Stepson

Before my husband and i met we both had a child with our first partner,me,i have 1 son and he is 15yrs old now who lives together with his dad while my husband has 2 sons with an age of 20 and 14 yrs.

We accept each other and there was no problem of that.Before the pandemic and my husband's work was still good,he always sent money there every saturday becauce it was their pay day.He stopped temporarily during the pandemic because he also lost his job.Right now we also sent there but rarely,if he's job good and he has a good salary we can still send somehow.However,i can rarely send money to my son because my husband salary is not enough,but even thought i rarely sent to him he understand that and my son's life is also good with his father because his father has permanent job,nothing to worry about.

This january or febuary,my husband found out that his eldest son has stopped studying,in other words he stop again for the 2nd time that supposed to be at his age 20 he should already graduated from grade 12 but he stopped again.When i found out i told my husband to tell his son to just finish his studies because the school days almost finish.I insisted on finishing school to find a better job someday but nothing happened because his son did not follow what he advice,my husband said to me.He is sad but he's nothing to do though his son not listening to him

This march while my husband was at work ,a chat came into he's phone even though not in my habit of interfering and reading chats from his messenger,i accidentally press the chat head while im searching for the video that my baby's watching,then the message shown.The message is from his eldest son.Its written there that he is on the bus travelling to cavity city,we live in cavite but its little far from us,when i read the message i directly told my husband about the mesaage,he told me to reply but i refuse,i said he would just reply when he home at noon,he agree.When he came home he chatted into his son ,he told me that hus son wats to visit here before his bday,"that's good news "i said,it been a years since he celebrate bday with his son,he is happy and excited also.

Days past..

After my husband's work he picked up his son and they went home together.It is the first that i met personally his eldest son(stepson),because his 2nd son was with us when we home to province.Since our first meet im just quit and silent,i am more observant that talking to much.Hindi naman masama ang ugali ko ganon lang talaga ako,ngsasalita lang ako pag tatawagin na para kumain.

I've noticed that my stepson stays awake at night often,he watched videos and playing mobile games with loud sounds even late at night,so i told my husband to tell his son to reduce the sounds,especially when baby slept because she wokes up directly when she heard a noise.Ayaw ko din pagsabihan dahil baka masamain naman.In the morning he wakes up late.I cannot do my house chores because im confuse if i can make a noise that somebody still sleeping,and if the baby will cry i need to take her outside (not my usually do) just to stop her crying, i cant stop myself asking "do i need to adjust".

There was a time that my husband needs a helper to his work,so instead of ibang tao,anak niya nalang para kahit paano magkapera at may maitabi,gabi palang sinabihan na niya na huwag magpuyat para makasama sa work but suddenly his son didnt listen to him so he went to jobsite alone,he left his son sleeping until afternoon.I talk to my husband why he left your son,he answered "ayaw gumising eh".so ganon nalang yun.May time pa na when im cleaning the house i found used facemask,balat ng shitserya,tasang pinag inuman ng kape etc. under my stepson's bed,ginawang basurahan ang ilalim ng kama ano ba yun.Hindi nalang ako nagsalita during that time,i keep to myself unti it happend again,kaya sinabi ko na sa asawa ko na pagsabihan niya anak niya na huwag naman itapon sa ilalim ng kama ang mga basura dahil iipisin at may baby pa naman.

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One day our neighboor invited my stepson to be him para maka pag partime,at night sinabihan siya ulit ng papa niya na huwag magpuyat at mag alarm to wake up early as needed,ng alarm din asawa ko,4am my husband wake me up to cooked rice for my stepson packedlunch,nagsalang ako then nakatulog ako ulit,nagising ako hindi parin gising yung bata,so i waking up my husband para gisingin niya na anak niya,di bale ng siya ang mag antay kesa sa siya ang hihintayin ng taong mgbibigay ng trabaho sa kanya nakakahiya,sabi ko,Sinunod naman ako ng asawa ko.

When my stepson left,i talk to my husband,i told him what if he found permanent job here (my stepson i meant) do i need to wake him up everymorning,cooked for him and everything,he is old enough to be responsible an one,and beside that he has also using vape,in other words may bisyo nadin,wala paman permanent job may permanent bisyo na,how he support his bisyo?nakikinig lang ang asawa ko sakin,i know nag iisip din ang asawa ko kung paano niya sasabihan anak niya in a nice way.

I am not againts if he wants to stay here,ang sakin lang naman maging responsable siya kasi hindi na siya bata,imbes na makatulong mas lalo pa tuloy nadagdagan ang trabaho ko,atsaka ayaw ko yung tanghali na may natutulog pa,imbes na makalinis nako ng bahay at makaluto ng maaga hindi ko magawa kasi kailangan ko ilabas yung baby para hindi mag ingay sa loob ng bahay dahil nga may natutulog pa,ang hirap din mag ajdust sa sarili mong bahay na nakasanayan mo ng kumilos ng ganoong oras pero nadedelay dahil kailangan mong makisama sa taong natutulog pa.Buti sana kung napupuyat sa trabaho eh hindi eh,minsan gusto ko na e off yung wifi sa gabi pero hindi pwede dahil 3 kami nghahati niyan,minsan pa natutulog nag mumusic pa,eh ayaw ko sa lahat yung natutulog ako sa gabi na may ingay akong naririnig kasi napupuyat ako.

Hirap naman talaga hindi ko alam kung ano ba ang dapat kung gawin,kailangan ba talaga na ako ang mag adjust at sumunod sa mga nakasanayan nilang buhay,kahit naman pagsabihan ng ama nila ayaw din naman makinig,pasok sa isang tenga labas sa kabila.

Sa ngayon nakauwi na siya ng probinsya at balak daw bumalik sa 1st birthday at binyag for ng baby girl namin puhon,isasama niya nadaw kapatid niya,sana sa sunod na balik niya hindi niya uulitin ang mga maling hindi magandang ginawa niya,hindi naman ngkulang sa paalala ang ama niya.

Naubusan nako english kaya tinagalog ko nalang hahaha,nag nosebleed nako..ipon ulit ako ng english for ny next article.

Thank you for reading,have a blessed tuesday evening,Godbless and keep safe always..

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