na pag nasa public, kasi hindi naman siya tatahanan pag pinapatahan mo Mas lalong iiyak. Like nung mag almost two years ago pa siya at pumunta kami ng city Para ipa check siya dahil inatake na naman ng hika. Nahirapan talaga kami ni hubby kasi while waiting Para bumili ng gamot sa pharmacy tinutupak si bunso at ayaw magpakarga eh andaming tao.Kaya kahit plan ko Sana dalhin siya sa Jollibee nung nag 2 years old siya pero nagbago ang isip ko dahil sa tantrums niya. Mas malala pa naman pag nagtantrums siya kasi bigla nalang hihiga sa sahig at ayaw talagang tumayo.
Ending thoughts
As my sons grows up Mas nagiging attention seeker na siya. Kahit man di pa niya nasasabi sa akin na Mas gusto niyang anjan ako lagi kaso I have to leave him Para mag work. Kaya pag day off ko sinusulit namin ang time Para magbonding. Sabi nga sa nabasa ko normal Lang daw ang batang my tantrums. All we can do as parents eh habaan ang patience and give more time to understand them.
Sino ba dito ang my anak na my tantrums din?paano niyo ba inihahandle ang anak niyong may tantrums?
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Same with my son sis, kapag may tantrums nagwawala pero hindi naman siya gumugulong sa sahig at kapag nasa labas naman kami hindi siya ganun kalala, sa bahay lang talaga nagtatapon. Kinakausap ko lang at tumatahan naman. Minsan pinapanuod ko sa paborito nyang palabas, nawawala naman agad yung tupak.